Hey Gentle Reminder That You Can Ignore Those "Reblog! If You Don't You're [extremely Upsetting Label

Hey gentle reminder that you can ignore those "Reblog! If you don't you're [extremely upsetting label here]" posts. You should ignore them, btw. You don't suddenly become a racist because you ignored someone trying to farm interaction, you don't become homophobic because you felt bad about exposing your followers and friends to that, you don't become a bigot because of other people trying to guilt trip you.

If you're not purposely causing harm to minority groups or hold bigoted beliefs, you don't suddenly become a bigot because you ignored someone being an ass. You're allowed to ignore guilt tripping messages and if someone gets irritated at you for ignoring them, tell them to get a grip. 🫂

Likewise, you're allowed to ignore:

Guilt tripping spam asks.

Scam asks.

"Reblog if your account is [group] safe!" posts

"If you don't reblog, I'm going to assume you're a [insert term here]" posts

"People are dying, you can spare some time to reblog" posts

Posts that show actual pictures of real life tragedy with the intent of hoping you spread it across the platform.

"How dare you donate to Ao3/Wikipedia when there's [insert other tragedies here] going on!" posts

Posts that imply that you shouldn't have a safe space and that it's cruel to have your account be a safe space.

Posts that say you shouldn't be happy while there's tragedies going on in the real world.

At the end of the day, 90% of those posts use the "other people have it worse" mindset and that ISN'T HEALTHY. You don't tell someone that's happy they aren't allowed to be happy because someone else is happier than them at the moment, so don't do it for pain and suffering.

Anyway, I suggest you block the people that make guilt tripping posts. Better for your mindset in the long run and people need to realize they can get their point across without triggering people's OCD/thought spirals.

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reblog true :( they make me quite mad quite? i mean very mad

Happy valentine's day from Shakuyaku and Hazamada! 💕🍫

Yukari Shakuyaku (JJBA original character) hugging Toshikazu Hazamada (canon character) from behind, offering him a pink, heart-shaped chocolate box with a red ribbon decorated with white dots. Yukari seems shy and nervous about delivering the gift, but still has a small smile on her face. As for Hazamada, he has a quite shocked face, blushing filling his cheeks.
They're both on their normal school uniform, with the only difference being that they're wearing scarfs (Yukari wears a purple plaid one, and Hazamada wears a red plaid one).
The background is a pastel tone of pink, with cherry blosson flowers decorating the left side of the picture. in the top right corner, it's written, with the Papyrus font: "Happy Valentine's Day", with "02 / 14" written at the bottom.

(open image for better quality)

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Spotify ship art oc oc x canon artwork original character jojos bizarre adventure valentines day proship oc x cc self ship selfship community diamond is unbreakable antis dni anti anti profiction antis do not interact proselfship original character x canon character 𓏲𝄢 rotten boy ; grotesque romance toshikazu hazamada

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oyanagicake

2 weeks ago

Shakuyaku is perhaps fudge or biscuit, while Hazamada is inky :3

I'm navy, he's iris (๑^ᴗ^๑) ♡

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reblog 𓏲𝄢 rotten boy ; grotesque romance hazayuka

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oyanagicake

3 months ago

also i WILL answer the selfship asks, don't worry!

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ugyuu

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oyanagicake

3 weeks ago

the proship tag got spammed twice. not once, but twice. is that a new record? probably

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proship antis dni anti anti profiction antis do not interact anti radqueer

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oyanagicake

3 months ago

imagine your kodo sibling f/o hugging you from the back. it seemed innocent but no one but you can see them groping your breasts.

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reblog nsft shipcest oughhgh cw shota cw shotacon f/o: ken oyanagi sh0ta f/o that's just ken with shakuyaku and his ass would still say it's a little brother thingy

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oyanagicake

4 months ago

é verdade!!! a Yukari agradece 🙏 (eu sei quem mandou e ela te agradece te acha muito foda 🙏🙏)

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oyanagicake

3 months ago

Saint Seiya fandom is like the funniest shit ever because i've seen so many people (at least in the brazilian side of the fandom) being those old guys that say old media is better because it's not "woke". my brother in christ you're a SAINT SEIYA FAN 😭

Cygnus Hyoga and Andromeda Shun
i think that's self explanatory

Pisces Aphrodite
let's not forget his name is literally APHRODITE. you know. the goddess of love and beauty in greek mythology? he's not literally the goddess but shares the same name for... obvious reasons.

Lizard Misty
bathing naked on the sea after almost murdering seiya

like that doesn't seem straight not even a tiny bit. like, YES, it is a shounen anime / manga, with tons of fights, especially for male audiences but come on... you can't deny some scenes, ESPECIALLY in the anime, are kinda...

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proship fandom discourse anti anti profiction saint seiya andromeda shun pisces aphrodite cygnus hyoga os cavaleiros do zodiaco lizard misty

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oyanagicake

4 months ago

Lemme just say that I absolutely adore self shippers with f/o's who are really obscure characters.

If your f/o is a background character, they're really happy you picked their face out in the crowd and fell in love with them! 💗

If your f/o is a character from a really old piece of media, they're happy that the sands of time haven't stopped you from loving them! ❤️

If your f/o is from an obscure piece of media, it makes them happy that you found them and hold them close like a precious treasure that was waiting to be found 💝

If your f/o is often forgotten by the fandom, it warms their heart to know you've immortalized them with your love 💖

If your f/o is unconventional, it makes them feel so special that they're just your taste! ❤️‍🔥

YOUR F/O'S LOVE YOU!!

('borrowed' from an anti)

Lemme Just Say That I Absolutely Adore Self Shippers With F/o's Who Are Really Obscure Characters.

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oyanagicake

1 month ago

Do you ship them? (Oingo x Boingo)

TYPE: Brother Incest

MEDIA: Jojo's Bizarre Adventure: Stardust Crusaders

PAIRINGS: M/M

SHIP NAME: Oingo Boingo Brothers (?) (I've seen japanese artists using OiBoi [オイボイ])

Propaganda:

absolute cool characters. make a great duo, show to care a lot for each other. for example, in one scene, some mangaka is asking for Boingo's stand (a literal comic book) asking if he could sell, Oingo immediately intervenes and scares off the mangaka saying the comic book isn't at sale. the way he holds Boingo and tells him to not talk to strangers... the way both laugh at their ideas of killing the Joestars... the way Boingo promises to kill the Joestars when Oingo is all fucked up. i love it also they have an ending of their own.

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reblog brocon shipcest cw age gap cw shota cw shotacon pretty ships have watched ship them oingo boingo brothers oh dear i wasn't even remembering that i sent this anymore 😭

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oyanagicake

4 months ago