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guys, an "endogenic system" isn't a real thing, it's literally all made up by insufferable randoms on the internet for more attention

[turns towards the camera]

y'know, sysmeds.

Cats getting caught doing crimes

HEARTBREAKING: band you just discovered doesn't have any other songs that sound like that

coming onto tumblr and almost immediately across the endo/trauma syscourse is very fascinating bc like it's such a typical internet discourse? like a bunch of people making up words that don't mean anything just so they can get mad at people and play trauma olympics is so absurd you probably counld come up with it lol anyway don't let anyone tell you your experiences are not valid etc fuck sysmeds

Trans girls, in my experience, have largely lived an existence in which for the vast majority of our lives, we've never been anybody's first choice romantically. That's if we're chosen at all.

Second choice? Yeah. Back up plan? Happens. Fetishized? Always.

But never just chosen. Never just pursued. Never loved quite as much as we need. Never the object of obsession. Never the focus of passion.

Every love feels like it's one better option disappearing like a vapor in the wind.

So I say all that to say, if you're romantically inclined, and you love a trans girl. Choose her. Really choose her. Choose her in every moment. Make her feel like she's the only one that matters and do it every day, because it's possible, likely even, that she's never felt that before.

Really choose her, or you will break her heart.

If you're not willing to do that, leave her the fuck alone.

plural problem where ur trying to domme a girl but the things you do keep flustering your own headmates.

like I'm trying to make her cry, the scene doesn't work if you front and start crying too*

(*exceptions exist for "dear god what did my headmate do to you im so sorry"-type crying)

hey so if your catgirl keeps getting "accidentally" tangled up in yarn, maybe what she really want's is to get tied up? ever tried that?

i like women we should make more of them (plurality)

i like women we should make more of them (forcefem)

"arts and crafts" is so lame English should borrow the German word basteln. to bastel. you can borrow it. make your life easier.