Woah, You Want Trauma Survivors To Suffer And Think We're Monsters? You're So Cool, Man.

Love it.

Endophobic flag!

Red for the hatred of endos

Peach for did/osdd systems who have been wronged and hurt by endos

White for did/osdd spaces without endos/lack of need for endo safe spaces

Blue for solidarity between did and osdd systems who are endophobic

okay but this is straight up just the gnc flag with dulled colors...

Permateen: A term used within the transage community to refer to those who identify as teens (pubescent and post-pubescent adolescents), regardless of their chronological (or physical) age. Aka; intra-teen.

so you believe that the rapist child abuser in my inbox the other day was a good person and did nothing wrong? that's really all I need to know

FUCK it makes me so angry how radqueers refuse to even acknowledge they have done ANYTHING wrong. They refuse to acknowledge what people on their side are doing. They're fucking ignorant and disgusting and I hate all of them so much. "Not all of us are like this" THEN TALK ABOUT THE ONES WHO ARE. TALK ABOUT THE ONES YOU DON'T SUPPORT AND THE FLAWS YOU ALL HAVE. UGH.

While I'm at this rage train, disabled is not an identity. At all. In no circumstance.

This blog is not safe for so-called "transabled" people. I block on sight. Don't even bother interacting because you're wasting your time AND outing yourself.

You're ableist and it's fetishy and gross. You can post all the positivity you want but that doesn't change the fact that your behavior is disgusting and you should look into getting psychiatric help.

Because the only thing that could cause you to think this way is a psychiatric condition such as BIID. People who are in therapy for their BIID or recognize they need therapy are welcome to interact <3

That's not an excuse to be an ableist, though. Disabled people are trying to get healthcare as is and you think you deserve to be treated differently because you want to be disabled? Are you LARPing rn?

You people want this so badly you choose to attempt to appropriate an entire marginalized community's experience. And it's the same with a lot of so-called endogenic systems.

Lots of overlap in shitty behavior here. I'm just saying what I have a feeling we're all thinking. ✨

Ty ✨

^

Maybe us anti-endos should start calling ourselves pro-science, since endogenesis directly contradicts science. Maybe we should drop the anti-endo thing entirely, the s*smed thing they're pushing onto us too. Then, they'd have to admit they're anti-science if they try to badmouth us.

my biggest bone to pick with pro-endos is that the majority of what i’ve seen them say when it comes to issues that they face pretty much all revolve around (mostly internet) invalidation and exclusion, to the point where i’ve seen some endos say that at least we (DIDOSDD anti-endos) are recognized as “the real ones” or like “well fakedisordercringe is laughing at all of us anyways you don’t look any better in their eyes” (the latter was a post semi recently in the syscourse tag and the former was an ask on the syscourse confessions blog). not trying to call out any particular person with this, just that it very clearly shows how unaligned the goals of pro-endos vs anti-endos are. and it blows my mind that they seem to think that not only being recognized as a DIDOSDD system is a GOOD thing, both online and offline, but that it means you’re immune from getting fakeclaimed harassed etc, or that it’s a good thing that FDC laughs at us too in the end. like, i don’t want to be “validated,” and being fakeclaimed over the internet is an annoyance to me at worst, and i don’t want to be unconditionally and radically accepted and included for everything because that leaves no room for me to potentially be wrong or grow as a person. and tbh this is why i think there’s no broader “plural” community because there’s a complete misalignment between the endo community vs the DIDOSDD community, and we as anti-endos know this by now because so many DIDOSDD systems have come out about how endo bullshit harmed them. sorry to dump a novel in your inbox lol it’s just been on my mind

Yep. they're also ignoring the fact that a lot of people who wind up on FDC are minors, who probably aren't safe being recognized as having DID/OSDD/UDD in their household, even if they have a therapist or have been professionally recognized. It doesn't make us feel valid, it just sucks. I've also had friends/mutuals from other platforms wind up on there, and the harassment they face is fucking horrific on a level you wouldn't believe, not to mention winding up on cringe comps just for being mentally ill on the internet. They don't see that people don't believe us. They don't believe that we exist, or they believe that we're too rare to be real. It's an uphill battle to get people to even listen to us, and it's exhausting.

Adding onto that, though, you're absolutely right. They want internet validation and inclusion, even if it excludes others. They can't seem to wrap their minds around the fact that being a system is so much more than just alters, so they build a community around one facet of the experience and push themselves into this anti-recovery mindset of "I don't need therapy, because my system isn't traumatic" even though having a system in of itself is only born out of trauma. Hell, a lot of them act like every psychiatrist/psychologist/therapist in the world is evil, so they surround themselves with the anti-psych community and ignore actual scientific facts about things that do, in fact, matter and need scientific backing.

I'm not saying the psych system is good. It's not. It sucks and needs major reform, and my personal experiences with it have been less than stellar. But that's no excuse to act like every professional who knows their shit is out to get you. There are good doctors out there. There are good, helpful people in this field who want nothing more than to see people thrive.

I also absolutely get your point. Blind inclusion and acceptance leaves no room to grow. It's not a foundation for lasting changes, and it actually behaves in quite the opposite manner. It makes it difficult for people to change when they realize what they're doing is wrong, because they've become comfortable just being accepted without any sort of questioning, or being asked to think about their stances. Not to mention, when all your friends are part of that situation, it makes it so much harder to leave.

Also, being diagnosed can lead you to getting more medical stigma in the future. I have BPD. I was not diagnosed by a former therapists choice, because if it was on my chart, that would make so many medical professionals treat me differently. It would make my life harder in the long run. But that doesn't mean that I think people shouldn't get diagnosed, quite the opposite. I just think that people need to be able to get the help that they need.

This is a tangent turning completely incomprehensible, but that's my thoughts. Thanks for the ask!!

Amazing point.

the sooner that people realise that "endogenic" (especially the ones who have claimed to "make their system on purpose") is just another word for "transabled" the better. like this is not REASONABLE </3 pro endo is not a reasonable stance in any way

Fucking love the new blog. Instant follow.

Just read "cappuccino syscourse" on a cappuccino supreme k cup

Radqueers, Proshippers, and pro transid ppl when someone has a clearly stated boundary that they don't want them to interact:

- Based on my last post

Well, I guess if endos also support transabled then if we say they're the same thing it doesn't affect them. Touche.