Two People Are Standing In Front Of You. One Is Male, And Says “I Want To Share A Space With Her”.

Tiktok is tumblr but worse

hookup culture has men enjoying 100% orgasms while women only manage to orgasm 7% of the time

Relevant quotes from the full study:

"Research suggests that women may set the bar for satisfactory sex quite low - specifically, the absence of pain and degradation rather than the presence of pleasure and orgasm."

[Regarding men being more likely to engage in manual clitoral stimulation and oral sex when in a relationship, while fellatio was prevalent among hook-ups and relationships] "According to the authors, these findings suggest the orgasm gap is larger in casual sex because women are less likely to feel entitled to seek their own sexual pleasure and men are less motivated to provide their partners with pleasure..."

so what do women gain from sexual liberation and hookup culture? they get no orgasms, no emotional support and still get judged and slutshamed by society.

it seems to me that sexual liberation is a misnomer and hookup culture which is marketed to women as a way of expressing their sexual freedom and overcoming the unfair patriarchal standards women were supposed to live up to is actually a way to get women to accept less commitment and emotional investment.

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pet peeve: when a male, a group of men or a male-dominated government/regime commit an act of incomprehensible violence and people lament the nature of “humans” or “people”.

Linving in this hypersexualised society is hell

I know someone, who is a friend and we use to be close friends, when we talk together I get super anxious about almost every topic we talk about...

I try to avoid almost every topic... Like we can only talk about video games and very basic stuff otherwise I get anxious

⏝ ͝ㅤㅤᛝㅤㅤ◟🎀 𓊆⸝⸝ ˖⁺ ⊹୨୧⊹ ⁺˖ ⸝⸝𓊇 𝒮𝓅𝓇ℯ𝒶𝒹 𝓉𝒽ℯ 𝓌ℴ𝓇𝒹！

- Paris Hilton

every girl i know has had her "I'm not like other girls" phase and we all resent ourselves for it now, but we're not listening to what these little girls were saying. "im not like other girls" is a little girl's desparate cry for help to break out of the male made stereotypes and expectations that she's starting to notice, to be let out of the box that she's being closed into when she starts puberty. she misses the freedom she had when she was a child, when she was allowed to not care about her looks, when she wasn't self conscious of her body and her face, she'd rather be "one of the boys" than be forced to be a woman.