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Recently, I have been reflecting a lot about myself and my personal growth from the past year. This year was tough for me, academically and personally. And many, many, many things have not gone my way. So, I uh, I have kind of failed a lot this year? I think I have failed more in this past year than in the previous nineteen years of my life. I failed at my new job, I almost failed calculus, my grades have struggled all year long, I had to withdraw from my summer class, etc. As hard as this year has been, I definitely think I am a better person now that I am on the other side of it. I am so much stronger than I was June 29th of last year. I have had to grown up a lot, and learned some “big girl” lessons. So here are my thoughts on dealing with failure, in school and just in life in general,  and how to tackle all the messy emotions that come along with it. 

1.) Remember: college is a tough environment. 

Most of my friends and acquaintances are all tirelessly working towards some impressive end goal (graduating, getting into med school, getting an internship). Many of my friends are also in hard programs, and must be at top performance at all times. I attend a competitive university, and so it really does seem like EVERYONE has their life together. Everyone I know has big dreams/goals/plans. We are all trying SO damn hard to succeed at our respective fields, and it can be hard to always be around successful, overachieving friends. Most of the time it is great– I have a great support system and I love to see all the great things my friends are doing…but

It can be so hard to not compare. It’s hard when everyone seems to have everything working out for them, and I don’t. Especially when I feel as though I put in an equal amount of effort. It is important to remember that first of all, it is impressive that you are even in college. You would not have gotten accepted into your university if you could not have handled the work. It is important to remember in school, that everyone goes through their struggles. Some struggles are just more apparent than others. 

2.) It’s okay to not be perfect. 

I know this can sound cheesy, but it is true. I struggle with perfectionism. I always feel like I need to be in top performance mode for school, but somedays, I just can’t be. I get tired, or sad, discouraged and stressed, just the same as everyone does. You aren’t a robot, and you can’t just go-go-go without stopping. Sometimes to you need to stop and take a break. It is okay to rest. Resting is not quitting. It is not failure. 

3.) Reflect and learn from what happened…then MOVE ON. 

I honestly think this is the most important point. It’s very important to look back on your past mistakes and think “What could I have done differently?”…Could I have studied more effectively? Could I have started planning earlier? Could I have been a better friend? Use your failures to your advantage– learn something from them. This is how you better yourself. 

However, after wallowing in self-pity, and dwelling on whatever happened, move on. It is now in the past. It is done. It is hard to not be hard on yourself. Nobody is perfect. No one should expect you to be perfect, and you should not expect that of others. 

4.) Failure is necessary.

Failure is the scary part about “putting yourself out there,” in every aspect of life. But, it does make you a tougher person. I have failed a lot in my life, but I can say with confidence that I have more grit than pretty much anyone else I know. I throw myself at my goals, but only get the desired results half the time. That is life. Life is not fair. I have such a steadfast grasp on what I want to do with my life, and I refuse to let any obstacle overcome that. My failures have made me realize how badly I want to achieve my dreams. If you are not comfortable with failing, then you are going to miss out on a lot of life experiences. It’s going to happen to you, no one is immune. 

Well, I hope anything I said comforts at least one person. If anyone else out there isn’t having the best time, remember: it’s okay. You are doing enough just by trying. Go do great things, friends. 

