Unusual Asks

NSFW Asks

1:When did you lose your virginity?

2: Rough sex or soft sex?

3: Do you have any unusual kinks/fetishes?

4: Weirdest place you’ve had sex?

5: Favourite sex position?

6: Do you like to be dominant or submissive?

7: Have you ever had any one night stands?

8: Sex on the bed, couch or the floor?

9: Have you ever had sex in a public place?

10: Have you ever been caught masturbating?

11: What does your favourite sexy underwear look like?

12: How often do you have sex?

13: Is there anybody right now you’d like to have sex with?

14: Do you prefer giving or receiving oral sex?

15: Most embarrassing thing that’s ever happened to you during sex?

16: A song you’d listen to during hard/rough/kinky sex?

17: A song you’d listen to during soft/slow/passionate sex?

18: Are you into dressing up for sex?

19: Would you prefer sex in the bath or sex in the shower?

20: If you could have sex with anyone right now, who would it be?

21: Have you ever had a threesome? If not, would you?

22: Do you/would you use sex toys?

23: Have you ever sent someone a dirty text/picture?

24: Would you have sex with your best friend?

25: Is there anything you do after sex? (for example, smoke, eat, drink)

26: Something that will never fail to get you horny?

27: Early morning sex or late night sex?

28: Favourite body part on the opposite sex?

29: Favourite body part on the same sex?

30: Something that you have hidden in your room that you don’t want anyone to find:

31: Weirdest sexual act some has performed [or tried to perform] on/with you:

32: Have you ever tasted yourself? [If no, would you?] [If yes, what did you think?]

33: Is it ever okay to not use a condom:

34: A food that you would like to use during a sexual experience:

35: Worst possible time to get horny:

36: Do you like it when your sexual partner moans?

37: How much fapping is too much fapping:

38: Best sexual complement you ever got:

39: Favorite foreplay activities:

40: What do you wear to bed?

41: When was the first time you masturbated:

42: Do you have any nude/masturbating pictures/video of yourself?

43: Have you ever/when was the last time you had sex outside?

44: Have/would you ever have sex in public?

45: Have/would you ever had a threesome?

46: What is one random object you’ve used to masturbate?

47: Do you watch gay/lesbian porn? why/why not?

48: Do you like oral sex? (why/why not)

49: How do you feel about tattoos on someone you are interested in?

50: How would you feel about taking someones virginity?

51: Is there any food you would NOT recommend using during a sexual encounter?

52: Would you rather be a pornstar or a prostitute?

53: Do you watch porn?

54: Have you ever been called a freak? Why?

55: Do you feel comfortable going “commando”?

56: Would you have a problem with going down on someone if they hadn’t shaved their pubic hair?

57: If you could give yourself head, would you?

58: Booty or Boobs?

59: Have you ever cheated on someone? (Why?)

60: If you were the other sex for a day, what are five things you would do?

61: have you ever watched someone masturbate?

62: has anyone ever watched you masturbate?

63. Have you ever had an erection and someone noticed?

64. What is your method of masturbation? (ie. toys, clitorial, prostate)

65. What is your bra/penis size?

66. What is the strangest thing you have ever put up your vagina/anus?

67. When was the last time you masturbated?

68. When was the last time you had sex?

69. When was the last time you watched porn?

70. Have you ever bought a sex toy? If so, which one did you buy last? First sex toy? If not, which one do you plan on buying when you do?

