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— DISCLAIMER. script what you want !! this isn’t judgement or an attempt to convince you of anything. i still have ded family in some realities, don’t worry :^)
alright, so a lot of shifters skip right to scripting their DR families straight into the afterlife. gone, nonexistent, dead and buried. this is for a myriad of reasons, though for me and everyone i know, it has a lot to do with backstory, or the idea that family ties are going to cramp our style or get in the way of our dream life and the plot. but, for anyone who’s interested, let’s flip the script (pun intended) and talk about why creating an original, unique family for your desired reality can actually make your experience richer, more meaningful, and a whole lot more fun !!
WHY KEEP THE FAMILY DRAMA?
first off, let’s address the elephant in the room: family can be a lot. but scripting them out entirely can be like throwing the baby out with the bathwater !! there’s tons of potential to consider there. a family offers plenty of opportunities to add depth, lore, and a whole bunch of emotional layers to your DR. think about it—what’s a life without a little family drama, a bit of cozy love, or even a quirky aunt who always brings the laughs? it doesn’t have to be a big, happy family—it can be whatever you feel like you need, whatever fits
HOW TO BUILD YOUR DR FAMILY
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— SIZE MATTERS ( but not really ) . . ˚ . when scripting your DR family, start with size. do you want a big, loud, chaotic family with siblings running around, or something closer to a small, tight-knit crew? maybe you’re an only child who’s the apple of your parents’ eyes, or perhaps you’re in the middle of a bustling household where everyone’s got a role to play. there’s no right or wrong—just what feels right for you, and what you feel like you need in that specific DR
— CHOOSE YOUR ROLES . . ˚ . who’s in your family? a loving, supportive mom who’s your biggest cheerleader? a cool dad who’s kind of your best friend? maybe a set of grandparents who tell you the most insane stories about their youth, or a mouthy sibling who keeps you on your toes. think about the roles that would enrich your life in your DR. remember, these people are there to support your life, not unnecessarily complicate it
— CONNECTIONS . . ˚ . now, here’s where it gets fun (in my opinion): your relationships. are you super close with your mom, the kind of close where you can endlessly gossip and have deep life talks? is your dad the type to give you space but always manages to have your back when it counts? maybe you have an insane sibling rivalry that spans over a decade. the relationships you script can add so much flavor to your DR—it’s all about creating connections that resonate with you, and support you in all the ways you want to be supported
FITTING INTO THE LORE ( making it make sense )
if your DR has a specific lore or world-building element ( Hogwarts, Marvel, etc. you know ), weave your family into it !! maybe your mom’s a legendary witch, or your dad’s a top Auror. perhaps your family runs a magical bakery, or you’re part of an ancient lineage with a complex magical or academic heritage. the point is, your family should feel at home in your DR, adding to the story rather than feeling like an afterthought that detracts from it
SOME IDEAS FOR YOUR DR FAMILY
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( just to get you started )
— MAGICAL LINEAGE . . ˚ . your family has a rich history tied to your DR’s lore—maybe you’re descendants of a powerful wizard, or you’ve got a long-standing feud with another powerful family. drama
— ECCENTRIC GROUP . . ˚ . a family full of eccentric or seemingly ridiculous people—a dad who invents magical gadgets, a mom who’s an expert potion maker, siblings who are always concocting some mischievous or downright strange plans
— TIGHT-KNIT TEAM . . ˚ . quiet and likely unassuming—just a small, close family who’s been through everything together together. you lot might not be flashy, but their love and support are solid and you know you can always count on them
— CHAOTIC CLAN . . ˚ . a massive, bustling family where everyone’s got their own unique role. maybe you’ve got siblings with vastly different personalities, parents that always have something insane to say, or aunts and uncles hailing from faraway places. family gatherings are always an ordeal
DON’T STRESS THE DETAILS
here’s the deal: scripting your DR family is about enhancing your experience, not stressing you out or detracting from all the things you wanna do. whether you want to create a sprawling family tree or just script a few key members, it’s all up to you. and remember—at the end of the day, your DR is personal to you. it’s about what makes you feel connected, supported, and ready to dive into the adventure of a lifetime
so, build that dream family !! whether they’re magical, mundane, or somewhere in between, totally supportive or bringing never-ending drama to spice things up, at the end of the day they’re there to add richness and depth to your DR. and trust me, it’ll make your journey all the more special if you let it !!
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to all my shifters, if you’re struggling to find a face claim or anything like that, manifest it! i manifested my exact desired face claim and i couldn’t be happier (as someone who always struggled with it)
listening to poison (nct dream) in the car like there’s certain parts i just have to sing along to so I’ll be in the middle of a conversation and suddenly i am legally required to cry out “YOU BREAK ME” and then go back to normal like nothing happened
✧ ...hammerspace....
is this what it feels like to be a concubine
is this what it's like to be in an open relationship
✨ cnscs musings ✨
I was searching for rooms on pinterest for my sk8 dr and then I found this
But... I live in Okinawa in my sk8 dr... and it feels so out of place😭🙏 what do I do lmao
⦻ ⋮ Creepypasta DR moodboard ⸝⸝
𓎟𓎟 “would you die tonight for love?” ♪
list of random things I always script that you may not already have scripted 🍰
pinterest has a “gift” button that I can manifest whatever’s in the pictures. (clothes, makeup,, accessories, skincare,food)
I always know something interesting/funny to say in any situation, im never awkward and dry and I can keep convos going .
audio doesn’t leak through headphones, even if you have it to MAX volume.
chipotle workers ARENT stingy and actually load up ur bowl 😭
you look stunning in absolutely photo, even if ur doing a silly face, your face card is so powerful.
my baking taste better than crumbl cookie (HELP)
your s/o isn’t attracted to anyone romantically or sexually , except for you.
the “spark”/ “honeymoon phase” of ur relationship never dies out, it lasts for the whole relationship.
ur buttcrack never shows…EVER.
you can learn and perfect anything in under 5 mins. (Instruments, sports, hobbies)
your partner shows you all 5 love languages
(physical touch, words of affirmation, acts of service, gift giving, quality time)
you and your s/o’s love is more intense than noah and allies from the notebook
animals LOVE you, they never bite you/are aggressive with you.
my phone only goes down 1% per hour
all my favorite ships in tv shows become canon (NEED THIS)
never accidentally post something you didn’t mean to…
you are the BEST gift gifter becsuse you always know exactly what the person wants/would like.
Makeup/hair always comes out perfect first try
✧ To escape persecution 💫