This Cartoon Was What Inspired Me To Do A Few Drawings Of My Own. I Realised It Expresses The Idea Better

Can I recommend "harder" as a safe word?

‘then may I suggest you pick a safeword baby’…..

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Absolutely. The whole point is that you enjoy it.

Absolutely - the naughtier, the better.

Excellent.

Ground Rules

Another day of Hotwifing advice and of course..your questions and stories is upon us. Today I am going to address the topic of Ground Rules.

I have heard some major horror stories in the lifestyle from couples who swing and from couples who Hotwife and all due to this one most important topic. Due to the fact that there are 2 people involved in both lifestyles, you have to remember that feelings and emotions matter not just with you, but also with your partner. Without solid ground rules that address the feelings of both partners, this lifestyle can and does destroy marriages and relationships.

As a Hotwife myself, my goal in the lifestyle is not just to fuck other men, but to enhance my marriage with my husband. In fact, the latter is priority number one! And if you don’t do the same, then you are not Hotwifing….you are just dating and playing the field.

To avoid the tragedy, ..set ground rules….both of you! My Stag and I do not have many ground rules now but we started off with a ton of them. And if you are just starting off in this lifestyle, I can recommend a few to use on your own. Experiment with them. Use them if you like. Add to them if you like. Delete a couple if you like. It really is all about what works best for you both as a couple.

A good one to start with is to set the ground rule of ..You do not message or contact men without your Stags approval. And you do not agree to meet anyone without his approval. This will eliminate the possibility of jealousy.

Another good one is that you will not have a playdate without your Stag being present. The truth of this one is that your Stag most likely really will demand this anyway for safety sake.

Another is that there is no kissing (I can’t do this one at all and my Stag has never laid down this rule but there are those who are serious about this one)

Couples who are ok with the wife playing alone, some set a rule for the Hotwife to take pics and video each and every time they have a playdate. (This is one of my Stags rules).

Another good one for beginners is to always include the Stag, whether that be by the sex itself or the constant eye contact or touching. This is used to assure the partner that you are his always and it also helps show affection in a very intimate setting.

Some Stags require their Hotwife to dress super sexy. But I think this is a given anyway!

Another very good one for beginners is to set the rule that anytime one of you is feeling uncomfortable with anything, that you immediately stop and talk about it until you come to an agreement and set the boundary or draw a line in the sand.

Remember you can set whatever ground rules that you like. And also remember that this isnt just about you. Do not get into this lifestyle thinking that your needs are to be met only. That doesnt work. This lifestyle is for you both. Keep each other in mind at all times and you will have a great time!

This will be a weekly posting just for Hotwives, Stags, Bulls, and Swingers. Every Tuesday I will focus on your questions, comments, and stories of the Hotwife lifestyle. Feel free to direct all questions or stories today through the submit feature of my Blog! Thank you and Happy Hotwifing! ♂️♀️♂️ ~LillybGoddess

Exactly so. Freedom, no judgement.

My wife's "Gym Hottie"

My wife and I gym separately at different gyms. I asked her to have a little perv next time she trained and she's come back having spotted someone who's caught her eye. She doesn't know his name, so we refer to him as her "Gym Hottie".

For about 2 weeks now, she's been giving me updates on how she managed to train next to him or cross paths while returning weights.

Thinking about her at gym watching him do his stuff, getting all hot and wet over a muscular, sexy hunk is enormously arousing to me. I hope she gets brave and chats with him. Some active flirting would be amazing and totally send me over the edge. I also love the fact that she's found someone she genuinely finds super attractive, not just settling for someone to make me happy with some made up stories.

I'm trying to play it cool, but everyday I want an update. I'm encouraging her, but don't want to push her.

She's soooooo sexy. I love her to bits!

Yup, that's me.

My HotWife Challenge app

Please try out my app I've made. It's still early days, but please let me know if I'm heading in the right direction.

It's an adult version of Bingo. As you do something on the board, tap it. The goal is to complete the whole board. You can also upload your own list of tasks in the form of a simple text file.

Also, if you have any ideas for features or other apps, please let me know.

The best of both worlds.

Absolutely. The idea is very hot.

Question is... do I get to read her chats afterwards?