@pink2710 yes it is.
There have been times in our kink relationship that I have told Naomi that I would only give her attention or fuck her if she had a used pussy. It was very much motivation and turn-on for her to beg me arrange dates for her to fuck other guys much more often... She also became very eager and aroused to show me that she had been a good girl and her pussy was used. All dexy play.
I have bought my wife many things to wear to share her with guys or for the many dates she now goes on. She always appreciates my attention and taste in what get her. Very much part of all the turn-ons. I do find it additionally exciting, most especially back in the beginning for her to spot something or to be looking for something specific when we are out together or to bring something home herself all very much in mind for when she is being a slut with me or other guys.. I really enjoy that she thinks and is turned on by all of it as much as I am.
U r cheap my wife...
Always encouraged.