she/her 20. on da spectrum and on jah.
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Me: They still like me. Thank God.
What helped me the most was brushing before going to the restroom the first time everyday. A somewhat routine schedule.
i have struggled with brushing my teeth regularly for a while now but i have recently gotten better at doing it a couple times a week now instead of like, once a month, and i figured i should share some things that helped me.
generally speaking, the reason why someone isnt brushing their teeth will fall into one of the following categories:
forgetfulness
not liking the taste
not liking the texture
not enough stimulation during the task
lack of spoons
its a good idea to try to identify which of the categories you fall into. i am mostly forgetfulness but the others are mixed in there too. they also often overlap quite a bit
not every one of these tips will work for both, but a lot of them overlap enough that i figured it may aswell be one category for the sake of brevity
try keeping your toothbrush in your shower or next to your bed or somewhere that you are likely to see it and have time to use it. i have three toothbrushes in different places in my house
incorporating brushing my teeth into my shower routine has really really helped me ( i mention it a bunch, sorry in advance)
allow yourself to brush your teeth at any time of the day, not just when you "should" be. brushing your teeth at 1pm before lunch is better than not brushing your teeth at all
if they help, set alarms reminding you to do it
i keep a set of those floss/toothpick combos next to my bed that i use whenever i am watching a youtube video or something which is especially good when ive missed a couple days
if you have housemates that youre willing to ask, see if you can brush your teeth with them
easier said than done, but try not to beat yourself up when you dont brush your teeth. youll just start to associate it with that bad feeling
there are starting to be some fun flavors of toothpaste, its worth trying to get one that you like the taste of
if you cant find one that you like the taste of, dry-brushing is better than nothing
brushing in the shower helps really rinse out your mouth properly so you no longer taste any toothpaste (otherwise i usually have to keep going back to the sink every two seconds)
if you can stand it, mouthwash is your friend
experiment with different kinds of brushes or toothpaste as some brushes are softer/tougher and some toothpastes froth more or less
if you cant do toothbrushes at all, using your finger is absolutely okay, or wet cloth of some kind
try to find a way to scrape off buildup on your teeth. like i already mentioned, I keep floss next to my bed and that is quite helpful when trying to scrape stuff off. a cloth would also work i imagine
try watching something or listening to something while brushing your teeth
dont be afraid to get silly with it!
get a fun toothbrush! they are usually advertised to young kids and so might be a little small for your mouth but a toothbrush is a toothbrush!
same for fun toothpaste! and mouthwash!
i saw someone talk about how they got 7 different flavors of toothpaste to have a different kind every day of the week
if you can, try to leave the toothpaste in your mouth for as long as possible (without swallowing it of course)
floss!!
if you can, use mouthwash!
i know that it is super hard to do sometimes, but brushing your teeth is so important.
if you have any tips of your own please share them!
Time?
I don't move on the x, y or z axis but on a secret fourth axis.
I like the figure at the top sketch. The proportions look correct and the hourglass figure is there. Keep trying!
ok I don't remember what this was about so
maybe one day I'll be ok with my messy sketches
bc I enjoy other artists' messy sketches...
- I hate it in myself, im useless, im ridiclous, I want to cry, my behavior is childish, I cant do anything right
If you are experiencing self hate, it may be depression talking, not your rational mind. Keep in mind that self hate contrubutes nothing. I have been there, and know your pain. Please consider seeing a therapist of thoughts of seld hate continue.
If seeing a therapist is a no go, just know that we love you just how you are. No one expects perfection from you, not because you arent amazing, but because perfection is impossible.
I can't draw + I hate it in myself + I'm useless + I'm ridiculous + I want to cry + my behavior is childish + I can't do anything right
- I cant draw
This is objectively incorrect. You can produce art, and better than I can. I think what you mean to say (and sorry if I put words in your mouth) is "I cannot meet my expectations."
This is a toxic mindset. Don't think about your ability to produce the best art in the world, think about your ability to produce your best you can.
