Let’s pretend it’s still the 3rd
do you have any academic papers or work in mind if I wanted to read further on medieval displays of masculine emotion?
*vibrates* I absolutely do. Since it sounds as though you're interested in this at any time and in any place during the Middle Ages, the below will be an assortment.
Will Cerbone, “Real Men of the Viking Age,” in: Whose Middle Ages? Teachable Moments for an Ill-Used Past, 243-55 (2019) [Designed for a student audience, deliberately contrasts Viking ideals with those of, e.g., MCU Thor]
Jo Ann McNamara, “The Herrenfrage: The Restructuring of the Gender System, 1050 to 1150," in: Medieval Masculinities, ed. Clare A. Lees (1994) [This is a classic for a reason, and I think does a really interesting/useful job of talking about how class and vocation mattered to the expression/understanding of masculinity]
James A. Schultz, Courtly Love, the Love of Courtliness, and the History of Sexuality (2006) [I hope I'm remembering the emotional history content of this one correctly]
Jim Casey, "Feeling It Like a Man: Masculine Grief in Medieval and Early Modern Texts," in: Grief, Gender, and Identity in the Middle Ages (2021) [Starts off with Butler and Bourdieu, to give you a feel for it]
Also, while I haven't personally read it, I'm just so glad that Robin Morris has written an essay called "Sad Men in Beowulf."
Also also, a couple of good books about medieval emotion more generally, not focused on masculinity specifically:
Barbara Rosenwein, Emotional Communities in the Early Middle Ages (2006)
Paul R. Hyams, Rancor and Reconciliation in Medieval England (2003)
Big doodle dump, mostly for TROD AU (some spoilers maybe) + some memes. I can never decide how I want to draw them
Close enough
What’s the one special scene in your WIP that got you to write the piece? How was it in your head, versus how did it end up being written down?