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SHOULD YOU/HER TELL A FRIEND?

Beginner couples talking about the subject of her sleeping with other men tend to value secrecy. It is very often that both the husband and wife feel a level of embarrassment or a need to hide such an intimate idea from other people. Social taboos tend to keep us really shy about our sexual desires, specially when they don’t fit the “norm”. Slutwife and cuck relationships are a growing trend and more popular than ever, but they are still regarded as taboo in our current time. Needless to say, most people prefer to keep their grandmother from finding out such an idea floats in your mind.

Assuming you have had a talk with your wife about wanting her to become a slut, there are likely a lot of people neither of you want finding out about it, even if she agrees to it. From grandmothers to children, there are certain people in our lives we wish to keep this from, even if it is only temporarily. However, trying to keep everyone from finding out can be a complicated task and can keep couples from enjoying this lifestyle. As with most good things in life, this lifestyle is meant to be shared and be enjoyed with others.

Most beginner couples tend to keep things secret from people close to them and will rather share basic information with someone online who does not have any real world connection to their daily lives. That is fine, however, I want you to reconsider the position of those people close to you.

Today’s question is, should you tell a friend? Should she tell a friend of hers?

We tend to think our friends will judge us very negatively if we spoke about experimenting with a “taboo” lifestyle, but would they? This negative mentality can often have us thinking of our friends as some form of enemies that we need to hide this from, but do we? Very often, our friends are our best allies, why would this be any different?

I am not proposing couples go screaming out to all their friends about their fantasies and lifestyle, but the right friend in the right position can not only help make the fantasy come true, but can also help reduce any troubles that could arise from the lifestyle. True friendship, trust, loyalty, and secrecy should be expected qualities in a friend.

Friends provide:

- [ ] Emotional support - From a shoulder to cry on to someone who shares on great times, friends can help us stay emotionally centered during good and bad times.

- [ ] Help when needed - Someone needs to take care of the kids, need a ride, or in need of a cover story, friends are there to help.

- [ ] Fresh ideas - Unsure of what to do, how to move forward, what to think about something, friends provide a different perspective and can help overcome barriers.

It is easy to see how a good friend may actually enhance this lifestyle, but should you tell a friend, or should she?

Telling a Male Friend - Assuming you tell a male friend, there is a high likelyhood that he will assume you are telling him because you want him to fuck your wife. Wether you would like him to fuck her or not, you should make that clear from the start. Her telling a male friend will definitely have him thinking she wants to get fucked by him. Male friends may or may not agree with you choice of lifestyle, but it is your choice and he should respect it. Aside from that, a male friend can help you play out fantasies with your wife. You want her to send a sexy pic to another man, you want another man to take her on a date, you want her to dance with another man, or you want to see her having sex with another man, and you want her to do it safely?

A male friend may also know someone your wife may life, if not him. He may also have ideas as to how to make your wife feel sexier and sluttier. In summary, the right male friend can help you accomplish your fantasies.

Telling A Female Friend - The right female friend can help you fulfill your fantasies faster than all your male friends combined, but the wrong one can ruin everything. Let’s talk briefly about choosing the right female friend. First off, she should be either single or in a hotwife/swinger relationship. Second, she should be as slutty as is available within friends. Third, she should enjoy going out frequently, drinking, and partying with other men. Notice how secrecy is not rated as high with female friends. You want a female friend who will tell her available male friends your wife is looking for a good time. A good female friend will immediately tell your wife she should take full advantage of her opportunity to be a slutwife.

She will convince her to dress sluttier, to go out, to talk to other guys, to dance, will tell her which guys fuck the best, and might even facilitate getting her fucked by other guys through alcohol or providing a place to do it. (See the post about slut friends making slutwives for more.) The right female friend is the little devil on your wife’s shoulder, telling her to let loose and have fun. She will help her go beyond her limits and make her sluttier than she would be on her own. At the same time, she will keep your wife away from the wrong people and keep her from wasting time from guys not worth her time.

Aside from getting your wife to dress and act sluttier, the female friend will likely be taking pictures with your wife and uploading them on social media, which will magnify the possibilities for your wife.

To top it all off, the female friend will do things to draw sexual attention to your wife. Things like groping her boobs, lifting her skirt, spanking her, etc. she will make sure your wife is viewed like a sexy girl that is very available.

The right friend, male or female, will work with you and her to live out your fantasies. You do not have to go through this process alone, friends can be your best allies in helping your wife become the slut you want her to be. Take your time finding the right friends to help you.

