Just A Psa For Fic Writers Who Use The “trauma Bond” Tag, Please Make Sure You’re Using It Correctly.

Just a psa for fic writers who use the “trauma bond” tag, please make sure you’re using it correctly. A trauma bond is not two people who experience similar trauma and bond over it. It’s a carefully curated, manipulative bond between abuser and victim to keep the victim coming back because of the addictive highs and lows that come with abuse.

Just A Psa For Fic Writers Who Use The “trauma Bond” Tag, Please Make Sure You’re Using It Correctly.

If you want to tag two characters bonding over shared trauma, a good substitute tag would be “bonding over shared trauma.” Trauma bonding is, by definition, an abusive relationship and may steer people who have experienced it away from your fic. Please spread the word and happy writing!

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1 year ago

Holy shit. The Israeli whistleblower story CNN just broke is insane. I cannot believe what I’m reading

4 months ago

There are so many different shades of white light bulbs, I am so overwhelmed walking down the light bulb aisle, and then I'm never happy with the one I choose, no matter which one I choose, I get it home and I put it in and I'm like, ugh, I don't like THAT white

2 years ago

#cool #amazinghair #amazinghairdrawing

I TRIED TO SAVE YOUR SOUL

I TRIED TO SAVE YOUR SOUL

2 years ago

An artist : Aw man! I saw my arts were reposted on Instagram. I’ve asked them to take my arts down but they ignored me.

Me : Say no more! Click this link, then click ‘fill out this form’. Fill the form and wait for about 1-2 days, the staffs will remove the image you were reporting from the reposter’s account :^)

6 months ago

I like to think that every few gatherings there’s an ‘incident’.

The rangers are doin their thing, competing with each other on who can be the most stealthy and shit. One ranger manages to sneak up behind another so silently that when the other ranger does notice them, they’re caught horribly off guard. Their training kicks in and they punch the other guy in the jaw. Hard. Over the course of Araluen history, multiple rangers ended up concussed from this exact sequence of events.

Multiple commandants have tried and failed to keep this from happening each gathering. It becomes a running gag, some even taking bets as to who will get socked in the face.

2 years ago

Reblog if you think asexuality is a real thing that actually exists.

I'm trying to prove something.

10 months ago
How To Spot Signs And Symptoms Of Breast Cancer 

How to spot signs and symptoms of Breast Cancer 

7 months ago

❗️Nevada voters - this is going to sound weird, but PICK UP YOUR PHONE if an unknown number calls.

**Lots of signatures on ballots are not matching and your ballot may need to be fixed.

❗️Nevada Voters - This Is Going To Sound Weird, But PICK UP YOUR PHONE If An Unknown Number Calls.
❗️Nevada Voters - This Is Going To Sound Weird, But PICK UP YOUR PHONE If An Unknown Number Calls.

TLDR; yes, signature matching is an antiquated way to verify ballots but it is still being used. Reportedly thousands of ballots here need to be cured. Answer the phone!

1 year ago

Today I realized

Dum-E is just another way to say dummie. Tony Stark named him Dum-E because the robot did dumb things.


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