I sincerly hope that our generation of parents love their children more openly.
We don’t need another generation of kids with depression and anxiety and self-esteem issues.
We don’t need another generation of kids that are too afraid to talk to their parents.
We don’t need another generation of kids struggling through careers that they hate because their dreams don’t match their parents’.
We know how badly we need to be told and shown that we’re loved. We know how much we want to be told that we are good enough. We know how it feels to have absolutely no refuge in this harsh world.
May our homes be safe havens for our kids, always.
Ya Allaah guard me against the evil of myself. Forgive me for all my sins, big and small, hidden and evident. Protect me, guide me, strengthen my Imaan and bless me with the right knowledge. Ameen
Look around you. Appreciate what you have. Nothing will be the same in a year
You've done your part. You've prayed already. You've cried already. Now, watch Allah to do His part. Comfort your heart, and just trust Him.
The ninety nine names of Allah :
Allāh (God) الله
Al-Raḥmān (The Gracious) الرَّحْمَن
Al-Raḥīm (The Merciful) الرَّحِيم
Al-Mālik (The Sovereign) الْملك
Al-Qudūs (The Holy) القدوس
Al-Salām (The Peace) السَّلَام
Al-Mu’min (The Faithful) الْمُؤمن
Al-Muhaymin (The Protector) الْمُهَيْمِن
Al-Azīz (The Almighty) الْعَزِيز
Al-Jabbār (The Compeller) الْجَبَّار
Al-Mutakabir (The Supreme)المتكبر
Al-Khāliq (The Creator) الْخَالِق
Al-Bārī (The Makler) البارئ
Al-Muṣawwir (The Fashioner) المصور
Al-Ghaffār (The Forgiving) الْغفار
Al-Qahhār (The Prevailing) القهار
Al-Wahhāb (The Bestower) الْوَهَّاب
Al-Razzāq (The Provider) الرَّزَّاق
Al-Fatāh (The Opener) الفتاح
Al-‘Alīm (The Knowing) الْعَلِيم
Al-Qābiḍ (The Withholder) الْقَابِض
Al-Bāsiṭ (The Extender) الباسط
Al-Khāfiḍ (The Humbler) الْخَافِض
Al-Rāfi’ (The Raiser) الرافع
Al-Mu’iz (The Honorer) المعز
Al-Mudhil (The Humiliater) المذل
Al-Samī’ (The Hearing) السميع
Al-Basīr (The Seeing) البصير
Al-Ḥakam (The Judge) الحكم
Al-‘Adl (The Just) العدل
Al-Laṭīf (The Kind) اللطيف
Al-Khabīr (The Aware) الخبير
Al-Ḥalīm (The Forbearing) الحليم
Al-Aẓīm (The Grand) العظيم
Al-Ghafūr (The Exonerating) الغفور
Al-Shakūr (The Thankful) الشكور
Al-‘Alī (The Most High) العلي
Al-Kabīr (The Greatest) الكبير
Al-Ḥafīẓ (The Preserver) الحفيظ
Al-Muqīt (The Nourisher) المقيت
Al-Ḥasīb (The Reckoner) الحسيب
Al-Jalīl (The Sublime) الجليل
Al-Karīm (The Generous) الكريم
Al-Raqīb (The Watchful) الرقيب
Al-Mujīb (The Answerer) المجيب
Al-Wāsi’ (The Expander) الواسع
Al-Ḥakīm (The Wise) الحكيم
Al-Wadūd (The Loving) الودود
Al-Majīd (The Glorious) المجيد
Al-Bā’ith (The Resurrector) الباعث
Al-Shahīd (The Witness) الشهيد
Al-Ḥaqq (The Truth) الحق
Al-Wakīl (The Trustee) الوكيل
Al-Qawī (The Powerful) القوي
Al-Matīn (The Strong) المتين
Al-Walī (The Defender) الولي
Al-Ḥamīd (The Praiseworthy) الحميد
Al-Muḥṣi (The Accountant) المحصي
Al-Mubdī’ (The Initiator) المبدئ
Al-Mu’īd (The Restorer) المعيد
Al-Muḥyī (The Giver of Life) المحي
Al-Mumīt (The Causer of Death) المميت
Al-Ḥayy (The Living) الحي
Al-Qayūm (The Sustaining) القيوم
Al-Wājid (The Finder) الواجد
Al-Mājid (The Magnificent) الماجد
Al-Wāhid (The One) الواحد
Al-Ṣamad (The Eternal Refuge) الصمد
Al-Qādir (The Able) القادر
Al-Muqtadir (The Determiner) المقتدر
Al-Muqaddim (The Expediter) المقدم
Al-Muakhir (The Delayer) المؤخر
Al-Awwal (The First) الأول
Al-Ākhir (The Last) الآخر
Al-Ẓāhir (The Outward) الظاهر
Al-Bāṭin (The Inward) الباطن
Al-Wāli (The Governer) الوالي
Al-Muta’ālī (The Exalted) المتعالي
Al-Birr (The Righteous) البر
Al-Tawwāb (The Acceptor of Repentance) التواب
Al-Muntaqim (The Avenger) المنتقم
Al-‘Afūw (The Pardoner) العفو
Al-Ra’ūf (The Kind) الرؤوف
Mālik al-Mulk (The King of Kings) مالك الملك
Dhu al-Jalāl wal-Ikrām (The Majestic and Noble) ذو الجلال والإكرام
Al-Muqsiṭ (The Equitable) المقسط
Al-Jāmi’ (The Gatherer) الجامع
Al-Ghanī (The Independent) الغني
Al-Mughnī (The Enricher) المغني
Al-Māni’ (The Preventer) المانع
Al-Ḍārr (The Causer of Harm) الضار
Al-Nāfi’ (The Causer of Benefit) النافع
Al-Nūr (The Light) النور
Al-Hādī (The Guider) الهادي
Al-Badī’ (The Origin) البديع
Al-Bāqi (The Remaining) الباقي
Al-Wārith (The Inheritor) الوارث
Al-Rashīd (The Director) الرشيد
Al-Sabūr (The Patient) الصبور
When you get married, you become your spouse’s protector. You protect their heart, their soul, their entry to Jannah, and their reputation and vice versa. Make sure to keep your prized possession safe and out of harms way.
Dua’a protects us
I don’t know who needs to hear this right now, but your progress is not ruined after 1 bad day, 2 bad days, maybe even a month or more of bad days. Everything you experienced and learned during that time is valuable and essential for your growth. Forgive yourself, and try again.