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the forbidden flower (2023)

— ep. 24

xiao han & he ran

It Girl Affirmations

i love myself i love my body i love my mind

i love myself i love my body i love my mind

i love myself i love my body i love my mind

i am healthy i am confident i am compassionate

i am healthy i am confident i am compassionate

i am healthy i am confident i am compassionate

i know my worth i know what i will and won’t tolerate

i know my worth i know what i will and won’t tolerate

i know my worth i know what i will and won’t tolerate

the forbidden flower (2023) : appreciation post | otp + scenery

Saturn Dominant • ♄ 

Saturn is the planet of true wisdom. Simplistic astrology labels Saturn as “dogmatic & restrictive” yet it’s the planet of high intelligence. It is best placed in Air (intellectual) signs. Dominant in Aquarius , Exalted in Libra, Comfortable in Gemini. Albert Einstein had Saturn aspects to his mercury. 

Saturn in Aries / 1st {The Wounded Prophet} : Saturn is in it’s fall in Aries. A walking a shadow amongst the passionate youth. You’re the prophet that nobody wants to hear. Your wisdom is “outdated”, “unfashionable” & “conservative". Fiery Saturn tries to impose it’s beliefs too brashly & this makes you an outlier amongst your peers. This placement is the embodiment of a young person with an old soul. (Albert Einstein) / (Lana Del Rey)

Saturn in Taurus / 2nd {Mother Earth} : Taurus welcomes Saturn’s innate discipline & self control. Here, Saturn returns to the basics. The wisdom of mother nature & all it’s creatures becomes inspiration to you. The intellectual you, can comfortably detach from the mental plane & immerse yourself in the simplicity of nature. You’re frugal, practical & financially smart. (Aretha Franklin) / (Vivien Leigh)

Saturn in Gemini / 3rd {The Politician} : Saturn likes Gemini. The nervous energy is instantly squashed under foot. Here, Saturn is it’s own teacher. The mental ability is so introspective that it takes years it to be revealed & your leaning process is slow, steady & profound. Saturn utilizes the qualities of Gemini to become a master of knowledge. You have great analytical & comprehensive skills. (Scott Walker) / (Billie Eilish)

Saturn in Cancer / 4th {The Founding Father} : Saturn is underground building the foundations of an empire. Cancer reminds Saturn that the roots set here, shall carry the weight of the whole zodiac. Yet at the same time Saturn is unwelcome. One must be nurtured first, before they can be disciplined. Saturn creates a paradox by being here, and demanding rationality & maturity too soon. (Elizabeth I) / (Ava Gardner)

Saturn in Leo / 5th {The King’s Rival} : Here, Saturn is not the King, he is in competition with the King. And The Sun & Saturn are mortal enemies; the abused servant to Henry VIII. You become the puppeteer behind the scenes & you consider every fun activity a mock stage for the ego. Art is created with meticulous detail but you don’t seek praise. Having children is a serious matter that you value highly. (Stevie Nicks) / (Marilyn Monroe)

Saturn in Virgo / 6th {God’s Design} : Like, “jardin à la française”, Saturn imposes order in nature based on symmetry & patterns. You design the landscape of the human mind meticulously and skilfully, crafting an Utopia. This is an excellent placement for a budding artist. Talent matures like fine wine. Wisdom is acquired in humble pursuits. You have a great genius for medical & technological brilliance. (Gene Tierney) / (Serena Williams)

Saturn in Libra / 7th {The Philosopher} : Saturn loves to be adored by Libra! It is the perfect air sign, a vision of calm waters at sunrise. There is no other intellectual pool of knowledge like it. You’re connected to the human psyche & aware of yourself for the first time thanks to the mirror image Libra provides. Only through socialization & partnerships, can one understand the human capacity for higher thinking. (Judy Garland) / (Elizabeth I)

