Trials and tribulations come to each and every one of us with both a purpose and a reward. A mighty reward awaits the believer who continues to strive upon obedience and the one who exercises patience during times of difficulty. Patience is an ingredient we all need in life. Without patience, we are nothing, we will lose the battle against shaytaan – he will defeat us, we will lose ourselves, we will lose our religion.
Ibn Qayyim once mentioned that indeed every single soul shall be tested in this life. Prepare my noble sisters, indeed in this life we shall all be tested. May Allaah grant us strength, patience, and firmness. May Allaah make us from those who return to Allaah in humility and submissiveness. May Allaah make us from the obedient servants.
Supplicating to Allaah during Trials:
Abundant supplication to Allaah is from the causes of success at times of trials, in order for Allaah to protect us from such tests. The Messenger said:
“Seek refuge in Allaah from trials whether apparent or hidden.” [Saheeh Muslim] The Prophet in the last tashahhud would seek refuge from four things and he ordered us to do similarly.
He said: “Seek refuge in Allaah form four: punishment of the hell fire; punishment of the grave; the trials of life and death; and from the trials of the Anti-Christ (Dajjaal).” [Saheeh Muslim]
The Muslim should increase therefore, in calling upon Allaah to protect himself from evil of known and unknown trials. He should beg Allaah, for He is close to us (in responding)and answering our prayers. Whoever turns to Allaah and seeks His protection, is protected by Him. Whoever calls upon Him, He answers. He descends every night to the lowest heaven and says: “Is there anyone asking from Me that I may give him his need? Is there one calling upon Me that I may answer him? Is there anyone seeking forgiveness from Me that I may forgive him?” [Bukhaaree & Muslim]
Allaah has opened His door to those in need, night and day, but this is an additional time and opportunity Allaah designates, as a Mercy for them. A Muslim should call upon Allaah at all times, yet especially during the best times, such as in prostration (sujood), The Prophet said: “Increase supplication in prostration for it is most likely that your supplication will be answered.” [Saheeh Muslim]
The Prophet said: “The servant is closest to Allaah when he is prostrating, so supplicate much therein.” [Saheeh Muslim & Saheeh Sunan Abee Daawood]
Other examples of the most superior times to supplicate are: in the last third of the night, the last hour on friday (before the maghrib prayer), and the last part of each prayer. One should beg Allaah and not be heedless from supplicating, especially in asking Allaah for protection from trials, once a person is protected, he will be safe from all evil. If a person is safe from trials, consequently, his religion is safe and thus his state at the point of death will also be safe.
4 promises from Allah:
“So remember me, I will remember you.” (2:152)
“If you are grateful, I will surely increase you.” (14:7)
“Call upon me and I will respond to you.” (40:60)
“Allah will not punish them while they seek forgiveness.” (8:33)
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Friendship is not something that is common. Genuine Friendship is rare
Your mother should be appreciated
Everybody wants something and never ask themselves what they bring to the table
The energy you give the world is the energy you receive
Time alone is not a bad thing
Love is a gift and is not something you can demand or force
Being comfortable should be your main priority
Who is Allah?
Allah - The Greatest NameAr-Rahman - The All-MercifulAr-Rahim - The All-BeneficientAl-Malik - The Absolute RulerAl-Quddus - The Pure OneAs-Salam - The Source of PeaceAl-Mu’min - The Inspirer of FaithAl-Muhaymin - The GuardianAl-’Aziz - The VictoriousAl-Jabbar - The CompellerAl-Mutakabbir - The GreatestAl-Khaliq - The CreatorAl-Bari’ - The Maker of OrderAl-Musawwir - The Shaper of BeautyAl-Ghaffar - The ForgivingAl-Qahhar - The SubduerAl-Wahhab - The Giver of AllAr-Razzaq - The SustainerAl-Fattah - The OpenerAl-’Alim - The Knower of AllAl-Qabid - The ConstrictorAl-Basit - The RelieverAl-Khafid - The AbaserAr-Rafi’ - The ExalterAl-Mu’izz - The Bestower of HonorsAl-Mudhill - The HumiliatorAs-Sami - The Hearer of AllAl-Basir 27 - The Seer of AllAl-Hakam - The JudgeAl-’Adl - The JustAl-Latif - The Subtle OneAl-Khabir - The All-AwareAl-Halim - The ForebearingAl-’Azim - The MagnificentAl-Ghafur - The Forgiver and Hider of FaultsAsh-Shakur - The Rewarder of ThankfulnessAl-’Ali - The HighestAl-Kabir - The GreatestAl-Hafiz - The PreserverAl-Muqit - The NourisherAl-Hasib - The AccounterAl-Jalil - The MightyAl-Karim - The GenerousAr-Raqib - The Watchful OneAl-Mujib - The Responder to PrayerAl-Wasi’ - The All-ComprehendingAl-Hakim - The Perfectly WiseAl-Wadud - The Loving OneAl-Majíd - The Majestic OneAl-Ba’ith - The ResurrectorAsh-Shahid - The WitnessAl-Haqq - The TruthAl-Wakil - The TrusteeAl-Qawi - The Possessor of All StrengthAl-Matin - The Forceful OneAl-Wáli - The GovernorAl-Hamid - The Praised OneAl-Muhsi - The AppraiserAl-Mubdi - The OriginatorAl-Mu’id - The RestorerAl-Muhyi - The Giver of LifeAl-Mumit - The Taker of LifeAl-Hayy - The Ever Living OneAl-Qayyum - The Self-Existing OneAl-Wajid - The FinderAl-Májid - The GloriousAl-Wahid - The Only OneAl-Ahad - The OneAs-Samad - The Satisfier of All NeedsAl-Qadir - The All PowerfulAl-Muqtadir - The Creator of All PowerAl-Muqaddim - The ExpediterAl-Mu’akhkhir - The DelayerAl-Awwal - The FirstAl-Akhir - The LastAz-Zahir - The Manifest OneAl-Batin - The Hidden OneAl-Walí - The Protecting FriendAl-Muta’ali - The Supreme OneAl-Barr - The Doer of GoodAt-Tawwab - The Guide to RepentanceAl-Muntaqim - The AvengerAl-Afū - The ForgiverAr-Ra’uf - The ClementMalik al-Mulk - The Owner of All Dhul-JalaliWal-Ikram - The Lord of Majesty and BountyAl-Muqsit - The Equitable OneAl-Jami - The GathererAl-Ghani - The Rich OneAl-Mughni - The EnricherAl-Mani’ - The Preventer of HarmAd-Darr - The Creator of The HarmfulAn-Nafi - The Creator of GoodAn-Nur - The LightAl-Hadi - The GuideAl-Badi - The OriginatorAl-Baqi - The Everlasting OneAl-Warith - The Inheritor of AllAr-Rashid - The Righteous TeacherAs-Sabur - The Patient One
I don’t know who needs to hear this right now, but your progress is not ruined after 1 bad day, 2 bad days, maybe even a month or more of bad days. Everything you experienced and learned during that time is valuable and essential for your growth. Forgive yourself, and try again.
In الله I trust
And if my tired soul stands to battle life with all it’s courage, and life knocks out every atom of strength within me, my faith in God will pull me back up. It will act as my armour. My hope in Him will shine through every wound, enlighten my view and cure my misery. Because this heart is soaked in love for its Creator, every crack in it is stitched together with patience for His qadr and trust in what He has written. There is wisdom in all that I experience and His resolution will never leave me disappointed.
Let me be patient, let me be kind. Make me unselfish, without being blind.