People Will Really Be Bothered From You For Being Soft, And Living Life At Ease. I’m Sorry, I Don’t

‎Abdullāh Ibn al-Mubārak, رحمه الله, said:

‎"I love the pious people even though I'm not one of them, and I hate the evil people even though I may be worse than them."

‎(Siyār A'lam An-Nubalā Volume, #8]

“If you loved her for her beauty, you’ll find who’s more beautiful than her someday. But if you loved her for her heart, you will love her even more day by day.”

The human cannot control his own heartbeat; rather it is controlled by Allah, the Creator of everything. This shows that we are weak and always in need of our Creator, Allah. So rely on Allah alone, and seek His support in times of difficulty and distress. Refer all of your matters to Allah, and remember: it is through your obedience to Him that you will acquire the good that you seek.

اللهم إني اسألك أن تستر علي، وتُهذِّب قلبي، وتؤدّب طَبعَي، وتحسّن خُلُقي، وتضبط سلوكي، واسألك أن تشغلني بغاياتٍ تليقُ بدربك، وترزقني حكمة القول، وفَنّ الصّمت، وبلاغة الرَّدّ، وجَلال الحُضور، وجمال الغياب.

Ya Allah, I ask You to cover me, to refine my heart, to discipline my nature, to improve my character, to regulate my behavior, and I ask You to occupy me with goals that are worthy of Your path, to bless me with wisdom in speech, the art of silence, eloquence in response, majesty in presence, and grace in absence.

My dear relax and let go of everything for a while all the stress and tension release it for a while, look around and appreciate your blessings.Don't make a wall of grief in your heart. Trials are hard, and sabr is more hard to observe but with Allah's mercy we go through. Make a mindset that whatever is happening is just because Allah wants to and whatever will happen is Just because Allah wants to As his plans are best and he will never let you go empty handed. Maybe you are wishing for a rose but Allah has planned a garden of beautiful flowers for you, maybe you are wishing for a drop yet Allah wants to give an ocean for you. Your Tawakkul should be so strong that fears should never make a space in your head. We don't know what Allah is doing, today we think why is He doing. One day i guarantee you will look back and realise why it was necessary and will thank Allah for all the trials.We can just keep patience and reliance on him and as we go in this journey we can only make dua. Allah has given us ability to make dua, to talk with him. Creator of you, me,our earth, the heaven. Creator of everything. And he has given us the ability to talk with him. So to release the heaviness of your heart talk to him, tell him everything you have inside your heart. He is listening and he will surely grant you relief.

The older i get the more i realize

Friendship is not something that is common. Genuine Friendship is rare 

Your mother should be appreciated 

Everybody wants something and never ask themselves what they bring to the table

The energy you give the world is the energy you receive

Time alone is not a bad thing

Love is a gift and is not something you can demand or force

Being comfortable should be your main priority 

May Allah bless our parents endlessly. We will not get anyone better than them in this world. Their love is so pure and they're willing to face difficulties just to make sure that our life is full of peace. May Allah bless them and grant them paradise.

In الله I trust

And if my tired soul stands to battle life with all it’s courage, and life knocks out every atom of strength within me, my faith in God will pull me back up. It will act as my armour. My hope in Him will shine through every wound, enlighten my view and cure my misery. Because this heart is soaked in love for its Creator, every crack in it is stitched together with patience for His qadr and trust in what He has written. There is wisdom in all that I experience and His resolution will never leave me disappointed.

Surah Ad Duha is one of the most beautiful surah there is. It teaches us that Allah has not left us alone. He is always there, watching over us, and soon He will give. “And your Lord is going to give to you, and you will be satisfied” Qur'an [93:5]