“lurkers DESTROY Tumblr” Is Such An Unhinged Take I Am Sorry But You Do You, Lurkers. Make Your Accounts.

Just overheard someone say "it's like all we think about, just death and sex and killing" girl who is we

みなさん　メシはすみましたか

Have you ever finished your meal?

Don't get intellectually lazy now

フホンイですよ…

It's unwilling...

こふも　フホンイでち！

Kofu also unwilling!

I don't think younger/newer users fully grasp the shit show that ace discourse was around 2014-17

It was so hostile that, to this day, discussions that begin to derail just enough can make me physically nauseous, some specific mockery trigger crying sessions years later. We lost most accounts with any sort of ace positivity. There was no information, no support, and all this damage was done predominantly by other queer people.

All this to say that you, however you identify yourself, should be engaging with aphobic comments the same way you do any hate. We don't sugarcoat or try to be comprehensive with people who are blatantly racist, homophobic or terfs, so why give it a pass just because it's coming from a queer person? I see how this tolerance goes and it's done enough damage as it is.

Happy International Asexuality Day!!! No matter where you are in the world, you are seen, recognized, and loved!

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