fandom is a hobby, not a form of activism
adult women aren’t inherently creepy for being in fandom and having hobbies apart from raising babies and doing taxes
the vast majority of people pushing back against the worrying trend of instigating harassment over fictional characters and relationships aren’t incest supporters or pedophiles, actually
liking a m/f ship doesn’t make someone a dirty heterosexual invading your space
preferring gay ships doesn’t make you ‘’woke’’ and good
no one owes you a disclaimer that they are a good person who recognizes that their favorite fictional villain’s actions are evil and that they don’t condone those actions irl
liking a fictional villain is in no way comparable to advocating abuse/murder/genocide/etc and you’re a fucking idiot if you believe that
just because a woman is attracted to a fictional villain doesn’t mean she’s promoting toxic relationships or going to end up in a toxic relationship. assuming women can’t tell fiction and reality apart stinks of internalized misogyny
some rando’s a/b/o fanfics have none of the level of influence that popular tv shows and movies spreading propaganda have
no one owes you a detailed description of their traumas and mental health problems
abusive relationships are not the same as enemies to lovers ships
y’all need to chill the fuck out over people, relationships, actions and events that don’t actually exist and learn how to enjoy and discuss them like normal people
fandom is a hobby, not a form of activism
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No cops at Pride, just Elton John with his Gucci shirt and a knife
go into your blog themes HTML code RIGHT NOW and copy & paste EVERYTHING into a new google docs or whatever you use so you can save it and not have it wiped from tumblrs fucking incompetence at running a website
it’s like I DO want to be feminine in the way a man is feminine. if I’m performing feminity I don’t want it to be read as an inherent reflection of my gender and who I am. I don’t want someone to call me ma’am or be called a girl. like. it’s drag. only it can’t be drag for me, because it’s not actually subverting anything, is it? so I’m in this spot where I either cannot allow myself any femininity or I do and accept the consequences of perception. my wearing eyeliner isn’t a subversion, a quiet rebellion, it’s perceived as fulfilling an expectation. somehow I can never be masc enough to be percieved as I want to be, so any introduction of femininity feels like a defeat. and yet sometimes I want to wear the pretty things that are still in my closet! or play around with makeup. but it isn’t a young boy getting into his mother’s vanity and heels, it’s growing up into the fulfillment of the wants of the mother and the rest of society as a blank whole.
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA the person i look up two actually saw what i sent an ask to them about and now im terrified i’ve made a fool of myself in spite of them seeming to enjoy what i said- i wanna talk to them and maybe be friends but idk how to be a normal humannn eeee
My only goal is to better myself and be a good friend to all the people that give me a shot and treat me kindly
Dionysus is awesome
Miscellaneous Myths: Dionysus
When Dionysus is cooler than you thought he was but also involves some really uncomfortable myths, but since when has that been new?
'mobsters' are part of a 'mob'. and so you'd think 'lobsters' would be part of a 'lob', but ohohohhohoho, life just isn't so simple
it is genuinely disheartening the disconnect a lot of cis lgb people seem to have from the trans community. like we are so othered and treated as less than all the time and it gets really old
don’t forget to: -brush your teeth -take it easy on yourself (even if you don’t finish this list!) -do your best (without pushing too hard!) -take your meds! -drink some water -Take some time to relax -punch a nazi -eat something (preferably something good for you)! - shower if need be! - rest if you can! (anything from sleeping to just laying down and taking a moment!)
21, any pronounds really but i prefer they/them or he/him. Proud posessive polyamorous pansexual person.
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