Being neurodivergent, a lot of times I struggle to understand what other people are feeling or experiencing. I’m typically horrible at giving gifts or knowing what other people want.
On rare occasions, I will be around someone who I work with and notice a minor detail which could be fixed or easily improved by some small item or simple gesture.
Then I can’t stop thinking about it until I can give it to them or figure out how to get myself to forget.
For example, I have met with my new research professor several times and when he draws on his whiteboard to explain something his markers are so dried out. So I tied an extra dry erase marker I had to a string and hung it from his door. Why don’t I just give it to him directly? Can’t do that, I’ve already overanalyzed the situation in my head. Besides I feel better that it’s anonymous because then I don’t have to navigate any awkward conversations that might be a result.
hope this clears it up!
where my insomniacs at? Where my people who don’t understand time at? where are people that know time is a construct!? AND MOST IMPORTANTLY WHERE ARE MY GAYS WHO CAN’T SLEEP AT?
i want to fist fight god/gods(/whatever it may be that created me) for making me allergic to cats. i want to snuggle Binx (one of my partners cat) but if i do i need meds and a shower and more to not die. much to my partners distress i’m sure- i will still attempt to snuggle the cat, play with him, and make this fluffy cat happy every moment i’m able. Nothing keeps me from enjoying what i like. @l0stl1am please be prepared for this because i do in fact plan on snuggling Binx the moment i’m able- and can you please reblog with a cute picture of Binx for me? i miss the fluff ball
Kinda fucked up and nasty how vampires drink blood, imo. Like. Pepsi costs a dollar seventy five
Happy birthday to my favorite girls
cuteeeee
Burrito
Do you ever think about your mutuals (even the ones you don’t know) during the day like “the swedish taurus girl had an exam today, I hope it went well”
He possessive but he cute
it’s like I DO want to be feminine in the way a man is feminine. if I’m performing feminity I don’t want it to be read as an inherent reflection of my gender and who I am. I don’t want someone to call me ma’am or be called a girl. like. it’s drag. only it can’t be drag for me, because it’s not actually subverting anything, is it? so I’m in this spot where I either cannot allow myself any femininity or I do and accept the consequences of perception. my wearing eyeliner isn’t a subversion, a quiet rebellion, it’s perceived as fulfilling an expectation. somehow I can never be masc enough to be percieved as I want to be, so any introduction of femininity feels like a defeat. and yet sometimes I want to wear the pretty things that are still in my closet! or play around with makeup. but it isn’t a young boy getting into his mother’s vanity and heels, it’s growing up into the fulfillment of the wants of the mother and the rest of society as a blank whole.
dam im glad i follow someone that reblogged this- i wouldn’t have known if not- so if you think rebloging change's nothing you’re wrong: it informs people who my not have known better due to the circumstances of their life and the culture they life in
Folks, friends, y’all…. esk*mo is a slur. I understand a lot of people don’t know that, I don’t want to be a dick about it, but I’ve been seeing it in fics. Wanna write “esk*mo kisses”? Just say “nuzzled noses” or something.
I’m not here to call anybody out, it’s been in multiple fics, I’m not vague posting. This is just a psa. 👍🏻
21, any pronounds really but i prefer they/them or he/him. Proud posessive polyamorous pansexual person.
284 posts