Errands For Mom

i nearly couldn’t find my jacket and i was like oh nooooo bcs. how am i meant to buy ice cream with no jacket?? it’s cold outside.

but i found it and i swear i’m actually going now

im gonna buy a tub of ice cream (haagen-daas) as soon as my hair is dry

never really thought about why my five year old cousin likes plates of grated cheese until i had one and holy shit she was onto something

some aces are virgins

some aces love sex

some aces have sexual trauma

some aces don't want sex

some aces masturbate

some aces are teenagers

some aces are in their seventies

some aces dress modestly

some aces wear skimpy clothes

some aces only date aces

some aces don't want romance

and we're all valid : )

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my ask box is open,,,,if you care

the difference matters:

sex-positive: you want people in general to be able to sexually express themselves freely. this should ideally include asexuality. this is not about you as an individual.

sex-favourable: you want to have sex for whatever reason.

sex-neutral: you don't really have an opinion about freedom of sexual expression. this is about people in general, not you specifically.

sex-indifferent: you don't really care if you personally have sex or not, you could take it or leave it.

sex-negative: you only want people to have a limited sexual expression.

sex-averse: you don't want to participate in sex.

positive/neutral/negative refer to your stance on how sex is treated within society.

favourable/indifferent/averse refer to how you personally feel about participating in sex.

you can be a sex-averse asexual and still be sex-positive.

there's a common misconception that aces, especially sex-averse aces, are all "anti-sex", but some parts of the ace community still hasn't learned the nuance of these terms either. i still see people call sex-favourable aces sex-positive when they mean different things.

EW WHAT DID THEY DO TO THE FORMAT.

OMORI ON MY FEED?? HELL YES

they are best friends it's true

Please return us to a world where Notp and squick are used for a ship you don’t like instead of just making up a load of bullshit about how immoral it is or w/e lol 

hell yeah let me in

Reblog to join the transfem cuddle pile :3

Transmascs gays lesbians aros aces and aplatonics are also welcome as long as you’re not cishetallo :3

Oop also Intersex fellas may join

If you fall under the umbrella of “one of them queers” you may join