One Thing About Me Is I Would Always Prefer The Found Family Be Unhealthily Codependent Little Freaks

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Reblog to send care packages to our troops on the front lines (ao3 volunteers) in their fight against this eminent threat (DDoS attacker).

wishing mine was looking a little more like his

Team is having one helluva first semester at university.

the vibes for spring

#bisexual representation 💖💜💙

this is honestly so fucking sick, just because someone is a celebrity or a "big name" does NOT mean that the masses get to walk all over and dissect their lives, issues, personality or identity. wtf is wrong with these people

This is what I was talking about.

This is exactly why the whole "Queer characters can only be played by queer actors" argument, or the queerbaiting celebrities argument is not only unhelpful, it is actively harmful. You are not entitled to other peoples identity. You are forcing people to come out in order to protect their careers, when they may not have wanted to share that with the world. Real people can not queerbait. Real people can not be bad representations of themselves. Do not conflate how you treat fictional characters with how you are allowed to treat real people. We can not keep having the same conversation. Forcing people to come out or else face social consequences is Bad. Always. Everytime.

In this case, Kit is literally a teenager who has been facing overwhelming amounts of online abuse for not being open about his personal identity.

Im seeing it with other queer media too. With nicholas galitzin and taylor zakhar perez in the red white & royal blue movie, people demanding that they should have been recast with "actual queer actors" despite the fact that we do not know if they are or are not queer. We can never know until they tell us that they are, which they have not.

Im also seeing it with young royals. With the new season coming out later today, the speculation on omar and edvins sexuality and relationship is incredibly harmful and toxic. They are real people, please treat them like people instead of fictional characters you can write rambling, speculating paragraphs about.

I'll say it one more time.

You are not entitled to other people's identities.

"your boobs are huge" thank you it's where I keep my big beautiful heart

15 people, 15 questions

thank you for the tag @wweasleyhp !!!

nickname: bagel

sign: scorpio

height: 5'3"

last thing I googled: world cup standings

song stuck in my head: "vengeance" - bibi

followers: 7

sleep: about 4 hours

dream job: cafe bookstore owner

movie/book that summarizes me: "Aristotle and Dante discover the secrets of the universe" - Benjamin Alire Sáenz

wearing: deep green cropped cardigan, dark blue flare jeans, white platform sneakers

favourite song: currently it is probably "time" - the rose

instrument: used to play alto saxophone

aesthetic: I don't think I have one

favourite author: currently it's probably V.E. Schwab

random fun fact: I absolutely loathe reading romance books/novels yet somehow fanfiction slow burns and enemies to lovers are probably some of my favourite tropes lol

I'm tagging: @kayray-art @jimskittles @moaserendipity @lesbian-deadpool @lesbian-dp @eunstars @lengthofropes @frogsbtw @heretherebedork @waywardgryffindor @house-of-mani @esotericsnape @justanotherdragoncat @eggplant-crusader @virtualflatmates

begging all of you to get a cup of hot chocolate just because i’ve been chugging hot chocolate lately and it’s really good. also i don’t feel like getting into internet arguments as often anymore bc i see someone being stupid and i go ok… and i drink my hot chocolate and i stop caring about them. i think everyone should drink some hot chocolate and stop caring

I have to say the little ghost crab army has been a highlight of my day for the past week and I wish more companies could understand the simplicity of what they really need to do to fundraise

I love that musk is groveling asking people to pay for their blue checkmarks while tumblr's fundraising solution was to sell a tiny shitting horse, shoe laces, forced post visibility, and crab rain