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Michelle. Photo taken and sent to me by Daniel right before he had his way with her, 2023.

Her boots stayed on the whole time.

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ROLEPLAYING A SLUTWIFE

One of the best ways to warm up a woman into the concept of becoming a slutwife is roleplaying. Roleplaying can be a big turn on for both men and women and can be done pretty safely. It opens up the mind to possibilities and new concepts. As mentioned before, roleplaying can be used as a lead-up to asking her to become a slutwife.

Today we will talk about roleplaying, but this is not your normal roleplaying. this is roleplaying with a slight twist to it, you will roleplay being someone else while she remains the same person, your wife. The only role she will play is that she is herself as a slutwife. I say again, in the scenarios below, she is only roleplaying the role of herself as a slutwife, and not that she is someone else. That is, she remains your wife in each scenario, while you roleplay being someone else. These scenarios work best after you have told your wife you want her to be a slutwife, but they can work as a warm-up to asking her as well.

1. You Are Her Crush - As mentioned before, you should ask her and know who is her crush. This could be someone from her past or a celebrity. It doesn’t matter. You will roleplay that you are that person she has always had a crush on and create a scenario where your wife bumps into him in private. They will agree to meet at a hotel room alone. Her role will be to let loose for her crush and have the sex of her life with him. Constantly ask her to scream his name as you fuck or eat her out, and do not break out of character. While in character, tell her her husband is a lucky guy to have such a sexy slut for a wife. Once you are both done, have her leave the room and head home. You will wait for her at home and ask her how things went with her crush. Feel free to pleasure her again and tell her how much you enjoyed the experience.

2. She is an Escort - For this scenario, you have become completely dependent on her due to unforeseen circumstances, the entire family is in trouble, the economy collapsed, and she needs to go into prostitution or escorting to make things work. For her role as an escort, get a room and call her to hire her services. Ask her to dress extra slutty and go meet you at the room. Important, she must get there on her own, like an escort would, don’t give her a ride. You can watch her get dressed for her client, but you must be in the hotel room before her waiting for her. Once she gets there, remember that you are just a client. Ask for her name, ask her to model for you, and tell her what to do every step of the way. Ask her if she us married, has kids, etc., and if her husband knows she is an escort. Of course, give her a really good fucking. Have her do something she does not normally do for you as a husband, suck you, anal, etc., and have her scream your name as you fuck her (different name than your real name). Finish by telling her that you will be in town once or twice a month and that you will be hiring her services to perform that act she does not normally do for you as a husband. Have her set a date on her calender for her next appointment. She will drive herself home as an escort finishing her job, and you wait at home asking how things went.

3. She is a Prostitute - Similar to the escort, have her dress slutty again, only this time have her drive to some random street and stand in a corner. Let her embrace standing dressed sexy in a corner a few minutes before driving up and asking her for her name and prices. Ask her to model for you and what she does for different prices. Pick her up and drive her to a cheap motel. Have her get off and rent a room by herself looking like a prostitute. Proceed to giving her a good fucking as a client would fuck a street hooker. Ensure you have her do something she normally won’t do for you and have her scream your made up name as you fuck her. Once you are both completely satisfied, tell her she has been a good hoe for you and you will start picking her up in that corner a few times a month. Have her check out of the room as a slut and drop her off in her corner. Leave her there a few minutes as she waits for her next client. Scenario does not end until she gets home and tells you about her workday.

4. The Bar Hookup - For this scenario, she will dress sexy to go out to the bar/club in another city. She will hang out at the bar and hangout for a while while you watch from a distance. You will eventually approach and buy her a drink. Ask her name, where she is from, etc, while you give her your fake identity. You start flirting and feeling her up a bit, touch her, and make out with her. Take her to the backseat of your car and have her give you a blow job and eat her out. If feasible, fuck her in the backseat. If not, get a room. Scenario does not end until she gets home and tells you all about her night out.

5. The Student and Teacher - For this scenario, ask your wife if she ever had a crush on one of her teachers or who was her hottest one. Once she tells you about it, you will roleplay that she will be taking a few college courses. Of course, you are her teacher which happens to be her old teacher. Since she is failing, she must take extreme measures to ensure she passes. So the day of the scenario she will dress extra sexy for her class. She will approach you as her teacher and confess how hot she has always thought you were. Then she will ask if you (her teacher) have ever found her attractive which will be a yes. She will then proceed to getting on her knees and giving you a blow job while asking for your help with passing the class. You will receive the blowjob and tell her to meet you in a hotel room for personal tutoring. She will meet you in the hotel room dressed very sexy and have sex with you while screaming your name (teacher’s name). Once you are both satisfied, you will tell her she will continue to pass as long as she attends her scheduled tutoring sessions. The scenario does not end until she gets home and tells you all about her school day.