71. Guys:Circumsized?

72. Which not-genital part of your body do you like being touched?

73. Which genital part of your body do you like being touched?

74. Girls:Are you able to achieve orgasm just through breast stimulation?

75. Have you anonymously sent a sexual ask to someone on tumblr?

76. When was the last time you have had a wet dream?

77. Which wet dream was your favorite?

78. Is there a friend you would willingly have sex with?

79. Is there a celebrity/character you would willingly have sex with?

80. Favorite sexual position?

81. Do you like being called a slut or whore in bed?

82. Are you into any BDSM?

83. Have you ever wanted to have sex with someone but knew you couldnt for any reason? Why?

84. Do you like dirty talk?

85. Are you loud or quiet during sex? Masturbation?

86. Have you ever been inturrepted during sex or masturbation? Who/what?

87. What kind of porn do you like to watch?

88. Have you ever confessed to someone that you got an erection over them? What about masturbated to them?

89. Have you ever masturbated because your sexual partner wasn’t there when you needed them?

90. Have you ever had a one night stand? Do you still keep in contact with them?

91. Have you ever had a friends with benefits? Are they still beneficial?

Dirty Questions

1: Kitchen Counter, Couch, or on top of the dryer? 2: Your last sexual encounter: Good or Bad and why: 3: A fictional person that you think would be good in bed: 4: Something that never fails to make you horny: 5: Where is one place you would never have sex: 6: The most awkward moment during a sexual experience was when ______________ 7: Weirdest thing that ever made you horny: 8: What is the best way to sexually bind someone: Handcuffs, Rope, or Other [if other please explain]: 9: What is the fastest way to make you horny: 10: Top or bottom? 11: We were about to ____________ but then ______________ [example: we were about to have sex but then his mom walked in] 12: Is one orgasm enough? Are multiple orgasms necessary? 13: Something that you have hidden in your room that you don’t want anyone to find: 14: Weirdest nickname a significant other has ever called you: 15: Two things you like [or dislike] about oral sex: 16: Weirdest sexual act some has performed [or tried to perform] on/with you: 17: Have you ever tasted yourself? [If no, would you?] [If yes, what did you think?] 18: Is it ever okay to not use a condom: 19: Who was the sexiest teacher you ever had? 20: A food that you would like to use during a sexual experience: 21: How big is too big: 22: One sexual thing you would never do: 23: Biggest turn on: 24: Three spots that drive you insane: 25: Worst possible time to get horny: 26: Do you like it when your sexual partner moans: 27: Worst sexual idea you ever had: 28: How much fapping is too much fapping: 29: Best sexual complement you ever got: 30: Bald, landing strip, Jumanji: 31: Is it good sex if you don’t nut: 32: Fill in the blank: “If they ____________, we are fuckin” 33: What your favorite part of your body: 34: Favorite foreplay activities: 35: Love (>,<, or =) Sex For those of us who don’t remember our math thats “greater than, less than, or equal to] 36: What do you wear to bed? 37: When was the first time you masturbated: 38: Do you have any nude/masturbating pictures/video of yourself? 39: Have you ever/when was the last time you had sex outside? 40: Have/would you ever have sex outside? 41: Have/would you ever had a threesome? 42: What is one random object you’ve used to masturbate? 43: Have/would you ever masturbate at work/school? 44: Have/would you ever have sex on a plane? 45: What is one song you’d like to have sex to? 46: What is something nonsexual that makes you horny? 47: Most attractive celebrity? 48: Do you watch gay/lesbian porn? why/why not? 49: If a child was born on the occasion of the last time you had sex, how old would that child be right now? 50: Has anyone ever posted nude pictures of you online? 51: What is one thing that NEVER makes you horny? 52: Do you have stretch marks? (How do you feel about them? Has anyone ever had a problem with them?) 53: Do you like giving head? (why/why not) 54: How do you feel about tattoos on someone you are interested in? 55: How would you feel about taking someones virginity? 56: Is there any food you would NOT recommend using during a sexual encounter? 57: Is there anything you do on Tumblr that you would not like your significant other to see? 58: Do you own any sex toys? (what is it? (how long have you had it?) 59: Would you give your significant other unrestricted access to your Tumblr for a day? 60: Would you be offended if your significant other suggested you get plastic surgery? 61: Would you rather be a pornstar or a prostitute? 62: Do you watch porn? 63: How small is too small? 64: Have you ever been called a freak? Why? 65: Who gave you your last kiss? Did it mean anything? 66: Would you switch phones with your significant other for a day? 67: Do you feel comfortable going “commando”? 68: Would you have a problem with going down on someone if they hadn’t shaved their pubic hair? 69: If you could give yourself head, would you? 70: Booty or Boobs? 71: If you had a penis, what would you name it? 72: Have you ever been on an official date? 73: Have you ever cheated on someone? (Why?) 74: If you were a stripper, what would your name be? 75: Have you ever had sex in your parents bed? (Would you?) 76: How would you react if you found out your parents had sex in your bed? 77: What was your reaction the first time you saw a penis/vagina 78: If you had a penis/vagina for a day, what are five things you would do?

