When It Comes To Synastry, Is It Better To Have Someone’s Lilith Conjunct Your Ascendant Or Your Descendant?

All the Boys love Mandy Lane💋

I was watching the movie All the Boys love Mandy Lane and I was thinking of astrology, ofc 🤭. this movie was giving venus-pluto aspects, scorpio venus, or venus-lilith. All the aspects that indicate people being dangerously obsessed with someone. The movie is about a hot girl staying at some guys ranch house with some friends and people start going missing. They show that the killer is her old best friend who is obsessed with her. In the beginning we see him basically kill a guy who was trying to pursue her. SPOLIER ALERT: Now we do see that she was in on killing everyone in the ranch. But she betrays her best friend by breaking their promise, she kills him and goes on to act like the victim. It's not the best movie but it's a somewhat accurate example of what people with these placements can experience.

A list of some placements I think that can relate: lilith in 1st house, pluto-venus aspects, lilith-asc, scorpio venus, pluto in the first house, pluto-asc, scorpio rising, maybe Medusa placements like prominent Medusa or Medusa in the 1st house, pluto dominant, maybe Neptune placements

I got a Scorpio Venus, Venus sextile Lilith, Lilith in the 1st house, Pluto square ascendant, and I'm Pluto dominant. Could I end up in a Mandy Lane situation?

Well it really depends on what kind of person you are I think people with those aspects have the ability to manipulate men really well which is what she did in the movie

I don't see anyone talk about how being a sun and Jupiter dominant is so hard maybe it's because I have hard aspects but I've always been seen as "too much"

Femininity gurus piss me off so much. They preach oppressive, misogynistic rhetoric to impressionable young girls as "empowering".

Respect yourself so much that you immediately cut off anyone who triggers your red flag detectors. If you even have a small feeling that you can't trust a person, your instincts are probably right. Don't put yourself in a situation that can damage your self esteem, boundaries and inner peace.

And no you should not see it through, unless of course you can observe with out letting it have any negative affect on you. And when I say cut them off immediately, I'm talking about people who provide no actual value to your life.

when they thought they had you figured out but you’re full of surprises

working full time is terrible why do we just accept that having 8 days off a month is normal and okay........ being alive could be cool but we waste it at our JOBS.... sorry i’m just heated about capitalism again i’ll be fine

This is so true!!! I wish more women could realize this

Random but I've been seeing videos about men embarrassing their wives on wedding day (smashing cake into their face, embarrassing wedding vows, even degrading sometimes 🤢) ik we've all seen that video of the woman with purple hair and her vows vs her husbands and if not, it's disgusting, the man goes on about keeping him satisfied sexually and she talks about how she's not good enough for him basically. And I recently saw a post by @zeldasnotes on Pluto dom people hating stuff like that and I've heard the same for Saturn doms too. As a Pluto dom and Saturn conjunct the MC I never found stuff like this funny I take embarrassment seriously and like others have been saying someone who loves you wouldn't try to embarrass you. Anyway this is something random that came into my mind, thoughts and opinions?

Hello! I was looking at your posts, they're very interesting and I love reading them! I had no idea that degrees on your ascendant mattered. I was wondering if you could explain to me what it means to have a libra rising at 8 degrees? You don’t have to respond to this part if you happen to see this but, I'm not sure if this relates or if it’s true, but I heard mars rules over your head and it can also determine your physical appearance! I have leo mars in 12 degrees. If you do see this, I hope you have a nice day!

Some people aruge that degrees matter some say they don't for me they so have some significance because I relate to them the 8th degree is scorpio so you might have a scorpio vibe to you or appearance you may like dark colors, seem or be mysterious I'll give an example I'm a scorpio rising but a cancer degree while some say I look intimidating and I can be quiet/reserved I've also been told I give mom vibes I also look like my mom so the degrees most times don't completely take over but they have influence with the mars idk I never thought about this really but it probably can if so this would indicate you may have a fierce, ethereal, and or soft face since 12th degree is pisces some might say your face is ideal