You are sitting at lunch with your girlfriends when one starts complaining about how her boss told her she should smile more. And she should, she looked so tired. Worn out. No wonder men weren't looking at her. But you knew your master would never say that to you. Because he didn't need to. He understood how fragile women are. How as much as they needed a firm hand, they needed pampering too.
Spa days were a requirement from him. Regular massages to help you recharge. He explained to you that women were simply much too prone to nervous hysteria if you were asked to do too much work. That it simply drained your beauty away. You needed to be pampered to make sure you smiled. After all part of your job as a wife was to be pretty. And pretty girls smiled.
Sure, your girlfriend didn't have a man to take care of her. But you just couldn't understand why she didn't at least spred her legs for some time off. At least she'd get to submit to a powerful man and get a spa day out of it.