You Don't Stop Getting Percieved As Whatever Sex They Assume You First Had When You Come Out Btw.

you don't stop getting percieved as whatever sex they assume you first had when you come out btw.

come out as a trans man to your school? youre a weird girl that is also trans. you are hated. you have 0 of the privelege of being treated as not a woman and all the horribleness of bigotry. you are whatever gender that will harm you most.

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"oh sorry u cant go on this school trip because yr not a girl and they dont wanna room with you and if you room with any men you are horribly unsafe"

"oh sorry you don't wanna be sexually harassed? well yr a man who cares? this is punching up. be a man why are you upset?"

"mm you have no say here actually cuz youre a GIRL and girls don't have a voice here. ur body my choice tehe"

and many more.

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all of these things can be directed at the same person. you are not more priveleged than other trans people cuz some losers out there have the most basic radfem ass understanding of how oppression works. you culd pass perfectly but the moment they know you are trans you will experience the harmful intersectionality between misogyny and transphobia. to deny that ever happened and that there are complex experiences out there is to deny trans people of their oppression. no matter your intention it is horrible and self harming to the community.

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The subservient part of you isn't a girl. That's to say that women are weak, and we know that's not true. The subservient part of you is a dog.

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7 months ago

divinestray/divinemutt

(pt. divinestray/divinemutt end pt.)

A 10 horizontally striped flag. The colors from top to bottom are: dark brown, dark purple, reddish grey, beige, slightly lighter beige, pale beige, silver blue, light silver blue, foggy grey, light foggy grey. There is a cat symbol in the middle of the flag with Siamese markings with a dark outline.
A 10 horizontally striped flag. The colors from top to bottom are: dark brown, dark purple, reddish grey, beige, slightly lighter beige, pale beige, silver blue, light silver blue, foggy grey, light foggy grey.

Divinestray: a xenogender connected to strays and divinity.

A 10 horizontally striped flag. The colors from top to bottom are: dark brown, dark purple, reddish grey, beige, slightly lighter beige, pale beige, silver blue, reddish grey, dark pale pink, pale pink. There Is a dog symbol in the middle with a dark point marking and dark outline.
A 10 horizontally striped flag. The colors from top to bottom are: dark brown, dark purple, reddish grey, beige, slightly lighter beige, pale beige, silver blue, reddish grey, dark pale pink, pale pink.

Divinemutt: xenogender connected to divinity and mutts.

5 months ago

im sorry rad fems sold you the lie that butches are only Non Threatening (TM) cis women with short hair who wear T-shirts and jeans with a carabiner, but the reality of the situation is a lot of butches are trans, genderqueer, physically imposing, big, male impersonators, hairy (especially including facial hair), sweaty, muscular, "ugly" and/or fat. some butches are into extreme body modification. some went bald. some are body builders. some are transfem butches who don't wanna overperform womanhood, take estrogen, or medically transition. some butches start testosterone strictly to feel more like a butch. some butches pass as cis men, and some need to do so in order to feel like their butch selves. soft butches are great, but that's not the "One Right Way" to be butch. the butches i'm attracted to would make a rad fem scream and cry and piss themselves on the floor.

3 months ago

If you’re intersex and your relationship to being trans and/or cis is complicated, that’s okay.

Perisex people, trans or cis, have no say in how an intersex person experiences their intersex variation in context with their sex and gender identity.

So many intersex people have complicated and nuanced relationships to sex and gender.

Many of us will go from having experiences that are close to trans ones to having experiences that are closer to cis ones. Or vice versa, or transmasc experiences to transfem, or literally any other combination. And these experiences may impact identity. I’ve spoken to intersex people who have stopped identifying as trans, who have gone from identifying as transfem to transmasc, who have begun identifying as transfemmasc, who have stopped identify as transfemmasc and started identifying exclusively as transfem.

A perisex person screaming that you can only be a woman or a man, trans or cis, if you have X, Y, or Z trait is a bigot.

You’re allowed to be yourself and use the words that best describe your own life.


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