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A follower of stoicism 🤘

The time came to take one path

I pondered and pondered but the good sides of both paths were seeming attractive at a time and also the risks those i have to face were unavoidable. This indecision became the most time killer for me.

But I took one today only because I love the PROCESS. I love the process and I love the process.

I am not lured by the sweet success or the devastating failure.

Whatever I do, I learn the process, I love it.

Exact presentation of my Daily life. An empty notebook, an open pen and a head phone. A girl is sitting with lots of writing in her head but struggle to write one word in notebook. I am getting voidness everywhere in my life..

Our nervous system has two modes of operation and it is easy to activate the relaxation mode.

Presence by Amy cuddy

তোমরা বড় হবে, চড়বে গাড়ি। আর আমি কাটব ঘাস......

Why I don't want to do mistakes anymore. It's normal, if i want to be creative, I have to do mistakes and learn from it.

Yh i missed it. Though my blog is about my posts only. I can't but reblog this!

As much i have understood, friendship exists sometimes but in many different ways . Virtual, real , imaginary but something doesn't need expression .one text ,one call, one smile ,one line is enough.

Maybe I won't make it more complex for now.

Maybe I do have a lot friends as saying but I have a few *FRiends* i wont forget

I dont care what definition says

“To focus on regret does nothing but turn that very present into another thing you will wish you did differently.”

— Matt Haig, Notes On A Nervous Planet

Starting to walk alone

In case you have learnt swimming in a traditional way, you should know it that first time, a teacher gives a support to the learner and the learner tries to survive in the water thinking s/he has a companion to support. Meanwhile, a time comes when the teacher makes the learner free and the learner still tries to swim assuming the presence of the teacher.

The moment the learner sees back ,realizing that he is alone, gives him two feeling.

1. The instant void feeling

2. The aha moment that yeah! I have learned it!

I know I am going through a path in my life when I saw behind, I saw none to guide me to my path. The aha moment is still ahead. But I know I am learning an invaluable skill

to walk alone.

( Don't get it otherwise. I am not saying that I don't have any well wishers, family members, friends to support me. Of course, they are beside me. But that's another part. To get my dream fulfilled, I need to take further steps where none will accompany me. And it's not bad. It's necessary for everyone to be self dependant. Some learn it fast; some do not. In case of me, it's harder. But I know I can cope up with it.

If you want to get something, you need to sacrifice other as well.)

“Suffering arises from craving; the only way to be fully liberated from suffering is to be fully liberated from craving; and the only way to be liberated from craving is to train the mind to experience reality as it is.”

— Yuval Noah Harari, Sapiens: A Brief History of Humankind