My conservative family members seeing me taking up embroidery:
One week later when I post the finished project:
This is all very true, more attention needs to be brought to the rewriting of queer history trying to make it seem like it “wasn’t that bad” because it was. We need to preserve queer history
I want to boost everything this person has said and add on.
The reason I call myself a tomboy now, despite it being seen as a childish word and having had someone swear at me over it because ‘tHeRe’S nO suCh thInG as BoY thInGs anD giRL thIngS sHut uP’ is because I couldn’t call myself that or be like that when I was a kid. It was seen as a negative thing and I was already bullied enough. “Looking like a boy” was the worst thing that could happen to a girl.
And I’m not even 26 yet. We aren’t talking 30+ years ago, we are talking 2000s and even 2010s. It’s only since trans people have become more accepted in the past few years that gender nonconformity has too.
And the people who helped me accept my gender nonconformity more than anyone else? Were trans people. They taught me, “there’s nothing wrong with how you feel. You’re still a valid woman no matter what you wear, how you have your hair or what you’re into ❤️”
And don’t even get me started on how people treat gender nonconforming men. JK Rowling has a lot of nerve to be like “uwu boys can wear dresses and only us gendercrits accept that!” when she has, even in recent works, made femininity in men a negative trait, as well as making masculinity in women a negative trait also.
A lot of people still don’t accept gnc people even now. Just last year I had someone tell me they’d never let their daughter “dress like a boy”, and I’m always terrified to walk into a bathroom in case the next JK Rowling is in there, sees my gender expression and pepper sprays me or worse.
“There’s no such thing as boy things and girl things.” I don’t need to be told that and I’m sure 99% of trans people also don’t need to be told that. Tell that to the society that hates us both instead of actively encouraging that hate.
Saw a thread on Twitter of "gifts to give a person with ADHD and autism" that was full of stereotypical and quite frankly patronizing items, so here's a list of I (autistic individual) want instead as a gift
Money
Fourteen billion dollars
Free coupon to kill somebody with my teeth
Suitcase full of money
Cool looking rock
Scratching post for me to sink my claws into
An albino elephant
The head of Jeff Bezos mounted on my wall
Uncooked rice
A cup full of blood
100k in cash
Absolutely, I’m one of them
I'm trying to prove something.
i love having friends with favorite colors & shit so i can just send them random crap like yess this is pink ill show it to the pink friend this has a fish ill show it to the fish friend. fish is a color btw
Just remembered today is Gaara’s birthday
Happy birthday Gaara!!!
So I’ve started reading the Naruto manga, and i don’t care if the nine tails is like. A bad influence or something, but this is how I’ll always see Naruto, he’s just like an irl fox
He’s just a silly lil guy
Anyways, happy birthday Naruto uzumaki
My new Grass & Field’s brush pack is officially out for Photoshop CC, Procreate, and Clip Studio Paint!
You can download it from this page (click!)
Like all my brush packs it is free, with tips welcome but optional. You can use these brushes in anything - personal work, freelance work, professional work, commercial work - including things you sell, no license required. Demo videos are linked on the product page. Enjoy!!
i can’t afford art block today, please great duck
Jack-AroAce-He/They My main blog, I’ll occasionally post art here, as well as things I’ve found and would like to share, among other things. Feel free to ask me stuff! People being actively anti-LGBTQ+, racist, sexist, and overall bigoted will be blocked -NO NSFW-(Pfp is by me)
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