It’s okay if all you did today was play games.
It’s okay if all you did today was sleep.
It’s okay if all you did today was get dressed.
It’s okay if all you did today was wake up.
We all heal in different ways, and there are days that are harder than others. That doesn’t mean you didn’t try, or that you’re lazy, or that you’re worthless.
Everything you do on a hard day is an act of bravery. Everything you do is wonderful, and I love you for it.
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Wanna be babied all day with no thoughts, head empty 🥺
secret age regressors and age dreamer, I love you. Don't be ashamed of what makes you happy. Your peace is more important than what other people think.
lesser spoken about agere things !
- tantrums/meltdowns
- being bratty because of a sensory issue
- crying
- negative triggers putting you in a headspace
a friendly reminder that not all regression is happy sunshine and rainbows ! i wish they were.
regressors are basically children, and just like children, regressors can cry and have a tantrum if things don't go their way. we're not all bratty because it's fun (and it is fun to be bratty sometimes 🤭), sometimes we're bratty because something is really bothering us. please don't just mark it off as brattiness and punish us, look into it ! something could be hurting your little.
i think it’s so cool that everyone’s regression is different<3
some regressors babble, some are nonverbal, and some are a healthy mix! some regressors have clearly defined age ranges or drift and drop all over the place.
maybe you like to watch movies or play video games or go to the park! maybe you have a caregiver or maybe Tiny Time is just for you! our terminology and our needs are different but the thing that connects us is that we’re all trying to heal and cope.
idk. i feel so connected to other regressors. we all have our reasons for getting Small and i know that they’re not always positive but this is your healing space and you’re doing it in a way that’s right for you.
just know that this kiddo is cheering you on! i hope you’re well and i’m very proud of you.
I wan one to wear for my cg 🥺😸
Sweetie, it's bedtime now.
Yes darling. It's late, and little babies like you need some shut eye. Tomorrow is going to be a really big day! Cmere baby, shuffle into the bed, I made the bed all comfy and it smells just like washly cleaned sheets. Get closer honey, rest your head on my shoulder. There you are. Don't be afraid to cuddle into me now, you know I'm the biggest cuddle bug there is after you! My little angel. Aren't you the sweetest thing I have in my arms right now? I'm going to rub your back softly until you sleep okay baby? We have a big day tomorrow. We're going to do all your favourite things... going to eat ice cream, seeing the cows at the petting zoo, going to the park and playground and go on the swings...
There you are... goodnight my little bug. sweetest dreams my baby.
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Hey babies and caregivers!! Let's do a check-in. Today, did we...
Brush our Teeth?🪥🫧
Brushing our teeth is important for littles and caregivers alike, and sometimes we forget that it's an important and necessary task to do to keep us healthy!
If you haven't today, or even recently, that's okay! Sometimes, we can't even remember the last time we brush our teeth, but what we can do is change what we do next time.
Brush, especially if you have recently had or frequently ingest:
🫧 Milk
🫧 Candy
🫧 Coffee
🫧 Alcohol
🫧 Vape/smoke/use 🍃 or other oral substances
Please also remember to brush, especially if you:
🫧 Are sick/getting sick
Or
🫧 Have 🤮 recently
because brushing your teeth helps get the icky germs out of your mouth that want to hurt you! Your mouth isn't their home, so give em the boot! 🥾
And caregivers, I'm looking to you specifically as well. I know how much it can be to look after littles or even just ourselves, and we often forget that brushing our teeth is important to do. It definitely sucks and there's usually so many better things to do (like catch up on some sleep after working so hard 😴💙) but you are equally important and valuable as anyone else and you deserve to have comfort and good health and that starts by remembering to take care of your mouth 🥰🪥
Let's all take good care of ourselves together because it's HARD, but at the end of the day, we only have one body in this life, and we deserve to feel nice by treating it well 💕