Kim Taking Notes On How Quickly Harry Tired Himself Out This Time. (They Spoke To 20 Different People

he’s thinkin

I forgot to post him heree~ That was a little experiment at the end of the last year and i was pretty happy with it. I like that approach and colors i picked so i definitely will do more things like this :> I wanted to capture the mixed feelings he has to Zagreus... Also wanted to try to make a sheer hoodie ...totally not because i drew things under and then i realized he had a hoodie... but that kind of make it more interesting i think? I'll take it as a happy accident.

I can't wait for the sequel!

Alright, wait up for my bishonen Harry coming up

He took a shower +1000 for hotness

I'll post it tommorow i think :>

im still not over this actually hdb is so goddamn hot . he deserves BETTER from the de community

Kim melting over flowers once again, now in watercolors! It was a part of a little comic you can find here. I wanted to practice with watercolors some more and this looked like a good excuse to do that :>

ive said it before and will say it again but if you’re trans and a bit into your transition and suddenly become super vain, obsessed with your looks and think you’re fucking hot? GOOD. keep it up

I just think he needs to be squished tighter and longer

i've realized that a lot of the things people who abide by the social expectations say are from their own perspectives and they cannot be accurately applied to my trans experience.

'don't transition, you're just insecure/mentally ill/traumatized(/whatever other reasons they have)' are all the failed attempts of a cis person empathizing in a way that ranges from inconvenient at best to transphobic at worst, depending on where they take their assumptions, and these perspectives don't take dysphoria (or euphoria, on the contrary) into consideration as a reason someone might want to transition, because cis people don't know the extent of our dysphoria, as well as the other experiences that we experience alongside it.

this attempt shouldn't be taken too seriously; it happens with many other people as well. 'you're just lazy' (against disabled people) 'you'll meet the right one someday' (against aspecs) 'just go outside, you'll feel better' (against mentally ill people and those facing worser issues besides mere depression) 'just go ahead and try it' (against neurodivergent people as well as those with physical disabilities), 'you'll be grateful when you get older' (against people who faced parental abuse), do these perspectives sound familiar? they all come from the people giving you advice in a way that worked for them, as a person abiding by the social expectations; many people aren't sure what empathy really means, and ao they empathize by giving eachother advice. those answers genuinely work for others like them; they won't for us. in worser scenarios, we're judged or hated because of their failed empathization. and because we're kept near the sidelines, and they manage to help eachother, anyone who doesn't empathize in the way they do is thrown out. people with low empathy and those expressing it in different ways also suffer from this. but even those who abide by the social standards aren't entirely accurate with their empathy, if they have it.

and i just wanted to share this, for anyone who's suffering from internalized transphobia (and perhaps other self views about other parts of your identity), in case it might help you distance yourself from it and worry less about whether they're right. they're not, because they're judging you from their viewpoint as a cis person. try not to take it to heart; you're fine the way you are, i promise.

Submitted May 27, 2023

Expelled from Word, he is now trying to contact you through other programs...

Look, I'm not a "details" person, all right?

Don't move. You can find full art here on twitter