Just Passing By To Remind You Guys: You're Not Evil For Cutting Off Your Abusive Families. You're Not

Just passing by to remind you guys: you're not evil for cutting off your abusive families. You're not selfish, nor petty, nor the bad guys. Don't ever feel guilty. You're brave, strong and amazing.

I know you'll listen a lot of "oh but you only have one family!"

First, shut up Karen. Second, if it was a romantic partner, they'd be praising us for having the courage to leave them, so why is it that a family member showing the same behaviours get a free pass? They don't.

The axe forgets, but the tree remembers.

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DAY 15

GIVE IT UP FOR DAY 15

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Art Sled Rally at Powderhorn Park!

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#Minnesota #Minneapolis

2 months ago

this is your gentle reminder to stop fighting against your adhd and instead structure your life around it

buy a pack of chapsticks and put one in the pocket of all of your coats and jackets because you always forget to bring one and chapped lips is sensory hell

leave important things where you can see them. if they go in a box or a drawer you will forget they exist

put any appointments or deadlines in your phone calendar As Soon As you get them. set a reminder for a week before, a day before, an hour before, as many as you need as often as you need them.

when that little voice in your head says "i dont need to write that down, ill remember it" that is the devil talking!!! write it down anyway!!

plan for down time. have a few hours at the end of every day to just do fun stuff like engage in your hyperfixations. even if you didnt get all of your work done that day, have the rest anyway. you probably spent the whole day beating yourself up for not doing what you Should be doing, so you still need the break.

if you never eat vegetables because its too much effort to chop and cook them, get the frozen or canned shit. it doesnt go off for ages and you just have to microwave it. theres no point buying fresh vegetables if they just keep going off and being left to rot in the bottom of your fridge

if you struggle to decide what to have for dinner every day, take the decision out of it. choose a set of meals and eat those on rotation until you get sick of them, then choose some new ones and do it again.

its not stupid if it works! our brains literally have a chemical deficiency. you are allowed to accommodate yourself. go forth and stop making your life more difficult than it has to be because "this shouldn't be this hard". it is hard, so make it easier.

3 months ago

all these gay girls are like "wow i want a big lady to step on me" but where is the love for short girls stepping on you? short girl intimidating you with her presence and body language alone until you fall over and she steps on you?? short girl taking down a girl who's much taller than her and making her submit??? where's the love for my shadow of the colossus bitches???

1 month ago
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Croissant manatee 🥐

4 months ago

Actually no one should be having sex. All of us are aged-up minors and the passage of time is inherently problematic


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