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Ever come to Clovis NM

No, But when I was two or three I was in Albuquerque because my great grandfather passed away. That’s about as close since then.

THE 10 BEST POSITIONS FOR ANAL

All you faithful readers know I’m a big fan of knocking on a girl’s back door.   It feels great.   It’s naughty.   What’s not to like about it?

Nothing… for the guy.

For the girl, anal can often be traumatic.   I’ve posted a bunch of times on how to prepare for anal sex.   You can type “anal” in my search bar and get a ton of info.  But let me highlight some things:

Anal sex requires preparation to keep it from being messy.

Anal sex requires relaxation and trust.  If the girl isn’t relaxed… if she tenses up… that’s when it hurts.

Anal sex requires a lot of lube.   LOTS of lube.

Anal sex requires you to begin small.   A finger in the ass.  Then two fingers.  Then your cock.

Anal sex requires you to start slow.   Slide it in and pump with short, slow strokes.

Anal sex requires foreplay.  Because again, a woman needs to be really relaxed and into it before her ass will open.   

What I haven’t written about in much detail is good positions for anal.  I’ve said, “If it hurts, try the woman on top.”  But beyond that, nothing much.  That changes with this post.  

I want to share with you ten positions that can be great for anal.  They’re great for a variety of reasons: intimacy, pleasure for him, pleasure for her, comfort, etc.   I’ll spell out the benefits of each one.  They are listed in no particular order.  But if you read the articles about preparing for anal that I have written and then learn these ten positions, I guarantee you that you can comfortably (and erotically!) add this very enjoyable aspect to your sex life.  

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THE REVERSE COWGIRL RUMP RIDER

He lies on his back, legs together.  She straddles him, facing away and bounces with his dong-a-long in her bonk-a-donk.

This position is great for her, not only because it lets her control how deep and fast her ass is being fucked, but also because it provides a great angle.  He’s going straight in, with a slight upward press.  Should be comfortable.

It’s a great position for him because of the view - her bulbous back pillows being split by his love meat.   

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THE SPHINCTER SPOON

The key to this spooning technique is that the girl pulls her legs up close to her chest, maybe using her arms behind her knees to hold them.  When the legs are pulled up like that, the external spincter muscle (i.e. the asshole) loosens some.   

When the guy slides in, he goes as deep as possible.  But motion is limited.  

This position is all about intimacy.   There is a ton of body contact.  He can whisper in her ear or kiss her neck.   Guys, you also can play with her nipples or even reach between her legs and rub gently.  

This is a great starter position for the first anal of the night, precisely because there isn’t much motion.   It lets her slowly relax her booty.

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THE SUPER SODOMY SIDE SLIDE

In this position, the girl lies facedown, then pulls one leg up some.  So her one leg is straight down.  With her other leg, she’s pulled her knee up close to even with her waist.  This tilts her slightly onto her side.  The guy then straddles the one leg that is straight down.  He spreads her cheeks, and slides in.   

What makes this position great for her is how relaxing it is.   He can rub her back while he’s fucking her ass.  It also doesn’t allow for very deep penetration.   

For him there are two pleasures.  First, as he pumps, his scrotum is going to be rubbing against the smooth skin on the back of her leg.  It feels amazing.  Secondly, each time he thrusts in, her one butt cheek - the one of the leg that is straight out - is going to hit him right in what is sometimes called the “inguinal canal” area, where the guy’s leg meets his torso.  The firm but soft tush pressing in there… fuck!  Feel so good!

Guys, an added little treat for her…  She she first gets in this position, get down there, slide a finger in her vajayjay, palm facing down, curling the finger slightly.  That will place your fingertip on her g-spot.  While you work the finger in and out, let your tongue press on her asshole, just causing it to spread a little.  She’ll love it.   

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THE DALLYING IN HER DERRIERE

This is a lovely, slow, lazy way to pump her rump.   You are on her side.   She is on her back, with her legs hitched over you.  She can keep them together or spread them apart, depending on what she finds more comfortable.   

This is also a very intimate position, as it allows you to see each other’s faces.   Motion is limited, as her legs hooked over him prevent him from pumping too hard.   He can play with her chest or her clit.  She can reach down and rub his balls while he fucks her.    

