I find it so strange when allos are horrified at the concept of being alone forever. I don’t think anyone can be a healthy, fully-functioning adult if their happiness depends entirely on another person. Learning to enjoy time spent alone is one of the most important things you can do for your mental health because, whether or not you’re in a romantic relationship, you will spend a lot of time alone in your life. If you can’t be happy alone, it’s going to be very hard to be happy at all.
the intimacy of sleeping together, but not in a sexual way. the intimacy of feeling the warmth of their body in a cool room. their hands hugging you tightly. the intimacy of synchronized breathing. sleepy half-kisses. feeling safe. feeling warm. waking up and realizing how much you love them. how precious this is. finding the happiness on the tip of your fingers, brushing their hair. closing your eyes again. pulling closer. falling asleep.
Oh ok so it turns out ive been borrowing grief from the future ! it turns out ive been preparing to lose the things i love rather than basking in the light of them while they last. Maybe i should nt do that
It's very endearing to me how many people are willing to keep an eye on a video feed so they can push a button and let a fish in the Netherlands get to the other side of a dam.
Nothing is more frustrating than wishing that you felt something that you will likely never feel in your life.
Wishing you were what society would consider 'normal', but regretting your silly wishes, because despite the pain it brings, you still love who you are.
I love being asexual and the comfort and confidence I've found in the label, but I also wish I could relate to people without feeling like there's a wall that separates us. Knowing that we'll never truly understand each other.
🍬 Sweet as sunshine! 🍬
trying very hard to view the idea that someone could be attracted to me as something other than an impossible fantasy
Don't sabotage your identity trying to name it. Let it be undefined, permeable, mixed, peculiar, unapologetically authentic. Be in peace with being unprecedented, with not fitting anywhere, with being adrift. Before flight, there's a free fall.
is cannibalism first base or
Point of view of the exotic pet (part 1) (the rest in reblogs)