Anyone Else Here Going To See Them July 30th? ❤️❤️⁉️

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to the anon writing about noel noticing sonny and donovan being closer than they should be - all I'm thinking about is how kinks are often genetic. there's definitely an environmental factor (i.e. the incest between the gallaghers was likely majorly fueled by the abuse they suffered as kids) but there IS some genetic component. so it's likely that sonny, donovan, anais, gene, lennon, and molly all might have some things in common. of course they probably wont have the weird relationship of the oasis brothers because they dont have the same situation, but it is fun to think about.

I often joke to myself that incest is the best kink to be genetic. Everything else is mortifying but with incest its more like "Yay! the people im into are also into me"

why is "genetic incest kinks" so on-brand for this family? I love it. though i guess the gallagher kids are safe cause no one’s gonna match liam and noel’s level of chaos and dysfunction. Like if there's something incestuous going on i think it would still be less codependent and toxic cause of the way they grew up. Noel said it himself, that his kids have a completely different childhood than him and liam did so that's why he thinks his sons get along well. So if noel and liam did pass the genetic incest kink on to their offspring then maybe it's a more wholesome, more consistently consensual version of gallaghercest. Yay!

Since people were asking for my notes from the "Attachment and Boundary Collapse in Sibling Incest"-Seminar that I can NOT believe i'm actually taking this semester (Am I in Gallaghercest school???), here are some of my notes from the first two weeks. There's more, it just takes ages to translate it, but if anyone is interested I can post more.

Feel like I also need to point out some parts that absolutely wrecked me, because they feel so Noel and Liam coded to me. Here you go:

-Not always inltiated by one clearly dominant party - this complicates blame but not harm.

-Initiating sibling may turn into safe place for the victim, groomed mentality. Grooming can occur subconsciously influenced by learned behaviour, modelling abuse.

-Survivors often report a deep shame and the need to repress it - not address it. Extremely vague choice of words when talking about their childhood experiences.

-Most come to terms with it but don't seek justice, feeling shame or the need to protect their sibling.

-Childhood incest -> Adult incest where both parties now consent - who decides where manipulation and grooming begins and ends? The phenomenon of "getting used to it" and "growing to like it".

-He really loves her but thinks this is the way you show love. She really loves him so she doesn't fight it.

-Sister never stops seeing her brother as her safe person because he was her first admirer. (little note: this killed me. I'm sobbing and shaking)

-Brother may later express awareness that it was wrong and try to keep his distance to his sister. She misses him but thrives in her personal life for the first time.

-If incest is the only consistent form of closeness or attention it may become scripted into their relational behaviour.

-Impact on Attachment Styles:

-Older Sibling: Risk of emotional isolation, "walls up", torn between wanting closeness and not trusting himself or others.

-Younger sibling: Struggles with commitment, trust and boundaries, may carry ambivalent feelings torwards their sibling (loyalty and love and betrayal and anger).

If this has grammar or spelling mistakes I'm sorry, oops. That's it for now (*≧▽≦) We're writing the academic, psychological gcest bible, just wait until I have to write an essay at the end of the semester... lol.

liam gallagher ↳ puppydog eyes

what a sentence 😭

they hate mean anon asks

never forget noel gallagher wrote you know we cant go back and he had to change the lyrics from brother to lover

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