New Love And Deepspace Code ‼️

Reblog to let all the trans people on their dash know they are amazing today!!!

This blog is a safe space.

Nazis, TERFs, pedophiles, bigots, Tr*mp supporters, Islamophobes, exclusionists, queerphobes, and anyone who can’t reblog this post, etc, do not interact. I will block you.

💓 purposeful (general curiosity)

Send  💓 to listen to my Muse’s heartbeat. Send a context with it if you want something specific, or let me decide!

-> Medical (as in general wellness)

-> Lifesigns (checking for a heartbeat, monitoring a heartbeat)

-> Romantic (snuggling, ect)

-> Accidental (your head slipped onto their chest while resting/ tripped into them)

-> Purposeful ( Intentional - looking for a lullaby or just general curiosity).

-> Comfort  (after panic, after my muse almost died, you’re scared, ect)

hey. don’t cry. crush three cloves of garlic into a pot with a dollop of olive oil and stir until golden then add one can of crushed tomatoes a bit of balsamic vinegar half a tablespoon of brown sugar half a cup of grated parmesan cheese and stir for a few minutes adding a handful of fresh spinach until wilted and mix in pasta of your choice ok?

Tell me when you get bored. A story about doses. [x]

I posted this on twitter and had a variety of aggressive ableism thrown my way.

This is a story about changing what I can in spite of what I cannot for the comfort of my loved ones. The thing that others find to be hurtful about me is that I like to spend time in silent solitude. People who love me often feel hurt that I tend to solve my own problems instead of leaning on them.

When we spend too much time together, people find my neutrality to be concerning, and it becomes too much for people to be unable to read me.

To show the people I love that I enjoy their company in ways they can understand, I pool my energy together to be high-energy, peppy, and social. Since this is not my natural state of being, it takes effort, which can only be expended in small doses. I amplify the things people like in me while filtering out everything they dislike about me when I am in their company.

I change my behaviors for those I love, but at the end of the day, I cannot change my neutral state of being, which is the thing that they want most out of me.

This is a story about me accommodating people in the best way I know how, not the other way around. I would truly appreciate it if people don't misconstrue this anecdote as me asking for dismissal of hurtful behavior when in reality, people find hurt in the fact that I simply exist, and I must change for them.

list of users gone because of scortched earth

partyjockers: for pointing out that there are hairy potty fans on staff and making the connection that it's the reason trans women keep getting flagged as mature

iamdealwithit: for pointing out that tumblr live literally steals your data and ip address and sells it to advertisers and the police back in December 29th of 2022, and was active up until seven hours ago today (September 5 2023) because that post started circulating again

both these people had the images from their post completely erased, their blogs completely wiped, and in partyjockers case the original post was wiped from the history of the site as well as any reblogs.

it's very strange that this has only happened twice to my knowledge and it only occurs when people point put staff's complete ineptitude and active malice towards it's userbase.

anyway screenshot this post just incase they start getting trigger happy. once is absolutely horrible censorship and should never fucking happen. twice sets a precedent that they will use this again.

BASED

MOOD

SLAY

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So far my current Hobie HCs are:

He's a sensory seeking autistic

He's Aroace and sex neutral

FIGHT ME ON THIS I DARE YOU.

He was a crybaby as a child

Still is one now

He's a masochist

He comes from Caribbean heritage

He can't sing or dance

He likes to craft in his spare time

I can see him doing something like crocheting, sewing, or embroidery.

I'll add more as time goes on but those are the first that comes to mind.

I picked painting & friendship bracelet making

Please for the love of all things good and gracious......someone ANYONE write this PLEASE

I just wanna enjoy my food man....🥲🥲

I just wanna sit and fantasize about being in an ace4ace relationship with Hobie Brown but I gotta go out and do tasks.