me when i find a new otp:
I am at fault for everything wrong that ever happened in my mother's life.
I waant so much to keep asking AO3 fanfic-writter if they’re going to update soon Dx but recently found a post from a few authors whose stories I love and they found it annoying :( and I don’t want to be like that, but it’s like “what if they are sad? what if they’re need help!? how cAN I KNOW?!!” and I can’t fricking help it but I worry >.<
Reading this made me cry, for real.
Source
My mom: why do you get up so late? You don't do anything at all, what could you be tired of?
Me, internally: I'm tired of this motherfucking shitty life and I wish I could take me off I don't want to live another fucking moment
Me: I don't know 🤷🏽♀️
you are not the only one, dear.
I just finished watching His Last Vow and I’m…..not sure how I’m feeling.
Hey pals! A bit of a different comic this week! I made this working with Bird Safe Guelph to help spread some information about birds and window collisions.
- the issue: between 16 and 42 million birds die from fatal window collisions each year in Canada
- the solution: retrofitting windows is an easy and effective solution to preventing bird deaths
- the details: markings on windows should be on the outside of windows and no more than 5cm apart to be effective
- take action: each person can save birds lives by retrofitting their windows at home
- For folks in Guelph, Ontario @birdsafeguelph will be giving out free materials for transforming windows at home in the month of April, visit www.birdsafeguelph.ca for more info.
And visit Flap Canada and Feather Friendly for more information on the topic! Americans can find more information on local city initiatives here.
Tonight’s tweet out to save #AlmostHuman 8pm ET, 7 CT, 6 MT, 5 PT (#)SaveAlmostHuman
Daily reminder, because this shit is so ingrained in global culture it makes me want to SCREAM, that vaginal sex is NOT SUPPOSED TO BE PAINFUL EVER. It is not supposed to bleed! No, not even when it's your "first time". That's not how it works and WHY WOULD IT BE? The vagina is a very cool dude that does this really cool thing: when sexually aroused, the tissue surrounding the vaginal opening as well as the muscle of the canal expands in width & length and lubricates. YES, EVEN "VIRGINS". You've probably heard something along the lines that "it hurts at first but it gets better" – NOPE. The vagina does not magically start functioning after a penis tears it open.
Painful sex is generally due to (other than ignorant partners):
- Minimal or no sexual arousal
- No additional lubrication (vaginal lubrication is great! it is also not always sufficient)
- Low oestrogen or unbalanced hormones (due to young age, health conditions, HRT, stages of menopause)
- Incompatible partners (yes, penises/strap ons can be TOO BIG, don't just pick up the biggest one you can find. look up how long the average aroused vagina is, seriously, then take into account your own anatomy and the position of your cervix at rest & when your vagina is mostly or fully aroused)
- Congenital conditions or a cervix that hangs lower than average
It is so important for people with vaginas to learn their body before having penetrative sex with a partner. PLEASE EXPLORE AND EDUCATE YOURSELF FIRST. Find what works for you. Do NOT put your health and safety in the hands of some idiot.
P.S. Sometimes it just doesn't work and that's okay. Vaginal sex is NOT the height of human experience. There are dozens of other mutually pleasurable sexual experiences to be had!
I’m doing an experiment to see how big the Spirk fandom is.