“How do we forgive our fathers? Maybe in a dream. Do we forgive our fathers for leaving us too often, or forever, when we were little? Maybe for scaring us with unexpected rage, or making us nervous because there never seemed to be any rage there at all? Do we forgive our fathers for marrying, or not marrying, our mothers? Or divorcing, or not divorcing, our mothers? And shall we forgive them for their excesses of warmth or coldness? Shall we forgive them for pushing, or leaning? For shutting doors or speaking through walls? For never speaking, or never being silent? Do we forgive our fathers in our age, or in theirs? Or in their deaths, saying it to them or not saying it. If we forgive our fathers, what is left?”
— Thomas Builds-the-Fire, Smoke Signals (Sherman Alexie)
franny choi
can you do a web weaving about ocean/sea being metaphors for love?
William Shakespeare, Romeo and Juliet
SEAY, Love Is The Ocean
Zora Neale Hurston, Their Eyes Were Watching God
Edmund Dulac, ‘The Little Mermaid Saved The Prince’, from The Little Mermaid by Hans Christian Andersen
Titanic (1997) dir. James Cameron
Bobby Darin, Beyond The Sea
Nikos Kazantzakis in a letter to Harilaos Stefanidis, written c. June 1924
Kahlil Gibran, The Prophet
Uncle Yanco (1967) dir. Agnes Varda
Veronica Rossi, Through the Ever Night
The Kooks, Seaside
Vincent van Gogh, from The Letters of Vincent van Gogh
that’s literally why she’s so me
https://instagram.com/p/BJ4TOcwAJTj/
sorry to chime in but thought i’d bring up ada limón’s someplace like montana where she also calls her friend by the name - not as blatantly about friendship, but it is about making plans/dreams with friends even if you end up in different paths. one of my favourite poems ever <3
YES i love this poem too!!! the ending especially made me go ! the first time i read it. to paraphrase ada limón i love the way people love <3
hi! i'm not sure if you already did this, but could you do a web weaving about the eldest daughter/ child (as a parental figure, taking care of younger siblings, etc.), but it doesn't have to be specifically about those things. thanks :)
@thisisalovestry (x)
Holly Warburton, Sisters
Maya Angelou, Mom & Me & Mom
Taylor Swift, tolerate it
Tabitha Suzama, Forbidden
@ch3r1b0mb (x)
Becks_Rylnn, How the Light Gets In
Supernatural (2005–2020), 1x18: Something Wicked
@thrill-of-first-lovee (x)
Daughter, Smother
Suzanne Collins, The Hunger Games
When Older Siblings Step Into Parents’ Shoes, NPR
“The ghazal is the poetry of two kinds of love- earthly and divine: the love of man for woman (or some other human beloved), and the love of man for God. (Once again, the Western student is disconcerted to find that the technical term for earthly love is majāzī, “symbolic”, and that for mystic love is haqīqī, “real”.)”
— Ralph Russell, The Pursuit of the Urdu Ghazal
1.pat the bunny, I'm not a good person // 2. // 3. mitski, a pearl, art by @hauntedomens // 4.hieu minh nguyen, buffet etiquette // 5.art from pinterest // 6.christa wolf tr. by jan van heurck, cassandra: a novel and four essays // 7.extracurricular (2020) dir.kim jin min // 8.louise bourgeois, destruction of the father/reconstruction of the father: writings and interviews 1923-1997 // 9.alice osman, radio silence // mitski, fireworks, art by uol.art (on insta)
a short collection on catering to men. Gone Girl by Gillian Flynn (2012) A Doll’s House by Henrik Ibsen (1879) The Robber Bride by Margaret Atwood (1993)
ARTICLES I READ THIS WEEK AND ENJOYED, BY GENRE.
— feminism and race.
atlanta spa shootings: how we talk about violence by holly honderich
does your daughter know it’s ok to be angry? by sorya chemaly
hunting the men who kill women: mexico’s femicide detective by meaghan beatley
my mum was born into one of ireland’s mother and baby homes – this is why everyone should know her story by molly mulready
pm, are you listening? here are our stories. hear us roar (tw for rape, sexual assault)
red river women by joanna jolly (tw for murder and violence against indigenous women)
the grooming gap: what “looking the part” costs women by mindy isser
when did recipe writing get so… whitewashed? by priya krishna (with yewande komolafe)
women’s suffrage and the democratic peace by joslyn n. barnhart, robert f. trager, elizabeth n. saunders, and allan dafoe
— fine arts.
a brief history of death by nir baram
a rainy day with ruskin bond by mayank austen soofi
arthur rimbaud: the aesthetics of intoxication by enid rhodes peschel
crying in h mart by michelle zauner
eleven by sandra cisneros
nick cave’s letter to a fan grieving their loved ones
sadako and the thousand paper cranes by eleanor coerr
sunflower sick by sara heise graybeal
— history and science.
cricket and politics in colonial india by ramachandra guha
scientists are unravelling the mystery of pain by yudhijit banerjee
the cosmos from the wheelchair (the economist obituaries)
the death of the department store and a dwindling middle class by jason pallant, sean sands
the gruesome history of eating corpses as medicine by maria dolan
— politics:
amazon has transformed the geography of wealth and power by vauhini vara
caste and politics: identity over system by dipankar gupta
implicit bias against asians increased after trump’s secretary of state and others popularized “chinese virus” by eric w. dolan
making pledges was the easy part but it’s a long road to net-zero emissions by angel hsu
note: some of the articles are behind paywalls, but can be read for free with outline.
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