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cw vent
I find it so so disrespectful how as soon as someone makes sexy fanarts of a fictional character who's a sa victim, antis come to harass them like "sexualizing sa victims is disgusting and wrong and we're right to harass you for it" and even go as far as to edit their art to completely cover the character in clothes until we can't see an inch of skin.
I'm not going to sugarcoat it: as a sex-positive rape survivor, go fuck yourself antis who insinuate that ALL victims must absolutely become sex-negative and aren't allowed to be sexy anymore to be a "valid victim"
"Valid victimhood" is the stupidest thing to come out of all this discourse. All victims are valid. It doesn't matter if they're sex negative or sex positive. It doesn't matter how they present themselves. It doesn't matter what they believe in. There's no such thing as an invalid victim.
“you’re disgusting, you need help!! incest is fucking gross seek therapy thanks”
k but like i’ve been in therapy since i was 13 (2009) and you know what therapists say about this kind of stuff?
as long as no one is being harmed IRL and there is no plans to harm someone IRL, and as long as what you like isn’t affecting your life in a negative way (ie: can’t work, isolating yourself, harming yourself/others, etc., because of what you like), it’s fine to enjoy shit!! literally ask any therapist (who doesn’t have a track record of being a POS) and they will tell you the same.
no one is being harmed. and if they are, notify the proper authorities. idk what to tell yall anymore i am tired lmao 🫶🏻
maybe you need therapy to learn to leave people the fuck alone
people will indulge in media that has the most fucked up twisted and problematic stories with unredeemable characters then proceed to turn around and say dni proshippers
“you can write non-con and dark fics as long as you’re not romanticizing it”
“you can write non-con and dark fics as long as it’s your way of coping with your trauma”
“you can write non-con and dark fics as long as —”
actually, anybody — including you — can write non-con and dark fics, and any other fucked up things, however they want, for whatever reasons.
wanna romanticize the fuck out of your non-con / dead dove do not eat fic? go ahead. don’t let anybody stop you from creating the art you want to create.
wanna write non-con fic even if you were never a victim? go ahead. you don’t have to meet any specific criteria in order to create the art you want to create.
just tag your works properly so that you don’t accidentally expose those who might not want to be exposed to such topics to the topics, and you’re all good.
art does not have to be for everybody.
art has never been strictly about rainbow and sunshine. art can also be about the horror and the macabre.
art can be outright disgusting and messed up, and being disgusting and messed up can be just what makes the art a masterpiece.