Saturn in Scorpio / 8th {The Judge} : Here, Saturn is appointed Judge of the Underworld by Hades, where sinners come to seek redemption. The only value, is the transformation that death offers. You develop a knack for finding hidden things & revealing secrets. There’s a heightened perception of the unseen. Plutonian Saturn travels to the depths of the human psyche, and returns a Demi-God. (Lana Del Rey) / (Rosanne Barr)

Saturn in Sagittarius / 9th {The Architect} : Out of all the fire signs, this is the one Saturn is most comfortable with. Saturn has achieved the heights of philosophy with Libra already, so Sagittarius offers the actualisation of philosophy. Here, you’re the architect Michelangelo, designing masterpieces in seclusion. Wisdom is acquired through the study of foreign cultures. (Grace Kelly) / (Marilyn Manson)

Saturn in Capricorn / 10th {The Emperor} : The power this placement holds is amazing. Here, Saturn is at it’s fullest potential. What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger. You’re very “sound of mind” & practical. You symbolise authority, respect, prestige & fame. Saturn Returns are the most beneficial here. Whatever potential your natal chart holds, Saturn is strong enough to guide you to success. (Walt Disney) / (Albert Einstein)

Saturn in Aquarius / 11th {The Master} : The detached & outrageous Aquarius secretly longs for a leader to guide them. Here, you’re is a prophet onto your peers, an unusual thinker. With the wisdom acquired through many experiences, Saturn stands upon the pulpit to preach to a new wave minds. This is where philosophy comes to be a religion. Knowledge for one, is knowledge for all. (Johnny Depp) / (Marlon Brando)

Saturn in Pisces / 12th {Washed Ashore} : Saturn was the master of structured nature in Virgo, but now it’s faced with a force of nature it cannot tame. Like a shipwreck, all your efforts are in pieces, sinking below. Saturn returns are the worst here, like earthquakes under water. Where Saturn cannot build, it cannot prosper. Discipline is hard to maintain. Yet this placement grants you the most glorious kind of wisdom; the wisdom of the solitary self. (Björk) / (Scott Walker)

You’re Saturn Dominant when you have; Saturn as the chart ruler, or conjunct ASC / DSC / IC / MC, or part of a stellium. *Depends on how strong the other planets are.*

Yes.

hobbies to try out ♡

hobbies are such a great way to spend your time rather than being on technology all the time. It's great to have a skill, as skills can help you make friends, and can also open up new job opportunities!! here are some ideas, some are easy and simple and others are a little more advanced, there's (hopefully) something for everyone !!

O1 , painting / sketching

O2 , ballet (or dance in general)

O3 , sewing

O4 , reading

O5 , journalling

O6 , gardening

O7 , baking

O8 , photography

O9 , creative writing / songwriting / poem writing

1O , yoga

11 , learning an instrument (electric/acoustic guitar, drums, piano, violin etc)

12 , bracelet/jewellery making

13 , thrifting

14 , skateboarding

15 , hiking / exploring

16 , calligraphy

17 , pottery

18 , knitting / crochet

19 , pilates

2O , learning a language

21 , origami

22 , archery

23 , bird watching , herping , and animal/bug study in general

24 , mycology , plant observation/documentation

25 , start a podcast or amateur radio

26 , roller skating

27 , gymnastics / acrobatics

28 , cardistry

29 , terrarium making

30 , calisthenics

hope this helps!!!

stop being second choice

Start with your relationship with yourself. If you see yourself as second choice, others will see it too. Learn to love yourself and put yourself first in your own priorities.

Learn to love yourself. You can't expect another to fulfill all your affection needs if you're not already enough for yourself. Take time every day to pamper yourself and do the things that bring you happiness.

Dare to take your place and say no when someone asks you something you don't want or can't do. Your time and energy are valuable, don't waste them on others.

Believe in your own worth. Don't let anyone make you doubt your worth. Or you give the impression that you are not “good enough”. You deserve a relationship where you are respected and appreciated for who you are.

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