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THE ASS-N-CLITTY

Another variation of women-on top.  The girl straddles the guy, cowgirl style, facing him, her knees wide apart.   She puts his hotdog in her buns, then leans back, using her hands for support.   And she bounces and bounces and bounces.  

The plus for her is that she gets to control tempo and depth.   And again, it’s a great angle - straight up her dark tunnel.  

In addition, in that position her guy has clear access to her clitty-cat.   He can pet it.  Guys, in this position, I recommend using your thumb.  Lick it so it’s slick.  Then press it down on top of her clit and roll it, like a pea bring rolled under your finger.

Or you can take a finger and curl it in, making a “come here” motion.  That puts your finger on her g-spot.  Again, roll it around like a pea under your fingertip.     

For guys, not only do you have an amazing view, but it actually is a very tight fit.  With her knees apart like that, her glute muscles get pushed together.  Thus, your shaft is cradled in soft butt cheek.  Feels amazing.

True story.   I have had a girlfriend squirt all over my abs in this position while I was in her ass.  

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THE CATHOLIC BIRTH CONTROL

You wouldn’t think missionary position would be great for anal, but it really, really is.   However, you probably need to have her hips tilted up.   You can do this simply by placing a few pillows under her hips.   

This is another position aimed at intimacy.  The couple can kiss and caress even as he’s tapping her tushie.   

This position also allows for only shallow penetration, thus it’s great for a girl who, try as she might, believes she can only take the tip.  It’s also great for a guy who is well endowed, as maybe only the first two or three inches will get in.

Guys, be careful in this position.   It’s easy to slip out.  And what can really hurt a girl is when you slip out and then don’t aim carefully when you slide back in.  It forces her anus to stretch in funny ways!   No bueno.   

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THE HERO, POOTER-POUNDER STYLE

In the kamasutra, “the Hero” position is woman on her back, with her legs pulled up to the degree that her pelvis tilts up.   This can be done a variety of ways.  She can grab under he knees and pull them back.  He can grab her ankles and push them back.   The point is, her legs are in the air, spread apart, and her hips are tilted up.  This gives him a straight shot to her pooter-palace!

After six positions which were more gentle, we now get to the ones which will be a bit harder.   Thus, it requires a bit more experience.  These are anal positions you might try after you have being doing one of the first six for awhile.  So your rump is all relaxed and ready for a good ramming.  ;) 

For the girls, the fun part of this position is that as well as any of them, you have access to your sugared almond.   While your man drills your dumper, rub that thing like you are a DJ and it’s god-damned New Years Eve.  You might cum.  

Guys, you need to understand that with her hips tilted and legs spread, you could go really, really deep.  That’s great, if she says it’s great.  If not, then this is a position where you have to exercise self control and only use the first four inches or so.    

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THE DOGGY IN THE DONK

I don’t want to exaggerate here, so I’ll say it carefully.  This is the biggest fantasy of every man on earth.    There is nothing like getting a hot girl face down, ass up, and smashing her onion.   

What does this give to the guys?   The best site on earth.  When you can see your cock sliding in and out, wedged between those breathtaking cheeks… when that booty meet shakes with each thrust, a slight ripple working through each one… wow.  I have a tear in my eye just thinking about it.   

In addition to the view, if the girl has warmed up to anal and can handle it, this is the position in which the guy can go his hardest.  The angle of his cock in her ass, especially if she puts her chest down on the bed, is such that it is a very, very smooth fit.   Her rectum is in its natural position.   So he can grab her hips and pound away.

For the girl, doggystyle anal can be either heaven or purgatory.   He’s going to be deep in your ass.   But in this position, he stimulates some of the nerves that are actually located in the vaginal wall.    If a girl is going to cum during anal, this position will probably be it.  While the guy is reaming her from behind, she’ll reach down and play with her clit.   If she can cum this way, it will be so intense her back might break.   

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THE BEST LAP DANCE EVER

This is yet another woman on top position.   The man sits in a chair.  Guys, use a kitchen chair, not a big ass recliner.  It gives you more range of motion.   The woman come and sits on his lap, with his man-meat in her moneymaker.  

