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Meet Billie eilish and have her follow you on tiktok, or shift for 3 times in a row and never shift again 😞💔

OLD ASK IM SORRY HUT UHHH SHIFT 3 TIMES AND NEVER AGAIN cause i can just shift to a place where i always shift

IM A MASTERMIND WTF CAN I SAYUYY

thoughts on dolphins? i’m terrified of them. i would rather be in the ocean with a shark

I think I would rather be hooked up to a bomb or stabbed with needles than be near a dolphin, they’re way too smart, they look weird and oily, and they’re just nasty work 🤬🤬🤬

When I think about him and all of a sudden every love song is about us

I miss my s/o so bad you guys

fuck being casual i would travel realities for you

God, I really gotta fuckin bounce 😭 so fuckin demotivated but the state of the worlds got me like

Sara’s so real and raw everyone follow her NOW!

my dr s/o would be proud of me and maybe that’s all that matters

imissmyman

Bros ovaries are yearning for him 💔💔

Are you a mainstream TWINK? Or underground? I wanna stream your music

This HAS to be transphobia

imma shift i thi k yeahhh bai

She NEVER misses 🗣️🗣️🗣️

How do you get over the fear of never shifting

how to get over the fear of never shifting?

right, so you’re afraid you’ll never shift. you’re staring down the barrel of an eternal non-event, the metaphysical equivalent of a dinner party where the host never shows and you’re left nursing a warm gin and wondering why you ever put on shoes. the fear, then, is not just about shifting. it’s about stagnation, about the existential itch that nothing will ever happen to you, that you are, in the grand scheme of things, a closed-loop system with no exit ramp. it’s about the dread of being one of those people who say they want to do things and then never do them, like men who buy poetry books and never turn past the preface.

let’s establish something !!! this isn’t a you problem. this is an everyone problem. but listen. listen. that doesn’t mean nothing is happening. the want itself is movement. the yearning is proof of life.

but fear can be embarrassing. the fear is what stops you from talking about it in public. the fear is what makes you try to force it, and forcing it never works. this is a truth universally acknowledged, like how the people who tell you to “just relax” are always the ones who never have to try at anything.

so, how do you get over it? you don’t. not in the way you’re thinking.

you don’t kill it, or banish it. what you do is you turn the volume down. you remind yourself that shifting is not a limited resource, it is not an exclusive club. you reframe it, because fear, at its core, is a trick of perspective. if you treat shifting like a test you’re doomed to fail, then congratulations, you have built yourself a failure machine. if you treat it like a game, like a book you can open and step into at will, then suddenly it becomes something else entirely, something less cruel, less elusive. something possible.

and listen, i could do the whole inspirational speech thing, the "trust the process," "it happens when you least expect it," "insert comforting platitude here. you can do it, you're always doing it, bla bla bla." but that’s not what you need. what you need is this: shifting is a skill. sort of. it’s not a mystery, not some divine lottery where the lucky few get golden tickets to willy wonka's chocolate factory and the rest of us are left behind in the cold. it’s a skill, which means it can be developed, honed, mastered. and if you can accept that, then suddenly, the fear loses its fangs. it becomes background noise, static on the radio. it becomes something you can live with, something you can drown out with the sheer audacity of your wanting.

so, the next time the fear comes knocking, let it in. let it sit at your table. but do not let it drive. do not let it make the rules. because the fear, when you really break it down, is just this: a refusal to believe in your own capacity for transformation. and if there’s one thing i know about you, it’s that you’ve never been one to stay the same.