You're Onto Something, And I Need To Know More Of It

reblog if you’re a writer who feels guilt whenever they’re not writing and being productive, so I know I’m not the only one lol

If I was paid for embarrassing myself in public, I'll be a billionaire

i've been shipping them since like 2019, and i remember being soo afraid of everyone finding out and hating me for it. i don't care anymore tho

being a regulily fan means being hated by both jily and jegulus shippers and i’ve made my peace with that

omg.

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✸ one hundred eight ; insane behaviour

This is absolutely catastrophic.

How does twitter work? Asking for a friend (help)

In your intro post, you say you use they/them/she/he pronouns but are there ones you prefer?

Hi! This is a complicated answer lol.

Honestly I tend to use they/them for the most part irl, because in a perfect world I would switch around between he/they, they/them, and she/they depend on what I'm feeling, but that's a lot for most people I know, and they/them never feels bad. Like it's always a safe pronoun for me. So when most people ask, I stick with they/them because irl, getting people to accept that is enough to fight for.

(She and he are also there because I like to play around with gendered terms. So like "brother" "sister" "wife" "handsome" "pretty" etc. I like to mix them up. )

You're welcome to use any pronouns for me, though. The only strong boundary is I just don't like when people strictly use she/her. That one would need to be mixed with others. The reason being, I was AFAB and using strictly she/her feels invalidating.

I hope that all makes sense?

what the actual fuck?? @staff

@staff

Yesterday someone sent me a link to the blog of a man filming women without their knowledge, following them and making close up of their butts, then offering to sell his videos and pictures to the thousands of men liking and rebloging his posts. The blog is called @ukcandidgod. I was thinking of asking everyone to mass report but then I checked his mutuals and discovered that tumblr has a huge community of stalkers.

I clicked on a few, those men stalk all sorts of women, including mothers pushing strollers, women sitting on a bench, they also take upskirt pictures and slow motion videos of women in public and they do so with the bravado of men who don't fear any repercussion.

In one video a woman realizes that she's being followed so she enters the nearest shop and turns around in horror when realizing he's still following her and then she starts running. He laughs about it.

In a lot of videos the man describes the woman as posing for him, flexing for him, swaying her hips for him, even though the woman is minding her own business, but he constructs a fantasy in which he's not stalking her but she's luring him instead. In one video the man sexually assaults a woman, grabbing her butt and she immediately turns around and tell him not to do that.

So those are men filming as they stalk and assault women. One post had 14k notes. I'm going to vomit if I look at any more of this. But feel free to report it.

@staff is Tumblr okay with posting videos of crimes against women? Is Tumblr a good platform to profit from criminal activities? It appears so.

I'm babysitting the cutest kid I have ever met

she is like one year old and she is obsessed with cats and music, I relate to that lol

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✸ ninety five ; nom nom nom glass