The Most Important Thing Is- It Takes Time To Change The Mindset, To Change The Society. But It Is Not

তোমরা বড় হবে, চড়বে গাড়ি। আর আমি কাটব ঘাস......

Sometimes you think

Others have to value your opinion. Others have to accept your opinion. But why? It's not bad to be unique. It’s not necessary to be in a mob always. It's normal that others will not able to realize the hidden significance of your opinion. They will laugh, they will mock. But why will you disobey your own heart?

It's not always necessary to ignore the unique ideas you get in your mind. It’s not necessary to obey the traditional rule always. Do you fear the failure? Then what's the necessity of this living by only keeping yourself in the comfort zone? You have to cling to your unique idea WHATEVER happens.

IT’S YOU. (Others don't matter always)

#personality

নীরব হাসি হাসার মজাই আলাদা। যখন তুমি দেখো তোমার আশেপাশের মানুষগুলো অজান্তেই কত মানুষকে বিচার করছে। তাদের চিন্তা ভাবনা কতটা হীন হতে পারে! কিন্তু সাবধান! নীরব হাসি হাসার জন্য যোগ্যতা থাকা প্রয়োজন। পরে নিজেই না আবার মানুষের স্থানে বসে যাও!

I have several experiences of doing works on a whim; still, I do. 

For some cases, those were life-changing. For some, those were adventurous. For most cases, they were waste of time.

But what I suggest is to take the last step after being mentally “ready”: don’t deceive yourself. You know yourself the most. 

I do mistakes. She does mistakes. She learns from it; I stress out thinking “I did mistakes”. Result: she has already changed the game. I repeat the mistake again and stress out.

These sounds are seeming so beautiful in the winter night.

Language is really very hard things to learn. In these 17 years after birth, I could not learn neither Bangla nor English well. Even in these days, I struggle with the meaning of every words. English is a foreign language. So, it's natural we will be weak (though we were learning it for 13 years. I mourn for the energy to learn English i gave in the wrong way). But in case of Bangla too, i always stuck in the meanings. Firstly, words have different meaning in different areas. Ok, this problem can be solved in some extent by defining a standard meaning. But later the most struggling factor comes, how the people are taking the words and definitions from their perspective. Maybe I am using a word which I am using from my perspective but whom I am telling, he/she is getting the meaning from his/her perspective. This results in misunderstanding. Oh! How to deal with it! And this modern era has made it more critical because of virtual medias. In face to face talking, we can get some hints by seeing expressions, eye movement and face recognitions. But in social media, chatting platform, the problem become worse. Most of the people don't want to change their prospective. They always think from their way. Yeah, maybe they learnt to see the word from another vision. To cope with this world, i think it's more important to try to understand what is going on and then to react. Then it comes what does 'understanding' mean? I think it means to change own perspective. Understanding an idea means to think the idea from different dimensions, to question the idea from different dimensions and it's a continuous process. I know i will not be effective in my communication overnight. I don't want to do so. Just what I want is people will not react suddenly after hearing or seeing something, it's necessary to change the way to see and then to react. If it is possible, then it's important to try to think what others are saying, why they are saying and how will you take that in. I wish I could understand the world better.

I don't know why I can't focus on my goal. Why can't i become like others?

To the point,

I started to believe in "talent". I don't want to judge right or wrong. From now I firmly believe.

The heart of success does not depend on your TALENT, it depends on your EFFORT.

I firmly believe in geometric progression 🙂

Me: That time, I utter a word when I think I am ready for it. 

Inner Me: That time, I (try to) utter a word when I think I am ready for it. but still does not work -_-