where i live i only do like 2-3 dishes 3 separate times a day and it’s always nice to start something in the microwave and then clean the 2 or 3 dishes and see how fast i can clean them before the timer beeps- then my perfectionism has me double check and clean them perfectly after before my food is cool enough to eat. by the time my food is good to eat everything is clean and i enjoy the cleans. i also get things like that to clean my room as well like “oh god i have to get back to my pc before they get online!! and clean my room first!! quick clean it all before i get online” and it feels rushed so i won’t inconvenience them. by the time i get online and talk to them i’ve cleaned my room- gotten myself ready for the day (toothbrush used, showered depending on how much time i have, and more) and done various random re-organizing in my room while i wait
A fun way to get yourself to do chores when you have adhd is to simulate a sense of panic by setting horrible deadlines that fit into other things that you’re doing.
For example, you set up a kettle of water to boil for your tea. Quick! Wipe down the whole counter before it’s done boiling, for the love of god you’re running out of time! Wipe it down! The water is almost boiling.
The water is boiling and your counter is clean. Now set your timer for your tea for three minutes and of my god there’s cups in your room! Quick! Get all the cups from everywhere in the house! Run! You’ve only got three minutes! Get all the dishes into the kitchen!
Oh would you look at that. You got all the dishes in the sink and now your tea is ready. Nice. Now you can chill with your tea.
I’ve found that little stuff like that helps me. Forcing myself into unexpected last minute deadlines. It fills up empty space and my house is a little bit cleaner.
Never before have i liked pink before i saw this character. people had to convince me it was a nice color and Giovanni Potage was the first and best of a line of characters they gave me as reasons to like pink. I now like pink.
Idk he just strikes me as a scene kid
something i learned once i was in a heathy relationship ( @l0stl1am im looking at you love)
Reminder that this goes for all relationships, INCLUDING friendships
the most annoying people are the ones who just reply "no 💖" to recovery/self-improvement posts
where my insomniacs at? Where my people who don’t understand time at? where are people that know time is a construct!? AND MOST IMPORTANTLY WHERE ARE MY GAYS WHO CAN’T SLEEP AT?
I wonder if Capcom and the gaming scene in general will actually even glean the right things from the surge of fandom for Village? Like the superficial marketing takeaway is probably going to be “interest in this general IP is up!” but the creative team and anyone really paying attention knows that they just created an overnight fandom for one game’s unique cast of characters and that it stems much, much more from their nutty campy weirdness and personalities than from the fictional politics of shooting zombies. I’m not saying they should spin them off and run them into the ground but the smart move would be at the very least to continue focusing on characterized monster villains. The series always would have had more fans if there were goofy talking mutants with their own thematic lairs and fucked up family lives.
Has there ever been a trans person or ally who threatened violence against terfs? Probably. But I think if you stack up side by side the number of trans people that distribute this hate against the number of terfs who do it, you will find that one group - the transphobes - do it a lot more, and a lot worse.
Also, note the language; some of it is “I hope this happens to you,” but just as much is “I will” or “I would” do this to you. This is what evil looks like. This is why terfs need to get the fuck out of our society.
And if you’re a radfem, and you do not condone this behavior, you need to get to the front of the fucking line to criticize. When a trans person says something hateful, I will gladly take them down a peg for it. So if you’re a radfem and you don’t speak out against this hatred, I am certain that means you agree with it.
Images compliments of @lanque-hates-terfs, who sadly had to receive this hate. 💖
Some days i wish i understood bills enough to help out with them- but as it stands im as clueless as Giovanni from Epithet erased... i just wanna help make things easier for my partner :c
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here's some art I made, hope ya like it
Girls have to look out for each other
21, any pronounds really but i prefer they/them or he/him. Proud posessive polyamorous pansexual person.
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