Whats important is that you keep trying. You will meet your expectations someday. I believe in you.
I can't draw + I hate it in myself + I'm useless + I'm ridiculous + I want to cry + my behavior is childish + I can't do anything right
Sometimes, my friends will say something to the effect of "I can't create art, I dont have the skill."
Bestie, you do not need to be the next Picasso, Tolkien, or Michelanglo to be an artist. What it takes to be an artist is a desire to create and improve.
Its like climbing a mountain. If you stare at the top, you miss the step in front.
You do not have to create anything beautiful, not even in your eyes. You just need to take the next step.
Side note: i notice this the most with people who are neurodivergent. This may be because we often come to the conclusion that we are less than. You aren't lesser, regardless of your ability. A lesser artist is one who does not try.
I am sorry that happened. I know that someday the androgynous soul that you have will be expressed outwardly as much as it is inward. If you need someone to talk to, we will be here for you.
Having a tough time out bc I got clocked and idk Iβm not happy about it
Rule
Philosopher king level take
What you have to understand is that the World Chess Federation had to ban trans women due to the innate biological advantage they have in chess tournaments. Trans women have more sensitive prostates than cis women, making it more easy to cheat using a vibrating butt plug.
Sounds like tonsillitis to me. Give it a few days and see if it calms down. If not, promise me you will see someone.
(Usually bacterial infection for the record)
Still struggling to breathe but at least with enough alcohol in me i dont have the mental faculties to be anxious about it π
I love debugging code while tipsy lol
Are you ok? Do you need a inhaler or something?
Still struggling to breathe but at least with enough alcohol in me i dont have the mental faculties to be anxious about it π
I love debugging code while tipsy lol
Fucked up new season of AoT.
"Hey mom, what the fuck is that?"
image by zlofsky2nd on twitter (I am NOT calling it X)
Hi everyone , my name is Ronald , I'm an activist from the queer community in kakuma refugee camp . I'm here to spread awareness about our situation, creating awareness and fundraising for our cause .
https://gofund.me/c3c14a45
"Greetings traveler, could I intrest you, a person of (might I say) tasteful persuasion in my wares?"
"No money? That is a shame indeed. Away with you miscreant."
Hi butass naked
Just a little off the top
As a learning artist myself, allow me to remind you that you dont need to be the next Picasso or Van Gogh. Make art that is beautiful in your eyes first.
Mad props for trying something new!
hey! I've decided I will be learning to draw! I'll be documenting my journey on here because hey, someone might see and start drawing too!
Yeah it's a bit late in life but so what? you only ever get one shot and like heck will I pass up on creation just because I'm supposed to be sad regretting my life and watching the news. That's silly. Much better to dive in!
I made this a long time ago but for some reason never posted! It is my quick guide to protecting yourself against burnout as a person with ADHD and ASD.
Of course it is all about meeting your support needs at the end of the day, which are completely individual and may vary over time, but this could function as a guide if you have a hard time figuring out where to start! π«Άπ» πππ
NASA putting mice in zero-g environments is one of the funniest fucking tests anyone has ever done and I hate having to hand that to them. Put those beasts in a situation.
Daddy has a very special task for you today kitten, so he's going to need alllll of your attention and submission β€οΈπ That's a good girl. Now, first thing's first, look at this parts diagram for a 2009 Toyota Prius. Do you see the part labeled "catalytic converter"?
:3
Do yall like trans girls with tons of body hair? I don't mean just armpits and pubes, I mean whole body. Like ass, chest, belly, arms, legs. Cause if you do, I may actually start to like the way my body looks
Putting aside the notion that people dont like hairy trans gals (just casually disregard my existence like that), dont base your self worth on what others want or expect. Be yourself!
Do yall like trans girls with tons of body hair? I don't mean just armpits and pubes, I mean whole body. Like ass, chest, belly, arms, legs. Cause if you do, I may actually start to like the way my body looks