my own muse & role model.
* i’ve made posts about some beginner pilates routines in the past, but i keep getting asks so i thought i would just make a masterlist for you guys!
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10 minute full body hourglass pilates by lidia mera
10 minute full body hourglass pilates by lidia mera
10 minute everyday full body hourglass pilates by lidia mera
10 minute waist pilates by shirlyn kim
10 minute everyday hourglass pilates by lidia mera
15 minute full body pilates by lidia mera
15 minute pilates for beginners by flow with mira
15 minute beginner pilates for weight loss by rachel’s fit pilates
20 minute gentle beginner pilates by flow with mira
20 minute express pilates workout by move with nicole
20 minute full body pilates by isawelly
20 minute hourglass full body pilates by lidia mera
25 minute full body beginner pilates by move with nicole
30 minute full body workout by move with nicole
30 minute pilates for beginners by move with nicole
30 minute pilates and stretch by livaligned pilates
30 minute full body hourglass pilates by lidia mera
30 minute gentle pilates flow by move with nicole
30 minute full body workout by move with nicole
30 minute pilates for beginners by move with nicole
35 minute gentle pilates by move with nicole
35 minute beginner pilates by move with nicole
After a long harsh day, where maybe you felt a range of emotions- and maybe some of them were negative, the best thing you can do is return to yourself. Take comfort in yourself, soothe yourself, show up for yourself. Be your own best friend.
First of all, a self care night means actually giving yourself love. Actually taking the time to do what makes you happy and loved and appreciated. People often think that to feel loved and appreciated you need other people to make you feel that way??? That’s so wrong! Why would you put how you feel and your emotions in the hands of others when you could so easily give it to yourself?
So get the space all cozy and comfy with blankets and pillows because this night is the YOU night!
So the number one step to making you feel loved on your self care night is to learn your love languages and try to add in something for each love language. The 5 main love languages:
Physical touch
Words of affirmation
Acts of service
Quality time
Gift giving
Here’s a list of things you can do to give yourself love in each way:
Movies/shows you can watch:
Wizards of Oz
Gilmore girls
Bridgerton
Legally blonde
Mamma Mia
Any old Disney movies <3
Barbie!
Food & drinks:
Freshly baked cookies
Mini cake
Hot chocolate
Tea & biscuit
Ice cream
Self loving activities you can so by yourself!
Make sure to look at the list above for the love languages and do one from your top love language! Here are some more ideas to spend time with yourself and have a great time.
Journal
Paint rocks / canvas/ water color
Draw/ sketch your dream dresses
Read
Everything shower
Face mask!
Yoga
Paint your nails
Write a love letter to yourself
Braid your hair
Watch the sunset
DANCE! Some songs that are so danceable that you WILL get up and dance: 22, like a girl (old song😭😂) freak the freak out, dance the night (Barbie ofc)
Hope this helped you with your epic self care night and to also realise that you don’t need others to have an amazing time!
Reminders for myself and y'all.
‘bread is bad for you’ ‘rice is bad for you’ sorry im not subscribing to the idea that staple grains that have been integral to cultures for centuries are evil. i love you carbs
this is your 2025.
cultivate a life where you give 100% and receive 100%. plan out your days the night before, tick off your to-do list as you complete it and then watch it happen. nothing happens without the work.
Absolute beginner adult ballet series (fabulous beginning teacher)
40 piano lessons for beginners (some of the best explanations for piano I’ve ever seen)
Excellent basic crochet video series
Basic knitting (probably the best how to knit video out there)
Pre-Free Figure Skate Levels A-D guides and practice activities (each video builds up with exercises to the actual moves!)
How to draw character faces video (very funny, surprisingly instructive?)
Another drawing character faces video
Literally my favorite art pose hack
Tutorial of how to make a whole ass Stardew Valley esque farming game in Gamemaker Studios 2??
Introduction to flying small aircrafts
French/Dutch/Fishtail braiding
Playing the guitar for beginners (well paced and excellent instructor)
Playing the violin for beginners (really good practical tips mixed in)
Color theory in digital art (not of the children’s hospital variety)
Retake classes you hated but now there’s zero stakes:
Calculus 1 (full semester class)
Learn basic statistics (free textbook)
Introduction to college physics (free textbook)
Introduction to accounting (free textbook)
Learn a language:
Ancient Greek
Latin
Spanish
German
Japanese (grammar guide) (for dummies)
French
Russian (pretty good cyrillic guide!)
I am the perfect dream girl with the perfect dream life.
Carrie Bradshaw