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I want to share something someone told me when I first started out as a dom because it was kind of a lightbulb moment for me as an emotional sadist. At the time I was doing aftercare but I didn't understand what psychologically recovering from a scene really meant. Then someone put it into dom terms and it just sort of clicked. So I thought I'd share in case anyone else needs to hear it.

As a degrader and a sadist it's so hot that some subs will be as pathetic as you want them to be... so don't fuck around with their emotions outside of that, that sub is already literally playing with and altering their emotions for your benefit and pleasure. You're overstressing the emotion muscle if you do and rest is essential to any healthy exercise.

You're not giving their feelings any time to rest and recover if you cause emotional distress outside of playtime and you're not giving them the safety and security to play with their emotions again. If you consistently play with humiliation, degradation, or other forms of psychological sadism, you need to be aware of this and plan accordingly.

Avoid big talks or heavy topics immediately after, and do things that will lift your partner's mood in the days following an intense scene even if their mood doesn't need a lift. While you can't see it, by doing that, you've essentially put an emotional ice pack on a sore muscle.

For physical injuries lift the area affected so it can circulate and heal better. For emotional ones it's the same process, lift their mood so positive feelings can circulate and help the recovery along.

RACK and SSC, people. Larynx injuries can be permanent.

Blood choke, NOT air choke.

IF 👏🏼 YOUR 👏🏼 WOMAN 👏🏼 LIKES 👏🏼 BEING 👏🏼 CHOKED 👏🏼 DURING 👏🏼 SEX 👏🏼 YOU'RE 👏🏼 SUPPOSED 👏🏼 TO 👏🏼 SQUEEZE 👏🏼 THE 👏🏼 SIDES 👏🏼 OF 👏🏼 HER 👏🏼 NECK 👏🏼 WITH 👏🏼 YOUR 👏🏼 FINGERS 👏🏼 NOT 👏🏼 CRUSH 👏🏼 HER 👏🏼 WINDPIPE 👏🏼 WITH 👏🏼 YOUR 👏🏼 PALM 👏🏼 YOU 👏🏼 IDIOT 👏🏼

What i mean when i say "its time for something sweet"

Raw enjoyment is always a plus.

Here I find myself again, diving into the depths of Tumblr, as unable to escape them as a ship caught in a whirlpool. With a massive "18+" banner streaming behind me as I sink.

Firstly, caveat emptor! As with everything you do in life, consider safety first! RACK/SSC is the order of business here. I may be able to PORTRAY a rough dom, but I want you safe, above all else.

I'm an older (43) CisHet white male - yes, I am living life on default settings. 6'2", 275 lbs (188cm, 125 kg), shaved head, bearded, hairy dad body.

I'm mostly just here to look through and appreciate all that's on offer that falls within to my niche interests. These interests include, but are not limited to:

-Impregnation/breeding/pregnancy

-Uniform play (of all sorts, not just the cliche schoolgirl)

-DDlg

-cnc

-feral/primal play

-public play

-free-use

I'm certain that I could easily list many more - suffice it to say, the only kinks I DO NOT indulge in are:

-Gore/bloodplay

-Scat

-Vomit

-Anything being inserted anywhere into me. Not shaming, it's just not my thing.

Apropos of nothing in particular, here are some funny numbers.

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If I didn't mention something, and you're curious, ask away! I'm a firm believer that kinks and sdxualoty should be explored, safely, and such exploration starts with the asking of questions.

I've found that simply telling them can net you all sorts of fun results.

How to tell someone you fantasize about them while masturbating?

If I ever did flatbed, this is 100% something that I would do.

Truckers sometimes haul toy trucks for luck or tradition.

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saw your reply on a post and had to come hereee 🫣 afraid im now hooked

Glad I provoked such a rush of curiosity and enjoyment for you. Which post, out of my own curiosity?