π©π»βπ¦°β€π€΄β₯οΈπΈπ₯
Happy dating! π©π»βπ¦°β₯οΈπ€΄β₯οΈπΈ
This might be a little silly question but how exactly do we start seeing someone and tell them were poly?
I myself am not in any relationship atm never were, but I feel like If I were to get into one I should tell my s/o, how do you exactly do that?
(Of course there is a chance I'll be the one joining a polycule but still i would like to know how to tell someone intrested in me that)
So general advice is, "the sooner the better" and I tend to agree. Having to break up a relationship of months or years over a fundamental incompatibility here hurts and might even make the other person feel lied to π¬
How depends on what this relationship looks like prior. I just put it in my dating profile with I'm using an app π₯ to find people. Saves the drama of having to say it myself, because people that aren't interested just swipe away.
If you're friends first, I would handle it as telling a friend. I've always had the types of friendships where I can text "yo I know i haven't dated anyone but I think I'm poly??" to them at a quarter till midnight and have them respond "1 how could you possibly know (genuine question) but 2 heyyy congrats that's sick". If that's not your situation, your mileage may vary, but I still think that's the better way to go than asking them out first and then opening yourself up to a second possible point of rejection by only telling them you're poly after.
If its someone you met IRL and you're flirting a bit but you're not really dating and you're not really friends so you're not sure what you're doingβThat to me is the hardest place to tread. I have traditionally gotten to a "so what are we" point and then if we agree we're something romantic, I respond that I'm stoked but I do wanna be clear ahead of time that I'm poly. Otherwise, end of the first date (if you want a second) is a safe bet. Just a "this went really well, but I do want to make sure we're on the same pageπ about what we want" and make it part of that discussion along with anything else that falls into that category.
I hope that helps!! Happy dating! π
Morning Kisses! Love you Love you All!π
π©βπ¦°β€π€΄β€πΈ
Beautiful π©βπ¦°β€π€΄β€πΈ
A normal life journey we all go through every day! π©βπ¦°β€π€΄β€πΈ
Care...make a difference
π©β€π€΄β€πΈgood read!
I made this for my informative speech in school~
Is there any incorrect or iffy information?? If so please send me an ask to let me know!!
EDIT 4: Most updated version as of May 6th!!!
Itβs a relationship!π§β€π¦β€π§ Keep the bonding tight...enjoy the best of both worlds!
#Cuckquean #Cuckake
π©β€π€΄β€πΈ
π©π»βπ¦°β₯οΈπ€΄β₯οΈπΈ
Meβ₯οΈMineβ₯οΈOurs
Love Languages π§‘
Mine is : Quality Time