Is she sexy or not.??
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āMistress Toni will require a response to the question!ā
Just a friendly reminder that buying me a drink doesnāt mean you get an invitation into my pants. In fact, it doesnāt even earn you an invitation to talk to me. No one asked you to spend that $6 and itās actually rude to buy someone a gift and just expect to get something back in return, this aināt Christmas. I donāt OWE you my attention.
Paying me a compliment doesnāt make you my hero & my number your reward. Just because Iām flattered doesnāt mean Iām interested. & I donāt OWE you an explanation for turning you down. Sorry not sorry about your fragile masculinity.
Being nice doesnāt mean I want to fuck you. Donāt mistake my kindness for flirtation. Being put in the āfriend zoneā isnāt a bad thing but if you want more out of our friendship, speak up. If I reject you, either move on or respect my decision. I am not a bitch for not returning your feelings and Iām not holding a gun to your head telling you to stay my friend when you feel rejected. I donāt OWE you sex just because Iām a girl & youāve been nice to me.
Just because my body is sexualized doesnāt mean Iām obligated to be sexy. Contrary to popular belief, femininity exists outside of the male gaze. I dress how I want, when I want. Iāll wear as much or as little make-up as my cold, black heart desires. I donāt need to live up to some weird & unattainable fantasy of what you think a āwomanā should be. Shaving isnāt a prerequisite for womanhood. My body is hairy, get over it. How or IF I choose to remedy is MY decision. & if you think my makeup is misleading, thatās on you. What do you think makeup does? Iāll tell you, makes me FEEL beautiful & hides my imperfections, bozo. You want me to be natural but then complain when Iām hairy & you can see my stress breakouts? Yaāll make ZERO sense. And anyway, I donāt OWE you perfection.
Going on one date with you doesnāt guarantee a second. Having sex with you one time doesnāt make me obligated to do it again. Saying yes once doesnāt give you an all access pass to my pussy. Consent is ALWAYS required because I donāt OWE you a good time.
I am a human being. Not an object. I have thoughts & feelings & I donāt OWE ANYONE SHIT. Some of the best advice I was ever given was really simple & I try to remember it every single day.
āNO is a complete sentence.ā
** I am a heterosexual, married, woman. This post is not targeting any one group of people/persons. Yes, it sounds like Iām speaking directly at men but thatās only because thatās been MY experience. Really, these are all statements that can be aimed at anyone, by anyone. In general, no one owes anyone else anything (I mean, unless they saved your life and you feel indebted to them or something but thatās another topic all together so I digress.)