Recognize when things no longer serve a purpose and begin to harm you. You let it go not because of arrogance or pride but because it doesn't fit into your life anymore. So close the chapter, learn the lessons and shake off the dust. Don’t waste your life. Move on.
Abdullāh Ibn al-Mubārak, رحمه الله, said:
"I love the pious people even though I'm not one of them, and I hate the evil people even though I may be worse than them."
(Siyār A'lam An-Nubalā Volume, #8]
The human cannot control his own heartbeat; rather it is controlled by Allah, the Creator of everything. This shows that we are weak and always in need of our Creator, Allah. So rely on Allah alone, and seek His support in times of difficulty and distress. Refer all of your matters to Allah, and remember: it is through your obedience to Him that you will acquire the good that you seek.
Ya Allaah guard me against the evil of myself. Forgive me for all my sins, big and small, hidden and evident. Protect me, guide me, strengthen my Imaan and bless me with the right knowledge. Ameen
اللهم إن الطريق طويل، وليس معي إلا نفسي أرشدني بحكمتك لا بحكمتي، ودلني على ما تشاء لا على ما أشاء ، أنت صاحب الأمر وأنا ليس لي من الأمر شئ
“Oh Allah, verily the journey is long and I have no one but myself. Guide me with Your wisdom, not with mine, and direct me to what You desire, not what I desire, You are the Owner of [my] affairs, and I own nothing of [my] affairs.”
Beauty is within your heart,with its flaws,with its emotions, with its imperfections, and if someone tells you otherwise, then remember Allah's words:
Indeed, we created humans in the best form (95:4)
It is a reminder for all of us.