There are two variations to this. The woman can put her legs between his legs.  If she does this, she can put her hands on his knees and bounce.  Or the woman can put her legs outside his.   Unless she has really long legs, she might not be able to bounce as well.  But she can grind and rock.    It’s a amazing sensation when you grind in that position, ladies!  It’s like you are trying to break our cock off inside your can.   

Guys, if she goes with her legs outside yours, why not reach around  and flick her on-off switch lightly.   It’s ether that your you make it rain!  

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THE 3AM AT DANIEL’S HOUSE

This is a variation on doggystyle - doing it while standing, with the woman bent over something.  It’s one of my favorites, hence the name.  (Back off!  When you get your own blog, you can name sex positions after yourself too!)

It’s a really comfortable position for the woman.   She’s braced on a chair or couch.  She might even be able to rest on it.   A variation is if she picks up one leg and rests her knee on the object.  A good example of that is a bathroom counter.  She leans over it and puts one knee up on it while I explore her third-entry.   

It’s great for the guy for the same reason doggystyle is.  It’s a nice view.  He can grab the hips and go hard.   Because it’s a comfortable position, it’s also great for prolonged anal.   There’s no need to pound out your nut in 30 seconds.  Get her in this position and spend a good 20 minutes working her bubble over.   

This position can also be very pleasurable for the woman too.  There is a muscle cluster that starts in your lower back, runs through the glutes, and down the back of the legs to the heel.  That’s why if you walk funny in a bad shoe, it can hurt your back.  It’s the longest muscle cluster in the human body.  When a girl is bent over like this, that muscle cluster is tight.   And so as she tenses her anus slightly (which is natural to do as your ass is being fucked), she’ll feel that through her entire lower body.   And guys, if you can reach around and play with her clit and make her cum in this position, she can collapse.  The shudder it sends through her legs literally floors her.  

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And there you have it, faithful readers.   Is this every anal position I know.  Please!  I’m Daniel Fucking Davis.   This is the tip of the iceberg.   But hopefully if you like these, you can put your own spins and variances on them, and have plenty of variety to your hot, hot booty sex!

Now, if you like this, please reblog!   Cause let’s face it.  This is good advice.  

Credit for all the illustrations goes to wewomen.com.  They have their own take on “best of” positions.  I just used their illustrations, which I thought were cute!  

Ask Me Anything? ;)

