Paxencemorelli - Maxence Porelli

*this is especially important: these days on Tumblr there’s a wonderful atmosphere of being able to talk openly about your mental illness or your struggle. And that’s great! But there’s a difference between sharing in order to help yourself and other people and sharing just because you have no other coping mechanisms. As much as you’re able, try to work on developing a different outlet. People aren’t qualified to be your therapist because they’re nice to you a couple of times. Please remember that they have lives too, and their job is not to make you feel better or pity you, no matter how difficult your life is. 

And last but not least: 

But… 

I really don’t have a way to better this. 

Your interests are your own. I can’t advise anyone to change their interests to fit in with a certain group of people - that’s stupid, and actually quite damaging to your sense of self. 

Instead, I would recommend that, maybe if you feel like your topics of conversation are falling flat with this group of people, you move on to other, greener pastures. There are bound to be places where your ideas mesh better with an audience. 

And of course - try to be considerate about what you say and how you say it. 

Sometimes, what might seem like a harmless comment to you might be a very discomforting thought to another person. I recently had a conversation on a forum with a guy who was telling me that his headcanon was that Pearl (from SU) would soon get a male love interest who loved mechanics and weapons next, and that would be her best arc, because she would finally get a ‘healthy’ love interest. 

His intentions were good, but he was entirely unaware of how cringey this kind of thing was to a bunch of (probably queer) people, who have spent their entire lives being told that the only ‘good’ character development for them would be to get a ‘male love interest’. No one wanted to be the jerk to say “fuck off, we don’t want that to happen” but everyone was answering him in a flat way, trying to discourage the discussion further. Instead of picking up on the hint, he bulldozed on, thinking he was having a ‘lively conversation’ which was, in fact, in its late stages of death. 

I know I’ll probably get a few messages to this saying: What about people on the Autistic Spectrum? Sometimes, people can’t pick up social cues or ‘hints’. And if that’s the case, it’s incredibly difficult to understand why you’re not having any luck communicating despite your best efforts. 

I feel that on a person level, please believe me. I made this infograph for THAT VERY REASON. Because I WAS that awkward kid who didn’t pick up on hints well. In fact, I still have trouble talking to people. If any of you have had the misfortune of being my conversational partner, you’ll know that I tend to be overly blunt and come off as very unfriendly. It’s something that I, myself, am working on currently in order to grow into a better person. It’s a struggle in progress, but I am aiming towards the progress side, and I just wanted to help out others while I was at it. 

hey these are some tips for some of the little details in drawing fat folks that some people might not know!

everyone has fat on their bodies so its a worthwhile skill to have, but most art tutorials leave it out. heres some other good tips from artists!!

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the strawberry patch

as requested- my zine about fat and plus size body types from instagram!💖 happy drawing everyone!

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fat bodies tutorial!

ALRIGHT SO my pal @kalreyno wanted help with drawing fat characters and as a fat artist i felt like i could give a bit of helpful insight on

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hometownrockstar

some notes on drawing fat bodies in a stylized or cartoony art style! i tried to explain and illustrate things i keep in mind while drawing

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how to draw fat faces and necks better

something i notice a lot with artists trying to draw fat people is that even if they get the bodies decent they often draw the heads and nec

klance rec masterlist

* = smut

Dirty Laundry by Anonymous

Watercast by Fishwrites

Sweet Quiznak by CheckeredCloth

i bet you look good on the dancefloor by xShieru

Nightmares by Trashness

so why don’t we fall by aknightley *

Ride Me Softly Into The Night by umeyaoi *

Welcome To Nerve by cassianandor

The Sleepover by Klance_Convert *

Truth or dare by Sleeplessstrawberry

Mermaids Don’t Have Assholes, So How Do They Shit? by thatdankKoushi *

If I Can’t Have You by umeyaoi

Klance Secret Santa by orphan_account

Morning, Love (Klance) by Rigel126

Klance | Proud of You, Proud of US by tachipaws

Meet-Cute, more like Meet-Ugly by mysterem

Confessions by Geesehaveteeththatisterrifying

24 Hours of You by Merl

blue by ilikepie1079

Nosedive by quartetship *

Eye Painting Process by zarinasart

Support the artist on Patreon!

As ppl are asking, I finally decide to create a masterpost for my bodyguard au✨ The official name of it is One Step Closer (which is from my first art of this au and Idk why it took me so long to announce it formally lol) So here we go….I’ll just put the links in order since they are rather random

§ Setting § § Art § The beginning Good night kiss Drunk kitty, sweet kitty Prince and the masterpiece Pre-festival date Festival dating When cats are young Little eggplant He’s beauty, he’s grace Nom nom nom

§ Fic § (mostly from talented @goramidiot♥) Costumes and Dances Meet the Dad Butterfly Touches § Gift § Birthday gift from @blk-l Enjoys blues with you from @shevoj1207 ﹍﹍﹍ Also please never forget to check out my senpai of this au: @littlecofiegirl and her amazing works! Thanks her so much for giving me the inspiration of everything 🙏💕

another art tutorial post :) this time it’s for rainbow effects

How to paint reflective objects by rvh_creations

I got a request to do a tutorial on how to create galaxies! Well, here you go!! Painting galaxies is so much fun, and can be really calming. So have fun!! 

If you have any questions or if I made a mistake, feel free to message me!

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process post for this piece but with more explanation. I originally made this for instagram but they seemed to like it so. might as well archive it here too.

Here’s a condensed video of the painting process I recorded for one of my drawings. This is one of the eight full process videos (each 1-3 hours long) received by my patrons on Patreon.com/Yuumei for March.

I’ll be posting a poll on Patreon soon to let people vote on which of the 8 videos they would like me to turn into a tutorial. The finished tutorial will be shared for free :)