Stones Meanings & Trees

Amazonite: Confidence, Self-love, Creative Expression

Amethyst: Intuition, Balance, Higher Wisdom

Apatite: Energetic Clearing, Psychic Attunement, Authenticity

Aventurine: Prosperity, Well being, Good Luck

Angelite: Divine Love, Gentleness, Healing

Black Tourmaline: Protection, Banishing, Security

Black Onyx: Blocking Negativity, Patience, Determination

Blue Goldstone: Inspiration, Optimism, Dreaming

Blue Aventurine: Hope, Clear Speech, Empathy

Blue Calcite: Serenity, Restoration, Releasing Stress

Carnelian: Passion, Sexual energy, Creativity

Citrine: Brightness, Positive Energy, Clearing, Prosperity, Success

Clear Quartz: Awareness, Amplifying Energy, Clarity

Dalmatian Stone: Loyalty, Family Bonds, Connection to Animals

Fluorite: Renewal, Harmony, Energizing

Garnet: Self-Esteem, Victory, Eternal Love

Hematite: Courage, Inner Strength, Grounding

Howlite: Calming, Compromise, Sleep

Lapis Lazuli: Psychic Vision, Celestial Energy, Nobility

Labradorite: Awakening Joy, Interdimensional Travel, Innovation

Lepidolite: Emotional Balance, Stress Relief, Spiritual Growth

Leopardskin Jasper: Adaptability, Shamanic Journeys, Animal magick

Malachite: Wealth, Beauty, Individuality

Mahogany Obsidian: Earth Energy, Personal Power, Integrity

Moss Agate: Contentment, Connection with nature, Abundance

Moonstone: Intuition, Sensuality, Safe Travel

Prehnite: Shielding, Self-Care, Discernment

Pyrite: Shielding, Success, Money Magick

Red Goldstone: Happiness, Ingenuity, Boldness

Red Jasper: Strength, Honesty, Stability

Rhodonite: Forgiveness, Relationships, Overcoming

Rose Quartz: Unconditional Love, Emotional Healing, Compassion

Ruby Fuchsite: Integration, Friendship, Trust

Selenite: Purification, Peace, Enlightenment

Sodalite: Communication, Self expression, Truth

Serpentine: Hidden Mysteries, Observation, Instinct

Snowflake Obsidian: Spiritual Protection, Transmutation, Acceptance

Sunstone: Leadership, Generosity, Blessings

Tiger's Eye: Willpower, Warrior's spirit, Self-Motivation

Unakite: Attraction, Resolve Conflict, Healing the Past

Almond:  Prosperity, wisdom

Apple: Love, healing

Ash: Protection, healing, prosperity

Aspen: Protection from thieves

Avocado: Love, lust, beauty

Banyan: Luck, knowledge

Beech: Creativity, tolerance

Birch: Rebirth, purification, protection of children, Moon matter

Bodhi: Meditation, wisdom, fertility, protection

Buckthorn: Exorcism, protection, legal matters

Cedar: Healing, purification, protection, prosperity

Cherry: Love, divination, healing

Cypress: Immortality- longevity, protection, strength, death, protection, wishes

Elder: Defends against evil and negative energy. Protection, health, spirituality, banishment

Elm: Protection, love

Fig: Fertility, balance, safety

Hawthorne: Protects against damage from storms, encourages happiness. Fertility and purification.

Hazel: Wisdom, abundance, protection, luck, divination, inspiration

Hickory: Legal matters

Holly: Protection, luck, dream magick, consecration, prosperity

Larch: Protection, anti-fire

Licorice: Love, fidelity

Lilac: Defends against harmful spirits, exorcism, love

Linden: Protection, luck, immortality, love

Magnolia: Fidelity

Maple: Love, prosperity, longevity, unification, divining rod

Mesquite: Healing, magical fires

Mimosa: Protection, dreams, love, purification

Mulberry: Protection, strength

Myrtle: Fertility, youth, love, peace, prosperity

Oak: Protection, health, luck, power, strength

Peach:  Longevity, protection, fertility, divination, happiness

Pear: Lust, love

Pecan: Employment

Pepper tree: Purification, healing, protection

Pine: Protection, longevity, healing, fidelity, purification

Plum: Protection, the wild

Pomegranate: Wealth, money-attraction

Poplar: The Crone, astral projection, divination, rebirth

Rose: Love

Rowan: Protects health, healing, divination

Sandalwood: Protection, healing, exorcism, spirituality

Sassafras: Defends against evil and negative spirits, health, and propsperity

Walnut: Healing, mental powers, protection

Willow: Moon magick, protection, healing, divination, love

Witch Hazel: Protection, divination

Yew: Death, immortality, protection

" The Secrets of Planet Rotation and Tilt " //© astro.voyagers

Planet’s “rotation” refers to its spinning motion about its own axis. One full rotation around equals 1 full day on that particular planet. Each planet has its own rotation time speed and the length of a day on each planet is noted on screen. Jupiter has the quickest day which is ~ 9 hours and 55 minutes long. Venus has the longest day which is an astonishing 243 EARTH DAYS and 26 minutes long!! That’s DAYS and not HOURS!! In other words Venus rotates VERY slowly. KEY TO REMEMBER: 🔑 Jupiter spins very quickly. 🔑 Venus spins very slowly. TIMES TO REMEMBER: Approximate day length of each planet (from shortest to longest): Jupiter: 9 hours, 55 minutes. Saturn: 10 hours, 33 minutes. Neptune: 16 hours. Uranus: 17 hours, 14 minutes. Earth: 23 hours, 56 minutes. Mars: 24 hours, 36 minutes. Mercury: 58 EARTH days, 16 hours. Venus: 243 EARTH days, 26 minutes. Mercury has a scorching daytime temperature and a freezing nighttime chill due to its lack of atmosphere. Venus experiences extreme greenhouse effect, making it the hottest planet despite being the second from the Sun. Earth’s axial tilt gives us seasons, shaping the world’s climate and ecosystems. Mars’ tilt creates dramatic climate variations, including polar ice caps and dusty storms. Jupiter’s rapid rotation creates its iconic bands of clouds and the Great Red Spot, a giant storm. Saturn’s tilt gives us stunning views of its magnificent ring system. Uranus’ peculiar tilt may have been caused by a massive collision in its distant past.

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