Like Damn I Have No Clue If I'm Too Clingy And It Bothers Me So Much. I Don't Even Understand Why The

Like damn I have no clue if I'm too clingy and it bothers me so much. I don't even understand why the idea of clingy is bad. Like if someone is clingy to you, they wanna be around you and they love you. Why is that bad? You are coveted. All the clingy person wants is to know you are there or you love them. They want to talk with you and hang out because they love being with you and love knowing you are there. Like I get not liking it if its a jealous clingy that causes your partner to not wanna hang out with your friends or divert so much attention to them that you begin to have issues with school, work, or self care but like. . . Clingy in the sense of the partner wants to be around you within set boundaries? Why is that bad?

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2 years ago

Sometimes I think about how hard I want an Over the Garden Wall style adaptation of LOTR. My soul craves it. I want it desperately. Think about it. Animation. Music. Comfort. Despair. Elijah Wood. Do I need to elaborate.

3 months ago

Y'all I'm actually going insane over how effective the "was he slow" scene from Baby Driver is.

Hear me out.

The song that Baby makes isn't bad, I actually think it's enjoyable when he first makes it. Certain parts are a little odd, like using a recording of your boss but it's obvious when it comes to the composition that he kinda knows what he's doing.

The first scene where you interact with the song is the one in which he's actually creating it. He's having fun, creating his own beat and melody to go with it, and you begin to have a little fun too with the scene. It also feels like a very personal scene. The movie is showing you a side to Baby that most people haven't seen.

Which makes the "was he slow" scene that much worse.

When interacting with it the second time, Baby is incredibly upset and uncomfortable. He believes that his foster father has been killed in the process of getting the tapes, he has missed his opportunity to meet up with Deborah, and no one in the room trusts him. You can feel the tension in the room, and when it is disturbed by the song, the level of discomfort heightens. The team is laughing at him while his boss, who has been sampled for the song, who has kept him as a "lucky charm" since childhood, who can easily kill him or have him killed, simply looks on in disappointment.

What's insane about this scene to me is that the shame of this scene CONTINUES. For me, listening to the piece is still uncomfortable, no matter how long it's been since I've seen it.

Recently, years after the last time that I saw the movie, I was listening to the soundtrack while doing homework. The song came on. Instant pause. I thought I could push through it, after all it had been literal years.

I had to skip the song to be able to get any work done because it was STILL associating it with the second scene.

Well played, Mr. Wright.

Well played.


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1 month ago
I Recreated The Lightners Live Sprites From The Trailer For Your Jamming Pleasure
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2 years ago

Absolutely love that. He's slayqueening.

PIPPIN STRAIGHT UP THREATENING TO KILL A CHILD JESUS CHRIST 😂😂😂

2 years ago

HE'S SO WEEEEE!!!! THE LIL SKUNGL!!!!!

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2 months ago

Wait percentages for preference is so smart. Neither person has to actually choose, it's just whatever someone is more opinionated about.

I hate when people ask me about my preference but I don’t understand their preference level. Like yes I kinda want Chinese food 10% more than I want a sandwich but if you want a sandwich like 40% more than Chinese food then I would say it’s totally reasonable we get sandwiches.

3 months ago

me at this point of the year, reacting to any bad news

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2 years ago

Literally at the end of s3 and still can't stop thinking about that

the absolute best bit in stranger things 3 was when alexei was telling hopper and joyce how the russian base is an inpenatrable fortress and even the best trained soldiers couldnt get in and then it cuts to two literal children breaking into the russian base

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