6. Boss and Secretary - For this scenario, you will ask for the name of her current boss. If she is unemplyed, she can use the name of any boss she had in the past and liked, or the name of your own boss. Again, dire circumstances have come to the family and she needs a job or promotion. She will wear her work attire but make is sexier and wear lingerie underneath. She will go and ask you (her boss) for what she needs and proceed to undress for him as she tells him how she is willing to do anything. You (the boss) will start feeling her up and get a blowjob from her. You will then ask her to meet you at a hotel to continue the conversation. She will meet you there and let you have you way with her as she screams the name of her boss. Once you get what you want, tell her she got the job/promotion but that she will need to be available to extra duties and overtime at work and the hotel room. The scenario does not end until she gets home and tells you how her work day went and what her new duties will be.

7. The Doctor and Patient - You are her doctor and she is your patient. She comes to your office because she seems to not be able to get pregnant and needs your help. She tells you of her family plans with her husband of having a baby but that she can’t seem to get pregnant. You (the doctor) will then proceed to asking her to undress and inspecting her body liberally. Touch her thighs, butt, boobs, everything. Have her sit and check her mouth, looking inside and putting your fingers inside of it to get a feel of her throat and gag reflex. Then you will move down to her breasts, asking her to remove her blouse and bra. Ask her to lift her breasts with her hands, to squeeze them, to pull them apart, pull them together, the proceed to groping them as you please. You will ask her questions about her breasts, as you grope them, like her current bra size, age she developed them, if she has ever lactated, etc then proceed to suck on each to check for any lactation. She will then remove her pants and panties and lay back and open her legs wide. You will then inspect her pussy, touching her clitoris, labia, and pushing fingers inside of her. Ask her questions about her sexual life as you probe her, how often she has sex, largest dick she has ever taken in her pussy, which areas she enjoys having touched more, how many fingers she can fit inside, etc. Eat her pussy and taste it to see if everything seems fine. After you are done, tell her she seems perfectly fit to be bred and it is likely her husband just hasnt been able to breed her. Tell her that you will start her on a breeding treatment immediately and she should see results soon if she commits to it. Once she accepts the treatment, proceed to fucking her. The scenario does not end until she gets home and tells you all about her doctor’s visit.

8. The Admirer - Most women have at least one man that likes them or wants to fuck them wether they are married or not. Odds are, she knows it too. This guy could be a friend, ex, coworker, neighbor, etc. you know guys out there want her and would fuck her. The mission here is knowing who seems the most obvious, that you and her recognize. Have her talk about if any guys have hit on her lately or someone who seems flirty or is always checking her out. Once you have identified who wants her, the scenario is simple. You will be out of town and your wife will then ask that admirer (you) to come keep her company. She will obviously dress in casual yet slutty clothes to wear for his stay. He is allowed to be as forward with her as he wants, and she is to remain flirty at all times. He may feel her up randomly around the house and she will let him, but no sex yet. They can go out, to the movies, dancing, to the mall, etc., but she will dress sexy for him and only acknowledge you (by his name). He is allowed to touch her freely at all times and she must remain flirty. At the end of the day, she will go to the guest bedroom wearing her sexiest lingerie and invite him to come over and sleep with her in her bed since her husband is gone. She will start by giving him a blowjob then letting him fuck her as much as he wants and thanking him for spending the night with her when her husband isn’t home. The next morning, she will have sex with him again and thank him again. The scenario does not end until you leave the house and come back later as her husband. She will tell you all about her day and night with her admirer.

These are a few roleplay scenarios to play with your wife that work well to her warming up to becoming a slutwife. As mentioned before, it is important that she remains herself during the scenarios while you roleplay being a completely different person. We finish each scenario with her coming hime to telling you about her experience to double up on the idea of her having had sex with another man, ensure she feels in role and sexualized all throughout the experience of being with another man, and to ensure her that her sleeping with other men is something you both and enjoy as a sexual adventure without drama.

These scenarios are designed to give her a feel a being sexual with other men under different circumstances as well as using her sexuality to get what she wants. They should start to ease her into the possibilities and open her up to acting out more fantasies (and realities) involving her and other men. In essence, she is practicing her life as a slutwife.

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