1. What tends to feel better for you, sex or masturbation? 2. Your 5 favorite spots to be stimulated. 3. Have you ever had your prostate stimulated? 4. Have you ever had an orgasm from anywhere other than your genitals? 5. Do you prefer clitoral or vaginal stimulation? 6. Can you touch your clitoris directly, or does that hurt? 7. Are you well-acquainted with your G-spot? 8. Are handjobs boring, or underrated? 9. Do you like having your balls touched? 10. Do you like having your nipples touched? 11. Do you like having your anus touched? 12. Have you ever been fisted (anally or vaginally)? 13. Do you like mild roughness (scratching, spanking, hair-pulling, etc.)? 14. Do you have any kinks? 15. Are you into anything under the BDSM umbrella? 16. Do you pee in the shower? 17. Do you ever masturbate in the shower? 18. Have you had sex in the shower? 19. Do you like being naked? 20. Do you sleep partially/fully naked? 21. Have you ever skinny dipped? 22. What’s the most unusual thing you’ve done nude? 23. Have you ever to a nude beach, naked party, or other situation involving casual nudity? 24. Are you comfortable being seen partially/fully naked by family or friends (i.e. getting dressed, etc.)? 25. Are you comfortable with partners seeing you nude in non-sexual contexts? 26. Have you ever showered with someone (non-sexually)? 27. Do you care if a partner sees you going to the bathroom? 28. Do you have naked pictures/videos of yourself? If yes, have you sent them to anyone? Are they online? 29. How many sexual partners have you had? 30. How often do you masturbate? 31. Age you started masturbating? How did you discover/learn about it? 32. What position do you typically masturbate in (laying on back, on stomach, sitting up, etc.)? 33. Describe your masturbation routine, technique, etc. 34. What do you masturbate to (porn, smut, imagination, etc.)? 35. Have you ever masturbated to the point you got sore? 36. Your thoughts the first time you got up close and personal with the opposite set of genitals? 37. Have you ever “compared” (genitals, breasts, whatever) with a friend? 38. What kind of underwear do you normally wear? 39. Do you ever go commando? 40. Have you ever had a wet dream/orgasmed in your sleep? 41. How big is your penis? 42. Does your penis curve at all? 43. Which testicle hangs lower? 44. How big are your breasts? 45. Do you long or short labia? Are they even or uneven? 46. Do you have a particularly large or tiny clitoris? 47. Are you circumcised or no? Are you happy with it? 48. Are you turned on or off by foreskin, or don’t care? 49. What are you more into (or like more about yourself), boobs or butts? 50. Do you find genitals physically attractive, or weird/gross, or not feel strongly either way? 51. Do you like the way your genitals look? 52. Would you be able to pick out your genitals from a lineup? 53. Do you like your butt? 54. What do you do with your pubic hair (shave, trim, wax, nothing, etc.)? 55. Do you care/have a preference what partners do with their pubic hair? 56. Do you tuck your penis a certain way (i.e. left or right) when you get dressed? 57. Do you have or want any genital piercings? Do you like any on other people? 58. What is the quickest you’ve ever brought yourself (or been brought) to orgasm? 59. Do you ever “edge” (repeatedly stop and start) when masturbating? 60. What’s the longest masturbation session you’ve had? Longest sex session? 61. What’s the most orgasms you’ve had in one session (of anything)? 62. Do your orgasms tend to be full-body, or crotch-centric? 63. Spit or swallow? 64. When you ejaculate, do you more shoot or dribble? 65. Is it hot or gross to get ejaculated on? 66. Do you “squirt?” 67. Have you ever attempted (or succeeded) to give yourself oral? 68. Have you ever given/received a footjob, boobjob, etc.? 69. Have you ever had sex in a public place? 70. Have you ever had sex in a bed/on a couch that didn’t belong to either of you? 71. Have you ever had sex/masturbated while somebody was sleeping near you? 72. How many rooms of your house/apartment/etc. have you had sex in? 73. Strangest/most unique place you’ve had sex? How about masturbated? 74. Have you had any sexual experiences that were downright gross? 75. Are you particularly “vocal” when masturbating/having sex? 76. Have you ever been caught masturbating/having sex? 77. Have you had or do you want to have a threesome (or foursome, or more)? 78. Do you own any sex toys? 79. Have you ever used a homemade sex toy, or a regular object as a sex toy? 80. Can a dildo feel as good as a penis (assuming the person with the penis is good at what they do)? 81. What are your favorite positions? 82. Your most embarrassing sexual experience? 83. Worst place/time you’ve ever gotten a boner? 84. Have you ever had any genital injuries? 85. Have you ever had a sexually transmitted infection? 86. Have you ever had a non-sexually transmitted genital infection (yeast infection, etc)? 87. If you lack a penis, have you ever tried to pee standing up? 88. If you lack a penis, how familiar are you with how you look down there? 89. Do you think you’re “good” at sex, or your performance/skill could use improvement? 90. Have you “sexted” (whether through text messaging or IM chat)? 91. Have you masturbated for or with someone via webcam? 92. Have you have phone sex? 93. If you had the opposite set of genitals for a day, name 5 things you would do. 94. What’s something you like about your body? 95. What’s something you dislike about your body? 96. What body parts do you find the sexiest? 97. What was your most recent sexual thought? 98. Do you ever just play with your boobs, penis, labia, etc.? 99. When was the last time you touched your genitals? 100. Do you often imagine people naked?

Sen-s-ual Questionaire

1. How was your first kiss? Tell us about it

2. How often would you have sex in your ideal world?

3. What’s your self-love routine?

4. What makes you feel comfortable during sex?

5. What makes you feel anxious/stressed/nervous about/during sex? (let’s start normalizing these things, we all feel them)

6. What keeps you in the moment while having sex? How do you connect to your body while at it?

7. Where do you like to be touched most? Do you like the touch to be hard/soft/variable/repetitive?

8. Describe your perfect kind of sex in ONE word! 

9. Do you use drugs/other substances to alter your experience during sex? Do you enjoy sex without them as well? 

10. Do you prefer monogamous or non-monogamous (polyamorous/open) relationship styles? 

11. Which kind of sexual encounter sounds most exciting to you right now (hook up/one night stand/threesome/orgy/masturbation etc.)?

