All Women (and I Mean ALL) Are On The Pick-me Spectrum. No Woman Is Immune To Patriarchal Indoctrination,

All women (and I mean ALL) are on the pick-me spectrum. No woman is immune to patriarchal indoctrination, even if she grew up in a matriarchal household. We're all initially on the pick me spectrum. Thing is, are you deconstructing patriarchy? Are you deconstructing the socialization and deep-rooted programming? Like, are you putting in the work to actually change? Because calling yourself a "girl's girl" means NOTHING. Bashing overt pick-me's doesn't automatically absolve you from what little pick-me tendencies you have. Calling yourself a feminist means fuck-all actually.

And being male-centered doesn't mean you wouldn't pick your female friends over a man any day — although that's more of an extreme example which harms those outside of you. Being male-centered / pick-me could be as 'harmless' as planning your future around an imaginary man or seriously waiting for a man; "Oh I want to move to Paris by 30 but I can't because I want to meet my husband first", "Oh I'm studying hard only so that I can meet a very educated accomplished man when I'm educated and accomplished myself", "Oh I plan on moving to Spain only when I'm with my future boyfriend 😁✨". When you have to halt your plans or dreams to prioritize a man/imaginary man, that IS male-centered. When you center a man/imaginary man around your plans or dreams, that IS male-centered. Putting your wants + needs second for a man/future man is male-centered. Women are socialized to center men in even the "little" things.

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4 weeks ago

URGENT HELP SAVE THE LIFE OF MY CHILD.

Dear humanity,

Please Help Me – My Son May Die at Any Moment.

I'm Amal, a mother of three children, living under the weight of the genocide taking place in Gaza. 🍉

Here’s my story, and I’m reaching out with a hopeful heart 💔✨, hoping someone will feel what my family and I are going through.

My son is suffering from a severe and life-threatening injury after being shot by Israeli drones. He urgently needs medical treatment outside Gaza.

Time is running out, and we are facing a critical situation. I am asking for your generosity to help us save him either through a donation or by sharing this urgent plea with others

I beg you, i kiss your feet, to help my son. My son may die at any moment.

I lost most of my family. I'm afraid to lose my son too 🥺

Mohammed deserves to live a happy and healthy life, just like every other child on this earth.

So I humbly ask you to donate even a little or at least reblog this appeal.

Please Donate now:👇

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1 month ago

i swear feline yoni women have such SHARP cheekbones like no other (ashlesha, punarvasu, vishakha, chitra, dhanishta, purva bhadrapada) like i swear someone can get a paper cut due to their sharp ass cheeks! (pause)

likeeee LOOKK!

I Swear Feline Yoni Women Have Such SHARP Cheekbones Like No Other (ashlesha, Punarvasu, Vishakha, Chitra,

doechii: ashlesha sun, rising

I Swear Feline Yoni Women Have Such SHARP Cheekbones Like No Other (ashlesha, Punarvasu, Vishakha, Chitra,

tyra banks: punarvasu rising

I Swear Feline Yoni Women Have Such SHARP Cheekbones Like No Other (ashlesha, Punarvasu, Vishakha, Chitra,

alexia demie: chitra moon, ashlesha rising

I Swear Feline Yoni Women Have Such SHARP Cheekbones Like No Other (ashlesha, Punarvasu, Vishakha, Chitra,

miley cyrus: vishakha moon

I Swear Feline Yoni Women Have Such SHARP Cheekbones Like No Other (ashlesha, Punarvasu, Vishakha, Chitra,

marilyn monroe: ashlesha rising, dhanishta sun

I Swear Feline Yoni Women Have Such SHARP Cheekbones Like No Other (ashlesha, Punarvasu, Vishakha, Chitra,

megan fox: ashlesha moon

I Swear Feline Yoni Women Have Such SHARP Cheekbones Like No Other (ashlesha, Punarvasu, Vishakha, Chitra,

jhene aiko: purva bhadrapada sun and moon

like underneath their cheekbones they all have a shadow that makes it look sharper, enhancing their features. they have a oval face shape but their chin points down a little, lowkey gives fairy 🧚‍♀️. when people try to suck their cheeks, it gives that look of sharp cheekbones but the examples i have are just effortlessly naturally high cheekbones. feline yoni and their paper cut cheekbones!

if someone has high cheekbones and have a shadow underneath when taking pics and stuff, they may have a feline yoni present in their top 3!


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2 months ago

Women truly need to stop giving a shit about what others, especially men, think they are. Women are constantly villanized for the minorest of annoyances or comments. Strangers opinions on you do not matter.

A lot of women just want to be seen as the “good girl”. The nicest most kindest martyr who would never say or do the wrong thing. It’s just completely different to step out of that mindset, that you have to always consider everyone else and you can never have your own thoughts, and truly love and accept yourself. To have a strong internal sense of self and remember that you are an intelligent, good person with morals.

Women are socialized to prioritize men over themselves and are taught their worth comes from men. But you can outgrow that. I did.

Stop cutting and carving yourself down so people who hate you will treat you with respect.

1 month ago

to all those 13-16 year old girls willingly putting themselves in the paths of predators please know they dont like you. you arent special to them. you arent even beautiful to them. youre just another in the revolving door of teen girls because youre gonna get older. youll get older and another young girl will replace you and these men will leave you broken and alone. youre going to wake up one day and youre going to be 21 and your old tricks dont work because youre no longer a child and youre going to be lost and left picking up the pieces as you realize what happened to you. youll have no sense of self outside of being “younger” because an adult man who cannot find a woman his age has left his mark on you. while other girls your age were socializing and dating publicly you are some lonely old mans secret and the second he gets scared of that secret being found out he’s going to dump you.

whether you listen to me or not its gonna happen. and you’re going to wonder why.

1 month ago

https://www.tumblr.com/rosemarie333/781733073265033216/is-it-a-hasta-thing-to-be-called-witchy-or-a

i’m a hasta rising! always been referred to as witchy vibes or been told you have that aura or like “you look like you’d curse me” i’m chalking it up to my jyestha moon 😭😭😭

hey! yessss!!!! i totally understand what you mean! im also a hasta rising, mercurial moon and my family always told me that they were scared of pissing me off because i would "curse" them.

One day idk remember the full details I think my mom was getting under my skin, and I was pissed and so I glanced at her and she fell down the stairs, and chalked it up to my "witchy" powers. Even before then my family would say the way I look like the type to curse someone. I also do tarot and other things which exacerbated it as well. I think having mercurial moons don't help because with that trickster energy people always think we're up to something😭

Anyways glad someone can relate!

1 month ago

might move across the country and marry an alien 👽 ♥️

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