Ma'am, I Guess My Question Is This: Having Been In Chastity For Relatively Long Periods And Then Not,

Ma'am, I guess my question is this: having been in chastity for relatively long periods and then not, it's obvious even to me that my behavior, attitude and willingness are much better when denied any personal sexual relief. So, why would a woman allow a man to orgasm? Ever? There's no actual need, it takes away energy and makes me, well, selfish

I know you're writing to say that denial makes you a "better" man somehow, but honestly, I get annoyed when I see this come up in Tumblr memes. First of all men should try to be good partners regardless of being locked up and denied. If women need to do something sexual just to get the dishes washed or the house picked up then that's not really men being good partners all on their own.

And second, women allow their men to have orgasms because it's fun! Who doesn't like to see that they are giving pleasure to their partner?

Focus on being a better partner without the promise of denial or any other kinky thing you have in your mind.