someone on the news claiming that "adhd is fashionable" meanwhile people are still dicks if you forget things easily, need people to give clear instructions, ask someone to repeat themselves, or can't sit still for longer than half an hour at a time. this is like saying "ocd is fashionable" because people like to say they're "a little ocd" when they like things organised
i’m supposed to settle with boys who send “wyd””u send?” or “i though u were gunna pay” WHEN HOZIER EXISTS??? that’s the type of man I like.
“oh but its just your shoulder!” - you may see a disabled person and think something along the lines of this.
(or whatever body part/system you can see is affected.)
but many abled people seem to find it very hard to grasp just how much of their daily life relies on such body part.
which is understandable because why would you be thinking about how much you rely on your shoulder. yours works!
but imagine if every single time in a day, where you went to use your shoulder, you had someone pinch you. youd be surprised by just how fast youd get tired of being pinched.
not to mention that having just one health issue is not exactly the norm within the disabled community. bodies are too complex for that 🥲
Lidia Yuknavitch, from Reading the Waves: A Memoir published in 2025
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Hehehe I’m a demiboy <3
manifesting this for all my disabled friends.
get you a partner who loves you as much as walking canes love falling to the floor at every opportunity.
oh to be able to cover a letter that I have spilled my heart onto in a confession of love with my lipstick so that the love of my life can treasure the little bit of me that has mad the distance.