12. Do you need emotional connection for sex (to be good)?

13. Describe a sexual/romantic fantasy you had before you had sex for the first time (if you can’t remember, describe one you had a few years ago) and one you have now!

14. Do you like hierachial structures during sex?

15. Do you like to be more dominant, submissive, switch or neutral in sex play?

16. Do you feel supported in your sexual preferences by friends/society/your partner(s)?

17. Do you feel like it’s okay for you to enjoy non-conforming sexual practices/roles in our heteronormative, patriarchic society? Or do you feel like gender roles stand in your way of sexual liberation?

18. Have you ever experienced guilt or shame around your sexuality?

19. Do you enjoy communication during sex or do you prefer to not talk?

20. What sexual/romantic act have you always wanted to try, but haven’t been sure if you’d enjoy it/didn’t know how to do it?

21. Do you feel pleasure in receiving pain?

22. Do you feel pleasure in causing pain to your partner(s)?

23. How do you check in with your partner(s) during sex? How do you establish consent (any fun/playful ways maybe)?

24. Describe the relationship you have to your genitals in ONE word? 

25. Do you enjoy using sex toys? How many do you have?

26. If you could invent the perfect sex toy for you, how would it look like/what could it do (get creative)? 

27. Do you enjoy being restrained/tied up? How does this practice makes you feel/why do you enjoy it?

28. Are you into BDSM? Why do you enjoy it?

29. What has been the funniest sexual encounter/experience you had? 

30. How do you feel about sex in public? Do you like to watch or be watched? 

31. Ever been to a Swinger Club? If no, would you?

32. Do you enjoy cyber sex? Sexting, cam sex, telephone sex etc.?

33. What does your after-sex/after-care routine look like?

34. Have you ever felt so emotionally overwhelmed/physically overstimulated that you cried during sex?

35. Have you ever tried tantra or breathing exercises/meditation during sex? [If not, do it, it will change your life :) ]

36. How do you engage in safer sex? Do you talk with your sexual partner(s) about contraception/STD’s before sex or even at all?

37. What kind of porn do you enjoy? 

38. Do you have any fetishes and if so can you remember, since when you consciously knew of them?

39. Are you happy with your sex life at the moment? If not, what would you like to change about it?

40. How do you define sex (does foreplay/oral/cuddling etc. fall into the definition)?

41. What unconventional sex practices do you find alluring? 

42. Have you ever tried anal play? Did you enjoy it? What made it enjoyable?

43. Is there anything off-limits for you when it comes to sex? If so, what is it?

44. Do you like to be called a specific term during sex (e.g. babygirl, daddy, sir etc.)? Does calling your partner(s) a specific term, turn you on? If so which term it it?

45. How do you navigate disagreements/discrepancies surrounding sex with your partner(s)?

46. Which senses turn you on the most - touch, visuals, sound, smell, taste?

47. What does your sexual routine looks like and what would you do, if you had to do the exact opposite of that?

48. What other life activities can give you an equal amount of pleasure like sex does? 

49. What tip(s) would you give others in regards to having amazing sex?

50. No question, just wanted to leave a little reminder: You are worthy of love. You are worthy of fulfilling your desires. You’re perfectly beautiful and desirable the way YOU ARE. No matter what your sexuality is, how your body looks like (it definitely is beautiful and holy either way), what gender-identity you have, what kind of kinks you have, if you have a partner or how many partners you have, if you like to not have sex, if you have a lot of different sexual encounters or none at all, if you’re in a monogamous or non-monogamous relationship - YOU ARE AN AMAZING HUMAN WORTHY OF LIFE AND LOVE 🖤

Compiled this Sex Questionaire, that is a bit unusual and different, in hopes to make the Tumblr Community a bit more colorful and positive ! Some of these questions are my own, others are inspired by the amazing compilation from Shrimp Teeth, you can find down below. Share and support ! *Please do not remove the caption*

https://www.instagram.com/p/B-uqu26JIO2/

Talk about good to eat!!!